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Topic: Getting player vibes !
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HappyLoewe
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posted December 27, 2018 07:20 AM
  
 Unfortunately I don't know his birth time so I had to use Noon. He's very tall (6ft 3), strawberry blonde, blue eyes. He told me that he has an ex from years ago but he hasn't had a GF since then. He liked two girls in recent times but neither went anywhere. He tends to go for blondes (Scandinavian looking imo) who are feminine but sporty. He is big into sports and plays various sports. What do you think of his natal please? IP: Logged |
MMarie
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posted December 27, 2018 02:06 PM
I can only make a guess here...still learning about astrology.  But would think Jupiter in aspect to Mars and Venus would “expand” his love life. Also the Venus Jupiter square could give him more player tendencies as opposed to a trine or sextile. IP: Logged |
HappyLoewe
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posted December 27, 2018 03:38 PM
Thanks MMarie, appreciate the response.He started seeing a girl a little while back (it was about 5 dates) and he was upset when she called things off - he actually cried! She had recently come out of a relationship and her ex was still causing issues so she called things off with him. He then went on a few dates with another girl but that fizzled out - communication issues. The reason for the player vibes is that he has tons of girl mates but I don't think he sleeps with them or has slept with them but he seems to collect girls along the way. He is very charming and easy to be around but I just keep getting this nagging feeling that he plays the field. I could be maligning him but always trust the gut!! IP: Logged |
MMarie
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posted December 27, 2018 03:59 PM
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Originally posted by HappyLoewe:
Thanks MMarie, appreciate the response.He started seeing a girl a little while back (it was about 5 dates) and he was upset when she called things off - he actually cried! She had recently come out of a relationship and her ex was still causing issues so she called things off with him. He then went on a few dates with another girl but that fizzled out - communication issues. The reason for the player vibes is that he has tons of girl mates but I don't think he sleeps with them or has slept with them but he seems to collect girls along the way. He is very charming and easy to be around but I just keep getting this nagging feeling that he plays the field. I could be maligning him but always trust the gut!!
Yes always trust your gut! I also wonder if Moon opposite Neptune and Uranus has some sort of effect into this. Not sure how those aspects would play out - could be deceiving emotions or unpredictable/ sporadic emotions? Again, just a guess but maybe search threads on this site for those aspects.
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llewsacm
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posted December 27, 2018 07:59 PM
If he's very tall, chances are he was born during the morning hours. Maybe even a cancer moon. Cancer asc and moon can be big crybabies...lol. they also need women in their life, doesn't mean they are players. They just favor a woman's company. Leo Mars should be more on the loyal side...they just tend to like attention. Venus conjunct Saturn signifies a loyal and caring person, but they may have issues showing it at times. IP: Logged |
MMarie
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posted December 27, 2018 08:07 PM
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Originally posted by llewsacm:
If he's very tall, chances are he was born during the morning hours. Maybe even a cancer moon. Cancer asc and moon can be big crybabies...lol. they also need women in their life, doesn't mean they are players. They just favor a woman's company. Leo Mars should be more on the loyal side...they just tend to like attention. Venus conjunct Saturn signifies a loyal and caring person, but they may have issues showing it at times.
Why do you say if he is tall he is born in the morning? Is that a thing? Lol funny because I am tall born in the early morning...
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LunaIscariot
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posted December 27, 2018 09:25 PM
Sounds like a sag rising with Jupiter there. The height, sports, strawberry blonde (reddish hair).
Also, Mercury (in Aries) would be his 7th ruler and Aries in his 5th cusp would also explain the attraction to sporty or athletic girls (Aries/mars). Gemini is also usually a blonde sign, plus his 7th ruler being in the 5th house and conjunct the sun (Leo is the other blonde sign), 5th house/sun has same influence.
Also, his moon would probably be in cancer if he’s a sag rising right?
