posted January 04, 2019 04:08 AM            

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Originally posted by aamhz:
Being "just friends" with this person is not in the cards (My Sun/Merc/Mars in their 4th, their Venus in my 5th - Composite Sun/Merc in the 4th, 5th House Venus+Mars, 7H Moon -- to be brief), so what are other meanings for this NN?

This relationship is done, forever, I'm asking to expand my Astro knowledge...

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Don't just look at house placements and assume how 2 people feel for each other. I've my planets mostly falling in his 6th, 10th, 12th yet he told me he absolutely doesn't and cannot take me only as a friend. Same for composite, don't assume the relationship nature just because the planets fall or don't fall into typical relationship houses.

Back to your qn on NN in 11th... 11th rules hopes, dreams and social groups and 5th rules personal pleasures, fun, love, children, etc so when applying it to a composite, I'm thinking it could mean a couple having to break away from 5th activities and move into the 11th realm, not the be friends or be lovers kinda thing btw. You guys may be indulging too much in personal pleasures and not achieving dreams/goals?