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Hikaru29
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posted December 08, 2018 01:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So I'm seeing this guy but we keep our relationship a secret when we hang out, but it seems that people (incl. strangers) can tell we're a couple even though we may be just sitting side by side having a normal conversation and not touching each other.

Random strangers will ask if we're a couple.

Another time an acquaintance tried to matchmake us not knowing we knew each other.

There were many other times people just knew we're a couple even though we didn't say or do anything coupley. When we hang out he'll be with his friends mostly and I'll be with mine and we only talk briefly in between yet people can tell.

My friend says we have a "couple" look.

Are there aspects that might indicate compatible appearance?

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posted December 08, 2018 03:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MarsSaturnDelight     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It’s the subtle energy we give off in the presence of another, without knowing.

It’s impossible to stop, humans are great receptors of our environment. So it’s not hard for others to feel the change in energy when you’re with that person.

Does that make sense? Feel like I’ve rambled.

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posted December 08, 2018 04:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SoulOfABird     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Usually I think a 1st house stellium in the composite chart can indicate this.
But like the person above said you guys probably naturally radiate that chemistry together so though you guys realizing it. You guys probably have that aura together. And people sense that. It’s a good thing because it must mean that you guys must really like eachother.

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posted December 08, 2018 06:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Bearee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Maybe you have the Sun in the 7th house in the Davison chart? (I don’t use composite charts)

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posted December 08, 2018 09:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by SoulOfABird:
Usually I think a 1st house stellium in the composite chart can indicate this.
But like the person above said you guys probably naturally radiate that chemistry together so though you guys realizing it. You guys probably have that aura together. And people sense that. It’s a good thing because it must mean that you guys must really like eachother.

We do have a stellium in the 1st house! I don't know the vibe we give out together but a friend has said we looked happy together the first time she saw us (at that time she didn't know who he was and asked my friend if we were dating). So I realised we give out quite an obvious vibe.

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posted December 08, 2018 06:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Brenda_S     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Not to break your bubble or anything, but I wouldn't necessarily say it means anything chemistry-wise.

My ex husband and myself, people would always comment on how happy we look together. Like everywhere. I'd have this frozen smile as a response lol I really didn't feel the things people saw. (remember him using this excuse like 'see even they think we're perfect together' duh whatever lol just felt like chiming in here)

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posted December 08, 2018 08:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
Not to break your bubble or anything, but I wouldn't necessarily say it means anything chemistry-wise.

My ex husband and myself, people would always comment on how happy we look together. Like everywhere. I'd have this frozen smile as a response lol I really didn't feel the things people saw. (remember him using this excuse like 'see even they think we're perfect together' duh whatever lol just felt like chiming in here)


Oh, I wasn't actually talking about chemistry in this thread. I was referring to purely appearance as a couple. It's the others who say we probably exude a chemistry tog, and it's true we do feel happy together. We really enjoy each other's company and there's an affinity.

I understand what you said about you and your ex though becos my friend and her ex-partner was like this... happy on the outside only. With her current partner it's again like this. She covers it up very well. I can never do that... all my emotions are written on my face.

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posted December 08, 2018 10:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LaceyLeigh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think it’s just the man/woman dynamic. I assume every man/woman hanging out alone are a couple.

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posted December 08, 2018 10:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Brenda_S     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Oh, I wasn't actually talking about chemistry in this thread. I was referring to purely appearance as a couple. It's the others who say we probably exude a chemistry tog, and it's true we do feel happy together. We really enjoy each other's company and there's an affinity.

I understand what you said about you and your ex though becos my friend and her ex-partner was like this... happy on the outside only. With her current partner it's again like this. She covers it up very well. I can never do that... all my emotions are written on my face.


Oh ok. Yeah I think that's probably composite related, like the energy exuding from the both of you. (I'm not sure his ToB but I assume he's Pisces AC, and if so our composite AC was Taurus - guess it gave that harmonious appearance)

Honestly I think people can read me pretty easily. I think. But on the other hand, when I was with him it was just us hanging out sorta. Like there was no reason to have any negative emotions then ya know. So maybe that's why.

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posted December 08, 2018 11:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
I think it’s just the man/woman dynamic. I assume every man/woman hanging out alone are a couple.

If you read my initial post carefully, we don't hang out alone. Always with friends and mostly he's with his and I'm with mine.

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posted December 08, 2018 11:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LaceyLeigh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
If you read my initial post carefully, we don't hang out alone. Always with friends and mostly he's with his and I'm with mine.

Gotcha, I still think it’s just a guy/girl together thing. Even if you feel like you are keeping your relationship on the low, people are still going to notice that you will gravitate towards the person you are in a relationship with. It’s only natural.

