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Topic: Why it doesn't seem to work?
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mega_biscoito
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posted January 02, 2019 12:00 PM
  
Is it possible to know by a Natal Chart why relationships doesn't seem to work ever?Is it possible to know if it's more probable becoming single for ever or something else? Here is my natal + transits + progressed chart.  IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted January 03, 2019 04:48 PM
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margym0o
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posted January 03, 2019 05:23 PM
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Originally posted by mega_biscoito:
Is it possible to know by a Natal Chart why relationships doesn't seem to work ever?Is it possible to know if it's more probable becoming single for ever or something else? Here is my natal + transits + progressed chart.
I'm not sure if this will help you, but I know a woman with the same birthday as you and she found happiness with a man 5 years younger than her (March 22, 1983 is his birthday). They have their Cancer moons conjunct, along with other helpful aspects. They met midway through 2015 and got married in May of 2018, and just welcomed their first child last month (2 weeks before her 40th birthday). I don't know her that well, but I do know she had a roller coaster love life before meeting her now-husband online. In her late 20's/early 30's she had a very on/off kind of relationship with her much older boss at work, and I guess finally ended it when she realized he was never going to take her or whatever they had seriously. From what else I know, she lived a quiet life and mostly kept to herself. Very much a bookworm. She wasn't the type to be out every weekend in hopes of finding a man. So, don't despair...real love is out there! Having said that, her chart houses are different than yours. She has a Sag ascendant with that Sun/Neptune conjunction hovering right around it. Her now-husband is heavily Piscean, and with her Gemini DSC it makes sense that he is younger than her. Being born at 1:00pm has Pluto falling in your 7th house. That could have something to do with it. Projecting that Pluto energy onto a potential partner is not for the faint of heart. You will need to "meet your match" intensity-wise, or the relationship will eventually crumble under its weight.
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implosions
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posted January 03, 2019 06:12 PM
It would really depend on isolating what type of issues come up when a relationship presents itself!Having Pluto in the 7th is already a tough spot for any relationship (friendship, etc), as it can lead to powerstruggle dynamics intentional or otherwise. Usually about fairness, keeping the peace or possibly even indecisiveness. Mars on your MC makes me think that you are a REALLY driven, qualified person for whatever you put your mind to. However since Mars is also part of your 10th, I would say that anyone you have a relation with would NEED to be very driven and goal oriented, or just a hard working person in their area. Opposite Moon in the 4th is a very sensitive placement, especially since it's conjunct the IC! Emotions are very intense (even more so with Mars opposing) and having someone emotionally mature might be needed on all fronts. There's absolutely nothing to say you won't have good relationships! Pluto in the 7th is one of those things though that usually means we have to work a lot of our shadow selves out before we find a relationships become healthier and happier in the long run. (I've got this placement myself so I totally feel you on this.) IP: Logged |
astri
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posted January 03, 2019 07:04 PM
I wonder if your 12th house South node placement in Pisces isn't a factor as well in this all the while Neptune is exacerbating it by transiting the 12th house. This SN placement can give a victim consciousness. Focussing on the NN is always a good idea  IP: Logged |
astri
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posted January 03, 2019 07:06 PM
Also check how your POF is aspected . Squared with venus could give feelings of never being lucky in love. IP: Logged |
Orange
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From: Georgia
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posted January 03, 2019 07:58 PM
your chart ruler (self) Mars opposes your 5th house ruler (romance) Moon, the opposition is along the MC/IC axis and it spells a dichotomy between what you want from a romance and what you need. Maybe your upbringing was giving you conflicting signals as to what love is about ( IC and MC involved). There is a problem getting a romantic connection off the ground. I don't see a problem with long term relationships or marriage per se, because your 7th house ruler Venus is okay in the 7th house and not afflicted. It is those initial stage of falling in love and stabilizing the romance that is in disharmony with your being. I think appropriate progressions will help you getting thru the initial stages and once you pass it, settling down with someone, preferably of a plutonian character, wont be a problem. btw, your progressed Venus is approaching your natal Sun with a conjunction, it will become exact in 5 years but you will feel it at least 2 years before it, so you will fall in love and find love in a big way, in 3-4 years. It's coming up for you, no way out of it. Its gonna be glorious! IP: Logged |
LunaIscariot
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posted January 03, 2019 08:36 PM
Well you have Venus in Scorpio and Pluto in the 7th... so you’re probably very intense and maybe jealous, possessive or controlling with your partners. Or too clingy, too emotional, Demanding or overbearing, Pluto in the 7th can make one crave drama in a relationship, causing turmoil, arguments, power struggles and manipulation etc. It’s rather unconscious as well so you probably don’t think you’re this way, that’s the glory of the 7th house haha we don’t see ourselves this way but our partners do.
Also that Venus (the 7th ruler) is conjunct Uranus. Uranus also causes things to be unstable, and erratic and can make crazy stuff happen in regards to your lovelife. Unpredictability, short term flings etc. So you have 2 tough placements, but you just need to find someone very Plutonian themevlses so they can handle your intensity and emotionalism in relationships. Your cancer moon also shows you being rather emotional and moody.
Mars and moon also square your DSC axis, so yeah conflicts and being very emotional and moody/mood swings will be a theme in your relationships with others. Try not to be so emotionally impulsive or reactive. That will push others away. IP: Logged |
aamhz
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posted January 04, 2019 02:25 AM
To me, your chart seems very un-afflicted relationship-wise. The only problem I can see from the chart regarding relationships is perhaps quick temper-type flare-ups (Mars and Moon square DSC)- which escalate to the end of those relationships suddenly (Scorp Venus, conj Uranus, Pluto 7H). The good news is those breakups would happen early on, so the issue is you need to simply learn to weather the storm(s). With Venus 7H I would expect you to have a lot of relationship opportunities, but it does seem you are fated to experience lots of upsets (because you need to learn certain lessons).IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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From: Asia
Registered: Nov 2018
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posted January 04, 2019 03:39 AM
mega_biscoito,
I also have been asking myself this qn...why all my relationships don't seem to work? What's worse is I have a lot of Neptune in my chart and Pluto is in 5th so I jump into love again and again and get obsessed and get really hurt EACH and EVERY time, it sucks! I've NN on my Dsc and it says this aspect can cause a delay in marriage. As for your chart... qn: are you very ambitious and a workaholic? Your Saturn in 6th and Sun/Mars conjunct MC seem to suggest so. Career success is very important to you and you will work very hard to achieve it. Sun/Mars are also squaring Asc which can give you a tough exterior and make you come across feisty even though it may not be your intention. Did anyone ever tell you that? However, your Saturn squaring Sun can make you overly hard on yourself and you may suffer from low self-esteem as a result. Your ambitious Mars opposing Moon in 4th conj. IC may cause you to struggle between personal achievements and settling down. So I'm curious (and I may be wrong here)... are these one of the reasons you find it hard to "secure" a relationship? There's also another side to you.... your Saturn is in tight sextile to Venus = you want love and you're serious, esp for that 7H Venus. Your Pluto in 7th also shows that you seek a very intense, all-consuming partnership. Not everyone can match that. Your Venus conjunct Uranus may cause you to fall in love fast, then realising it doesn't match your expectations and intensity. Or you may find a partner who's too possessive. However, your 7H Venus & Pluto are telling me that when you find that perfect partner, your relationship can be intensely beautiful. I'll be envious.
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