posted February 11, 2019 12:48 AM            

We met in June 2017 and it felt like we knew each other for years! The funny thing is two years before this I met other people in a similar way. The similarities are that they were both foreign born and in 2015 it was my first experience getting close with actual immigrants. Around the first of September in 2017 I had the compulsion to ask for her birthday (for the purpose of doing her chart as this just felt fated), and it turned out that her birthday was two days later (Virgo was my first guess as I'm very familiar with that energy)! I surprised her with a birthday card, and we got closer. I looked at her chart and found out that she had the Sun, Chiron, and Valentine on my ascendant! Later on, I found out that my name asteroid in my chart is on her Juno exact and my name asteroid in her chart is conjunct Mercury and Eros! On my birthday, I gave her another friend card, this time being more intimate, and she then went cold out of the blue except for one encounter where I found out she was teaching her son the amount of English she knew and she also asked me if I liked certain foods and drinks, which was strange if she was only going to go cold again.

I looked at my Solar Return for 2018 and discovered that her name asteroid was at the midheaven, on my natal ascendant, but opposite Neptune! That explained my infatuation and that this is all likely part of the storyline, as the 2019 Solar Return has numerous relationship indicators! Venus conjunct natal Jupiter (and trining SR Vertex and Saturn), Mars in the fifth house, Juno conjunct North Node and her last name asteroid in the 5th house, and Vertex, Eros, the Solar Return Moon is in the natal 7th house, and Cupido in the 7th house conjunct, opposite Neptune and Karma (as well as the Anti Vertex) on my natal North Node, in the natal 7th house. I'm also going through a Valentine return at the same time, as well as a Juno return later this month, both where her name asteroid is prominent on the angles, and my 2019 Venus return is around the time of the July Solar Eclipse, where the Sun, Moon, and Valentine will be on her Mars (the Moon is conjunct the North Node in my Venus Return, otherwise it's the exact same configuration)! Both this eclipse and the last Lunar Eclipse have the ascendant exact on my natal ascendant as well and Venus is conjunct Jupiter in the chart for the last eclipse, on my IC, trine Mars and directly opposing progressed Venus... also, 2019 Solar Return Venus is at the midpoint of SR North Node and natal North Node as well!

Other interesting things are that my last Mars return was at the same time as her Venus return last year, her 2019 Solar Return is on the same day as my Lunar Return, and my 2020 Solar Return is on the same day as her Lunar Return, and the last eclipse was at the Sun/Chiron and Mercury/Jupiter midpoints in our composite and touched our Davison Chiron (which ties into the fact that her Chiron is on my ascendant), and the North Node will transit our composite Sun in a month and a half, and then the composite South Node shortly after! She will also be going through her Karma return in late March, shortly before my Karma opposition

posted February 11, 2019 03:33 AM            

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Originally posted by sophie20:
Has anyone had an intimate friendship that was not an ONS were it was fated that you were meant to be and with time it turned into a relationship BUT not before you had to basically go through hell to make it work.

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I wish I have encouraging testimony to share but I'm still going through hell and right now I'm taking a break from him. But like Kewf, I'm also seeing a lot of relationship signs in my 2019 Solar Return + his SR Name will be making a return.