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posted December 08, 2018 11:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
Oh ok. Yeah I think that's probably composite related, like the energy exuding from the both of you. (I'm not sure his ToB but I assume he's Pisces AC, and if so our composite AC was Taurus - guess it gave that harmonious appearance)

Honestly I think people can read me pretty easily. I think. But on the other hand, when I was with him it was just us hanging out sorta. Like there was no reason to have any negative emotions then ya know. So maybe that's why.


Our Composite Asc is Gemini so it makes us really sociable as a couple + we have Mars/Jupiter in 11th house. But we also have a stellium in Cancer and Moon in Scorpio so I can really feel these 2 signs' energies when I'm with him (even though people say not to look at signs). I get extremely sensitive and easily hurt by what he says/does and so does he. The mood is always serious but in a loving and intense way. Sometimes it can be suffocating though becos he's a Leo Venus while I'm a Gemini Venus and we love to have fun (and we do) but we get drawn into the watery mode often. We also find it very hard to hate each other. With my ex we had mostly air and fire planets so I felt more light-hearted in that relationship. Ah... I digressed.. haha.

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posted December 09, 2018 12:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Brenda_S     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Our Composite Asc is Gemini so it makes us really sociable as a couple + we have Mars/Jupiter in 11th house. But we also have a stellium in Cancer and Moon in Scorpio so I can really feel these 2 signs' energies when I'm with him (even though people say not to look at signs). I get extremely sensitive and easily hurt by what he says/does and so does he. The mood is always serious but in a loving and intense way. Sometimes it can be suffocating though becos he's a Leo Venus while I'm a Gemini Venus and we love to have fun (and we do) but we get drawn into the watery mode often. We also find it very hard to hate each other. With my ex we had mostly air and fire planets so I felt more light-hearted in that relationship. Ah... I digressed.. haha.

You're making me wanna check the actual signs with this other guy lol, makes sense what you're saying about being drawn into a different energy than what you're composed of.

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posted December 09, 2018 03:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
You're making me wanna check the actual signs with this other guy lol, makes sense what you're saying about being drawn into a different energy than what you're composed of.

Do check becos I believe that signs matter. That's what I've observed in my composites with different people. With my bestie we have a composite filled with Sag, Aries, Gem and we're always on the move, doing things...going places...knowing people and talking.. We talk non-stop. Very restless energy when we're together. With another friend we have Cancer, Taurus etc and we like to be alone just talking about deeper stuff about life. We also look after each other a lot...very caring energy esp from her and she finds me a comfortable presence.

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posted December 09, 2018 06:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SoulOfABird     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
We do have a stellium in the 1st house! I don't know the vibe we give out together but a friend has said we looked happy together the first time she saw us (at that time she didn't know who he was and asked my friend if we were dating). So I realised we give out quite an obvious vibe.

Wow! Yeah I think that’s it. There was a guy I liked (doesn’t count though, he’s a celebrity 😂 how lame) and I read on our composite charts on astro( you might want to check your guys out on there) and it said we had a lot if placements that indicated looking good together. We had a 1st house stellium in our composite, and I cant remember exactly which placement they said made us look good together to other people. Like a dream couple. Maybe you guys have that placement too. I will double check to see what placement it was. But yeah it can do that I think.
We had a lot of Pisces in our composite along with a Pisces rising. Even though I don’t know him personally I feel an amazing connection with him. Whether it’s real or not I don’t know. Maybe not. But who knows. Maybe that spark is there between you guys.

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posted December 09, 2018 08:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by SoulOfABird:
Wow! Yeah I think that’s it. There was a guy I liked (doesn’t count though, he’s a celebrity 😂 how lame) and I read on our composite charts on astro( you might want to check your guys out on there) and it said we had a lot if placements that indicated looking good together. We had a 1st house stellium in our composite, and I cant remember exactly which placement they said made us look good together to other people. Like a dream couple. Maybe you guys have that placement too. I will double check to see what placement it was. But yeah it can do that I think.
We had a lot of Pisces in our composite along with a Pisces rising. Even though I don’t know him personally I feel an amazing connection with him. Whether it’s real or not I don’t know. Maybe not. But who knows. Maybe that spark is there between you guys.


I think you're referring to Sun in 1st house but it says it makes the couple conscious of how they appear to others. :P

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posted December 09, 2018 09:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for abrightfutureahead     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Actually I was thinking in your synastry, having a lot of placements In eachothers 12th house, or possibly 8th, would show why this relationship seems to be a secret, or hidden from others. I would imagine the luminaries, sun or moon making contact with eachothers Ascendants might be why you look good together.

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