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Aquarian Moon
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posted December 20, 2018 12:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aquarian Moon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
We met up at a holiday party of Friday and danced most of the night. We’ve been texting daily ever since. No date yet, but he said we will hang out soon.

I’m loving the conjunct angles and double whammy modes to the angles. This may be why we feel such a pull towards each other.

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LunaIscariot
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posted December 20, 2018 03:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LunaIscariot     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Add the aspect table. And who’s who?

Seriously don’t understand why people cut the bottom portion off wtf, that should be illegal lol. Makes trying to read charts way more complicated when you can’t see the orbs 👍.

Anyways though, outside person is wayyyyy more into the inside person than vice versa. Going to be an unrequited love/imbalanced relationship once the initial flattery/attention of the outside person wares off. The main draw for the inside person especially if they’re a women with that mars in Leo and Scorpio DSC, is the fact that the outside person will be so into them, mars in Leo wants lots of attention and romance and courting and Scorpio DSC wants that passion and undivided attention/obsession etc. But this will be a fling at best, inner person will be the one to ultimately end it. Not enough true matching of what that inner person is looking for.

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Aquarian Moon
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posted December 20, 2018 04:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aquarian Moon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sorry, I’m the inside person. Yes, he is pursuing me hard, but I enjoy it. I find him attractive. I like the chase. He’s pretty hot. He’s wasn’t my first choice. I had a crush on another man.

Why do you think he has stronger feelings? I mean,he does, but I wonder what is contributing to that. Yes, I am a woman with the Leo Mars.

I also added the aspect table.

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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
Add the aspect table. And who’s who?

Seriously don’t understand why people cut the bottom portion off wtf, that should be illegal lol. Makes trying to read charts way more complicated when you can’t see the orbs 👍.

Anyways though, outside person is wayyyyy more into the inside person than vice versa. Going to be an unrequited love/imbalanced relationship once the initial flattery/attention of the noutside person wares off. The main draw for the inside person especially if they’re a women with that mars in Leo and Scorpio DSC, is the fact that the outside person will be so into them, mars in Leo wants lots of attention and romance and courting and Scorpio DSC wants that passion and undivided attention/obsession etc. But this will be a fling at best, inner person will be the one to ultimately end it. Not enough true matching of what that inner person is looking for.


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sassaqua
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posted December 20, 2018 06:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sassaqua     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for posting the grid

I think that with the Mars and NN in first house/ascendant, and with the Mars opposite your Venus, what LS says is accurate for initial attraction. That Venus with Uranus in his 5th house is pretty exciting. And, given that your personal planet Venus is there, you will feel different and more accessible to him than other people of your generation that he usually comes across. You will be embodying an other-worldly sparkly "something about you" feeling for him. And his Saturn right on it, will keep you on his mind, making him want to commit to the pursuit over a time period. He won't just forget about you after that meeting. We could say something similar about your planets there in his 4th house: he's "feeling" your presence.

With your Moon on the MC is very easily "seen" in the world and his Mars can see it, and finds that Moon of yours attractive. Additionally (TOB accurate) that moon being on his DC is very receptive to him and highlights the him able to see it very clearly vibe, and finding it attractive. Equally so, with his Venus/Mercury (TOB dependent) easily seen on HIS MC, and your lovely Moon aspects to it, there is a connection there of recognition for each other. You are both seeing and feeling the deeper person of each other. There is a vibe there that you are tuning into.

The grid tells a more complicated story to these points of initial attraction as ever it does. Not bad necessarily, but it's the next layer to assess with your synastry that will tell the personal dynamics should you begin a relationship

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Aquarian Moon
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posted December 21, 2018 08:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aquarian Moon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you for taking the time to look at the charts. See, this is what I’m feeling also. There’s something intriguing about him. He doesn’t feel like a common f-boy. Lol. For me, it’s turned into a soft yearning, but I also realize this is because of my descendant and Venus placement (oh, Scorpio!). We are taking our time and he seems eager to chase, but also get to know me at his own pace. My Juno is also conjunct his south node. It’s not listed above. While we were dancing, he called me a goddess. I was flattered, but then again guys say whatever nonsense to get sex. Funny enough, he’s not really chasing sex. He’s taking his time to get to know me.

I do see the Saturn and harder placements. My intuition is telling me he may be possessive. I’m not really down with that, but my Venus likes the attention and is passion. We shall see.

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Originally posted by sassaqua:
Thanks for posting the grid

I think that with the Mars and NN in first house/ascendant, and with the Mars opposite your Venus, what LS says is accurate for initial attraction. That Venus with Uranus in his 5th house is pretty exciting. And, given that your personal planet Venus is there, you will feel different and more accessible to him than other people of your generation that he usually comes across. You will be embodying an other-worldly sparkly "something about you" feeling for him. And his Saturn right on it, will keep you on his mind, making him want to commit to the pursuit over a time period. He won't just forget about you after that meeting. We could say something similar about your planets there in his 4th house: he's "feeling" your presence.

With your Moon on the MC is very easily "seen" in the world and his Mars can see it, and finds that Moon of yours attractive. Additionally (TOB accurate) that moon being on his DC is very receptive to him and highlights the him able to see it very clearly vibe, and finding it attractive. Equally so, with his Venus/Mercury (TOB dependent) easily seen on HIS MC, and your lovely Moon aspects to it, there is a connection there of recognition for each other. You are both seeing and feeling the deeper person of each other. There is a vibe there that you are tuning into.

The grid tells a more complicated story to these points of initial attraction as ever it does. Not bad necessarily, but it's the next layer to assess with your synastry that will tell the personal dynamics should you begin a relationship


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Aquarian Moon
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posted January 04, 2019 12:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aquarian Moon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Feedback: We met up and it was magical.

He and I talk about difficult and deep probing subjects quite easily. He is an open book and deep well. I’m enjoying getting to know him. Our communication is the easiest I’ve had with a potential partner. Also, we were intimate and it was great, to say the least. Very passionate. He is very sensual and giving. He is very considerate.

There’s one thing I noticed. He is holding back. He is quite controlled and laid back about whatever he’s controlling. He’s not forth coming with feelings. Could be because his Venus fallsvin my 12 house or his own cancer moon in his 12 house natal.

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margym0o
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posted January 04, 2019 12:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for margym0o     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Aquarian Moon:
Feedback: We met up and it was magical.

He and I talk about difficult and deep probing subjects quite easily. He is an open book and deep well. I’m enjoying getting to know him. Our communication is the easiest I’ve had with a potential partner. Also, we were intimate and it was great, to say the least. Very passionate. He is very sensual and giving. He is very considerate.

There’s one thing I noticed. He is holding back. He is quite controlled and laid back about whatever he’s controlling. He’s not forth coming with feelings. Could be because his Venus fallsvin my 12 house or his own cancer moon in his 12 house natal.


Why don't you post the composite?

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Aquarian Moon
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posted January 04, 2019 12:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aquarian Moon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by margym0o:
Why don't you post the composite?

The composite is a bit of a hot mess. I’m a Venus in Scorpio so maybe I can handle this intensity. I don’t know.

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sassaqua
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posted January 05, 2019 07:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sassaqua     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for the update

His Saturn on your Venus/Uranus will be felt as holding back.

It's a good idea to see his natal to discover how he manages relationships and feelings.

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capricorncheriscty
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posted January 06, 2019 12:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for capricorncheriscty     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
?? Seems more like the inner person would be feeling this relationship more, not the outer person. The synastry, I mean.

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