posted December 07, 2018 10:51 AM
Hello,
so this is weird that i am posting this here.
Ive posted it before i mean maybe one year ago. And I really appreciated your help and I know that maybe in the past i was asking too many questions.
As I already told you in my previous posts i moved on. I graduated, searching for a job, i look good ( not bragging)i feel good.
I consider moving out to the other city for a job.What I want to say is about my last ex. Virgo guy.
We have been together short time 3 years ago.
I Know that now he has been coming through his saturn return and is being changed but whenever i want to move on he doesnt want me to (?).
I am a bit different than he is. All of his friends are more party-like, more laid back. I attended different school i am more 'technical' , i am even more stressed when you see me. Him and his friends are laid back people smoking drikning but working hard, very intelligent. He is more artistic I am more technical.
He comes from very rich family who was very strict and he's changed for super laid back guy totally different than his family. BUT he surrounds himself until now, with younger people, people whom he can help financially and mentally. I know that his parents helped financially his 2 best friends and its a weird transaction.
After that help he felt better, more powerful. That he can have a hand upon someone.
He wanted to help me as well because he knows my environment , his brother studies the same as me, so he wanted to help me by finding work and etc. But it was weird because it was in a way that i must have praised him or made him feel like a king.
I am Aries and i look only for the same-level partner. I dont wanna be mothered as i dont wanna look for a 'son' in a relationship. So his attidute was very weird to me . He is the same Moon as me- Capricorn so maybe that is why his attidute towards relationships is more economical and work- like.
Maybe i am too strict and i want to be recognised by my own, by only my work BUT i still sometimes get hints from him.
Its been 3 years i moved on and i started to be more powerful and etc. I look better, i sound better, i work better. I dont need 'any help' and i dont have anyone's back behind me . I am not dependent on anyone.
I started to see that he has many more female youg friends that he can help. Usually the same artistic environment like his other old friends. I dont want to dig deeper in that but i am very very curious about WHY he behaves like this. And why he wants to HELP everyone. Because he comes from rich family? Because he has resources?
Is he really looking for a praise and a perfect woman? (Virgo sun, cap moon, venus in libra) or its just boosting his ego?
I started to ignore him as i even stopped using social media and put him in some restricted lists - he always comes back to 'check' how i do. He always wants to know even a little detail of me.
WHY?
I wonder if he now wants to 'check' because he remembers me or wants to see me more powerful?
I put synastry chart here and our composite.
Usually my other exes have been different. I dont get any hints from other exes. We all moved on, have different lifes. I am not curious about their lives. Why is this Virgo still checking on me? Why does he want to remain in contact?
He was giving me 'superlikes' on tinder.
He sees and comments almost every of my 'facebook messanger stories'.
Why? Why now? After 3 years? When i really am thinking about moving to the other city and i look better and i am more influencial here?
Because i have repaired myself and he thinks im better unit now? If he liked me the way i am he didnt have to break up with me because i was not popular and etc in the past.
What do you think?
thank you!
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