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Topic: Can he commit?
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virgoscorpio Knowflake Posts: 71 From: Registered: Aug 2018
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posted January 27, 2019 04:22 PM
Hi, I met this man around a month ago and we were instantly best friends. This has been the closest relationship I've ever had, and we just met. We talk every day and though I would love to have a relationship with him, I'm concerned that he might not be able to commit. He says he wants a longterm relationship, but he says he is conflicted because he also wants freedom to do what he wants and make his own choices. At this point I'm really not sure if I should commit to anything with him or not. Can you take a look at his natals and give me your opinion on whether or not he could commit to a relationship in the future? He is also finishing up his Saturn return, so I'm sure that doesn't help. His natals: Synastry: Composite: IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 107299 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 28, 2019 12:07 PM
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 107299 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 05, 2019 10:14 AM
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LaceyLeigh Knowflake Posts: 1184 From: Registered: Jul 2014
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posted February 05, 2019 10:03 PM
I think so, just make sure you’re not too restricting of his freedom since your saturn squares his sun. Mars opposite Venus is a really attractive aspect to have. Merc conjunct merc seems good for communication. It looks pretty good.IP: Logged |
virgoscorpio Knowflake Posts: 71 From: Registered: Aug 2018
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posted February 06, 2019 06:00 AM
Ok thanks!IP: Logged |
LaceyLeigh Knowflake Posts: 1184 From: Registered: Jul 2014
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posted February 06, 2019 08:48 PM
The composite looks nice too. With a wide love stellium.IP: Logged |
virgoscorpio Knowflake Posts: 71 From: Registered: Aug 2018
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posted February 06, 2019 09:30 PM
Ok thanks! We are very close friends right now and I wouldn't be surprised if it eventually becomes a relationship but I'm happy with us being friends at the moment. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 107299 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 13, 2019 06:07 PM
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waxlobster Knowflake Posts: 795 From: Birmingham Registered: Mar 2011
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posted February 16, 2019 01:54 PM
that exact Moon Uranus conjunction in synastry is interesting. You can help him feel free but also you may find that he tends to push away intimacy as a result. Your connection will create many ideas and sparks though, so I think overall this will be an uplift.Do note that Uranus moves into Taurus in March and it will get as far as 7 Taurus before it goes retrograde, so it will station on his DSC which will be interesting. Mid-Summer he may change his mind, and possibly change it again....just pre-warning you. Not that he means to be confusing but Uranus does tend to shake things up and make us a little more eratic. Interestingly Uranus conjunct my DSC made me want to commit, for the first time. Uranus dominates my chart though, and it's like the Wheel of Fortune in tarot. It changes what is, for better or for worse ;-) ------------------ You can now book readings about twin flame relationships from me, as well as natal reports: https://www.etsy.com/shop/Waxyjo How will February be for us all? Check out my latest blogpost to find out more: https://waxlobster.blogspot.com/ ♥ IP: Logged |
virgoscorpio Knowflake Posts: 71 From: Registered: Aug 2018
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posted February 16, 2019 03:28 PM
Thanks!What's interesting is that we have a very free, open relationship. We talk on the phone for about an hour every day. Since we live about 6 hours away from each other, we don't hang out in person a lot, but we are talking about me moving in with him over the summer, either as friends or as some kind of relationship. It will be interesting to see how Uranus transiting his 7th house will affect him since he is already someone who is not very grounded and needs a lot of freedom in a relationship. IP: Logged |