Moon in cancer is emotional (you said he cried) and they are comfortable and relate and connect very well with women, that’s why he has a lot of female friends. Moon in cancer people favour women, even the men usually since they’re so feminine themselves they connect easier than with other guys. Does he have a longer/thin face, and is he very friendly/warm or funny/silly/good sense of humour? IP: Logged |
HappyLoewe
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posted December 28, 2018 02:21 AM
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Originally posted by llewsacm:
If he's very tall, chances are he was born during the morning hours. Maybe even a cancer moon. Cancer asc and moon can be big crybabies...lol. they also need women in their life, doesn't mean they are players. They just favor a woman's company. Leo Mars should be more on the loyal side...they just tend to like attention. Venus conjunct Saturn signifies a loyal and caring person, but they may have issues showing it at times.
Hi Llewsacm, thanks for taking a look. I thought he might have a Cancer moon because he does have this soft, sensitive side and he's not really flashy per se. I have seen this vulnerable side to him on occasion too. I was a little surprised by his Moon/Saturn conjunction because he does have a lot of female friends and he's very friendly with them. However, his last GF was several years ago so maybe this conjunction is really playing out. IP: Logged |
HappyLoewe
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posted December 28, 2018 03:15 AM
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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
Sounds like a sag rising with Jupiter there. The height, sports, strawberry blonde (reddish hair).
Also, Mercury (in Aries) would be his 7th ruler and Aries in his 5th cusp would also explain the attraction to sporty or athletic girls (Aries/mars). Gemini is also usually a blonde sign, plus his 7th ruler being in the 5th house and conjunct the sun (Leo is the other blonde sign), 5th house/sun has same influence.
Also, his moon would probably be in cancer if he’s a sag rising right?
Moon in cancer is emotional (you said he cried) and they are comfortable and relate and connect very well with women, that’s why he has a lot of female friends. Moon in cancer people favour women, even the men usually since they’re so feminine themselves they connect easier than with other guys. Does he have a longer/thin face, and is he very friendly/warm or funny/silly/good sense of humour?
Hi Lunalscariot, thanks for responding. I have adjusted his chart to give him a Sag asc which puts hi moon in Cancer. One of his friends described him as having a bit of a dad bod (hahahaha) but he is not fat at all but he does have a sort of soft look at times. He actually took one girl on a running date (hahaha)! I've looked at my camera roll and he does have a longer thinner face but I've also got some photos of him where his face looks a little fuller too. I would describe him as being funny/silly/GSOH. His Aries mercury is definitely felt at times - he says it as it is and he doesn't pull his punches but he is very funny too.  IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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posted December 28, 2018 03:59 AM
People with Jupiter aspects are usually popular because they're optimistic, happy and outgoing. Square to Venus may make him overdo a little...Also the Pisces Venus guys I know always have lotsa female friends. Gals are attracted to that softness in them and if he's a Cancer Moon, it's even more unsurprising (haha) + Leo Mars loves the attention.But he has Saturn-Venus so I believe he's serious and committed when he falls in love. Pluto-Moon makes him feel deeply and again if he's a Cancer Moon, he's actually emotionally very sensitive.
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waxlobster
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posted December 28, 2018 08:06 AM
I actually think he sounds lovely and you are viewing him through your own filter i.e. if he's good looking and popular he probably can't be trusted. I take it you are interested in this man? Otherwise him being a player or not would not be relevant? ------------------
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HappyLoewe
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posted December 28, 2018 03:21 PM
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
People with Jupiter aspects are usually popular because they're optimistic, happy and outgoing. Square to Venus may make him overdo a little...Also the Pisces Venus guys I know always have lotsa female friends. Gals are attracted to that softness in them and if he's a Cancer Moon, it's even more unsurprising (haha) + Leo Mars loves the attention.But he has Saturn-Venus so I believe he's serious and committed when he falls in love. Pluto-Moon makes him feel deeply and again if he's a Cancer Moon, he's actually emotionally very sensitive.
