posted January 02, 2019 02:17 AM            

I know a few different people (my older brother and exes included) who all have their Neptune really close to my Black Moon Lilith.

My (Sag) Lilith opposes my (Gem) Mars rx.

My curiosity is really will they ever see me clearly? I often end up very frustrated and they never seem to understand that I AM frustrated until I'm absolutely losing my mind (even then!) and often fight me at every step of the way. One of these people even has their own BML opposite mine and it sometimes feels like two cats avoiding eye contact when communication really needs to happen!

Is there a trick to communicating with Neptune placements?

I would like to have more of a healthy relationship with some of these people, but they seem entirely blind to a big part of me and how I express myself. I kind of wonder if my Mars being retrograde (in my 3rd) causes greater communication difficulty.

Does anyone else have experience with this type of placement?

MARS opposite NEPTUNE (DW)
NEPTUNE conjunct BLACK MOON LILITH
BM LILITH opposite BM LILITH