posted December 10, 2018 04:41 PM            

I have these conjunctions with a guy who I really like. Would someone please offer their interpretation of them and how it may add to our already seemingly effortless communication? Are any of these more significant than the other asteroids?

Thank you in advance!!

My Isis conj his Osiris (in Sag)
My Isis conj his Vesta
My Osiris conj his Neptune (in Sag)
My Vesta conj his Neptune
My Sappho conj his Pluto
My Eros conj his Venus (in Virgo)
My Valentine conj his Mercury
My BM Lilith conjunct his Sun (in Cancer)

His Isis conj my Psyche (in Scorp)
His Psyche conj my Venus (in Scorp)
His Sappho conj my Sun
His Eros conj my BM Lilith (in Cancer)
His Valentine conj my Jupiter
His Adonis conj my Mars

posted December 12, 2018 01:47 PM            

I am in blue and he is in red.

posted December 12, 2018 05:48 PM            

This is a new relationship I take it? I think over time you will feel he is not meeting your needs.

posted December 12, 2018 05:54 PM            

4th house connections can be warm and bring two people together quickly. A big sense of familiarity. Which would open you up and help you to share and communicate well. You also put your Sun in his 3rd, so he feels he communicates better with you and around you.

posted December 12, 2018 06:01 PM            

Yes, it is fairly new...the attraction/chemistry seems to be there but because it's new, we haven't been intimately involved but when we kiss, it's pretty hot and passionate...

Is this what you were referring to?

posted December 12, 2018 06:10 PM            

This is our Composite.

posted December 12, 2018 07:38 PM            

on the other hand, this is definitely a significant relationship for him. It's hitting his Sun, his Mercury, his Moon, his Mars/Venus... on and on. He is definitely more in to this than you.

I suspect that over time he will want to commit and you will not. I am sorry, I don't want to dampen your excitement. I know how dating these days goes... and I know the fun you are likely having now!

posted December 13, 2018 12:21 PM            

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Originally posted by StoneMoon:
interestingly, the composite moon squares your venus. So while this won't help the synastry for the two of you, it will probably indicate that the emotional nature of the relationship will be meaningful in some way to your Venus, or love nature. but this also aspects your ASC, so this will be significant for you. It may not be that this is the permanent relationship type thing significant, but that in the end it teaches you something meaningful about what you need in a relationship, how you express your affection or love values, and even how you present yourself to others. The composite is not otherwise really hugely impacting your chart. Little bits here and there, but I would like to see more.

on the other hand, this is definitely a significant relationship for him. It's hitting his Sun, his Mercury, his Moon, his Mars/Venus... on and on. He is definitely more in to this than you.

I suspect that over time he will want to commit and you will not. I am sorry, I don't want to dampen your excitement. I know how dating these days goes... and I know the fun you are likely having now!

He's my Astro twin by the way! Never seen that before. But he was born just a day or two after me. I am basically looking at my chart!

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Thank you for your input! How funny that you guys are astro twins

Why is DSC is important? You said - And for you, Venus is doubly important bcs it rules your DSC, in Taurus.

So from what you are describing, this sounds more like a good friendship kinda relationship? Weird, because the chemistry is definitely there for me...

posted December 13, 2018 04:40 PM            

DSC is important because it is how we receive relationships. For couples to go the distance, you want the 5th, 7th, and 8th houses to be highlighted. If not the actual house, then the ruler of that house. It's especially significant if you have the rulers of ASC/DSC interacting with each other in addition to the houses being highlighted.

This is why I have no doubt you feel chemistry- you have enough aspects to ignite this fire. But I believe that overtime he just won't cut it for you. I have experienced this personally. We loved each other, and he hit my 5th, 7th, and 8th, but I didn't hit his. He could not commit to me. He saw me as a fling, an affair... It went on for years due to Saturn aspects, but it could never be permanent or concrete.

posted December 14, 2018 12:20 PM            

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Originally posted by StoneMoon:
asteroids are nice, and they do add to the picture, but they are not enough to compensate for the lack of planets. You especially need personal planets engaged. You will feel chemistry, but it will determine staying power when and if personal planets are aspected.

DSC is important because it is how we receive relationships. For couples to go the distance, you want the 5th, 7th, and 8th houses to be highlighted. If not the actual house, then the ruler of that house. It's especially significant if you have the rulers of ASC/DSC interacting with each other in addition to the houses being highlighted.

This is why I have no doubt you feel chemistry- you have enough aspects to ignite this fire. But I believe that overtime he just won't cut it for you. I have experienced this personally. We loved each other, and he hit my 5th, 7th, and 8th, but I didn't hit his. He could not commit to me. He saw me as a fling, an affair... It went on for years due to Saturn aspects, but it could never be permanent or concrete.

Planets are your base ingredients, asteroids are your herbs and spices. They add interest and put a spin on the relationship, but without the solid base ingredients at the foundation, you have just spice and no real recipe. Make sense?

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Yes, it makes sense and I really appreciate your input, StoneMoon! It's just I thought that as long as you had aspects between the two (Sun, Moon, Venus Mars, etc.) contacts and those were positive, then it would have a pretty good chance of going somewhere. I looked at our chart and thought we did have all those aspects, so that's why I am surprised to hear that you don't think there is anything in the chart that would point to having a successful long-term relationship.