posted December 25, 2018 04:17 AM
I'm thinking some aspects may be good to have in both natals (e.g. if both have Venus-Neptune harmonious aspects, they can be dreamy/romantic together) but if it's difficult aspects like Pluto hard aspect to Sun/Moon or Sun/Moon hard aspect to Mars etc it will make their interactions volatile. Or will this actually help them understand each other better?Sometimes I see certain composite aspects and people saying it's good they both have it in natal as they're familiar with this energy. There are also others who say they both have it in natal and it makes it harder.
What's your take?
Example:
Both people with Moon-Saturn hard aspects = both emotionally closed and hard to connect
Both with Pluto-Mars/Mercury hard aspects will have epic fights. Similarly, both with Pluto-Venus hard aspects will each try to control & manipulate the other.
Both with Uranus hard aspects will be too unstable as a couple (or they will actually enjoy having free, independent separate lives?)
On the other hand, some aspects may benefit from complementary traits from a partner.
Example:
People with Pluto hard aspects may benefit from a partner who's more calm and stable, i.e. people with harmonious Saturn aspects.
People with Saturn hard aspects may benefit from a partner who's more optimistic and happy, i.e. Jupiter harmonious aspects. People with Jupiter hard aspects may be too "bubbly" for Saturn's taste.
People with Uranus hard aspects may welcome some Saturnian (stabilising) energy from their mate.