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Jupitarian
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posted December 18, 2018 03:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jupitarian     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have been looking at a chart of a friend and some not so good men in her life.

Both guys have a Venus/Pluto conjunction in their natal chart, conjunct her ascendant.

Both men have been rather horrible to her in the past and I wonder: Does this aspect explain some of that?

Man number one has the conjunction from her 12 house and Man number two has got it from her 1st house.

With both guys there has been a strange mix of abusive attitudes with a sexual vibe that has been very unpleasant.

Man number one went to the same highschool as her, bullied her like crasy during school hours making her life a living hell! It ended with him gropig her behind a shelf at the local supermarket, scaring the witts out of her!

Man number two was a coworker and workleader that she felt constantly belittled her in front of others and had his eyes glued to her bottom all day long....

Is Venus/Pluto to ascendant a possiby difficult or bad aspect to have in synastry?

How would this aspect play out in a typical scenario?

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Dumuzi
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posted December 18, 2018 03:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dumuzi     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i have a pretty good online friend i have this aspect with (in libra conjunct my venus/ascendant), i've known him for years, and he's always been there for me and understanding etc when i've needed to talk, gets me thoughtful gifts just because, never been purposefully cruel to me or anything

but our synastry is really intense with a few red flags in it (my moon is opposite his venus/pluto conjunction, my mars is square it, uranus sextile, mercury sextile) that i wonder if being near him in person would be different

he's a scorpio (my pluto is conjunct his sun/uranus conjunction and he has a scorpio mercury) so i imagine that doesnt help

but again never anything but nice, cant say that'd be the same in person i just can't imagine otherwise in spite of the synastry

i know he finds me attractive but he's never even really hit on me, just has said that

that being said venus/pluto on ascendant can be a red flag though, and seems like it is for her, planets aspecting her ascendant in her chart probably add to that

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Jupitarian
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posted December 18, 2018 04:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jupitarian     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus Pluto will be about intense feelings, possiby a love/hate thing? One singel aspect will not alone be to blame for the things they did, but it could set things of, I guess both in natal and synastry....

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sassaqua
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posted December 18, 2018 04:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sassaqua     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes, I'd like to know what the aspects are in the male's charts, and also hers.

Not the same but I've just had an "interesting" interaction with someone with a Pluto square ascendant. So my ears pricked up. It was online only, but definitely had hallmarks of abusive intentions imo.

Can you post all charts maybe?

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