Hi Hikaru29, thanks for responding. He does have lots of female friends. I did ask him if his friends would say he was a lothario and he said probably. I get the feeling he is searching for something though, which is fair enough tbh. He's only had one GF before (ended a few years ago) and he did say he could not sit across from his ex if she walked into the room. I thought it quite a dramatic statement to make esp as they spilit a good while ago. He is a lot of fun and very funny so he is quite uplifting to be around and his Aries mercury will just say outrageous things at times. I do find Pisces venus to be flirty but in the "I don't have to try that hard" sort of way. I do wonder with all of these female friends that he has why he hasn't converted one into a GF though? Curious really. IP: Logged |
HappyLoewe
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posted December 28, 2018 03:29 PM
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Originally posted by waxlobster:
I actually think he sounds lovely and you are viewing him through your own filter i.e. if he's good looking and popular he probably can't be trusted. I take it you are interested in this man? Otherwise him being a player or not would not be relevant?
Hi Waxlobster, thanks for responding. To be fair, he is lovely and we do hit it off really well. I am very sarcastic towards him and we quip back and forth really easily. He says he loves my sarcastic sense of humour and the fact that I don't give him an inch makes it an interesting challenge for him. To me though, this is just typical chat from boys. I think your comment is fair about me viewing him through my own filter but I find myself surprised that I'm drawn to him really. He pays me a lot of attention whenever we are around each other and he's said to a mutual friend that he knows how busy I am so he's taking the back-foot for now! IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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posted December 29, 2018 10:16 AM
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Originally posted by HappyLoewe:
I do wonder with all of these female friends that he has why he hasn't converted one into a GF though? Curious really.
None of them are his type, simple as that. He's probably searching for a very specific type of gal. IP: Logged |
todd
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posted December 29, 2018 01:06 PM
hi HappyLoeweoff the top it doesn't seem he is a player because the grand trine of mars,jupiter/vertex and sun/mercury iindict4s he is into serious relationship or wants a serious relationship. and venus is conjunct to Saturn which can shoe a devotional emotional nature.
though with Saturn square to Jupiter and the midpoint conjunct Uranus and opposed to the moon, he might have problems sustaining relationships. the uranus/moon opposition could indicate he seeks out women who are not as commitment oriented as he might be. but there is one aspect that can be characteristic if a"player".
his mars/Neptune midpoint is conjunct the node and square the moon/Uranus opposition.
this pattern is quite strong . but his sensitivity(crying when the latest gf broke it off) struck a different cord in me....
this is very speculative but the mars/neptune player could suggest he is gay or has gay tendencies.
this would explain the numerous women around him ..we used to call these "fruit flies". that is women attracted to the sensitivity of many gay men.
many times the signature of aay man is a strong mars/Neptune aspect along with a strong pluto.
here he has the moon/pluto midpoint opposed to the venus/sun midpoint... as i said this speculative but some of the descriptions of his behavior ring true to this supposition.
also the pluto aspect is not as direct as would make me sure this scenario applies to him. but we are in the age of transgender ascendancy, whether this is true social impulse or whether this is a political instigated social conditioning(which i believe is more accurate). todd IP: Logged |
HappyLoewe
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posted December 29, 2018 04:08 PM
Hi Todd, thanks for responding.I was waiting for someone to say it because I too, did wonder if he might have a gay side. There is a softness that runs right through him but he's got this blunt, straightforward way of talking which can be quite shocking at times. Defence mechanism or just his Aries merc being Arian ??? I've never seen him be that type of friendly with a guy and he is closest male friend is very chilled out and very much into the ladies. Once, there was a small group of us at dinner and we ordered some oysters and I downed one and he said "How delicately done [my name]" (hahahahah). However, in my circles, guys will chat like this. He does come from a broken home and I think it took its toll on him growing up. I just wonder if he is very sensitive to women because his mother, according to him, had a very hard time adjusting to the divorce. I might watch him a bit more closely just to see if I can see/feel anything more about him though. Thank you for your other insights too. IP: Logged |
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