posted February 17, 2019 09:49 PM            

I’ll add the chart with my father. This has been one of the most difficult relationships of my life. Very up and down. I think it has deeply effected me and my relationships with other people. I can’t say it is due to synastry alone because he has many issues himself and had a hard childhood. My sister has not had such a hard time with him though, or maybe it affected her less? As I’m posting I notice his Chiron on my NN. Maybe this means as a kid he caused hurt for my future? Not sure.

I am inside.

posted February 17, 2019 11:00 PM            

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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
His Saturn is square your sun/moon, that’s tough. You probably feel him as being critical and cold towards you. Like you’re not good enough or he’s always telling you what to do, what he thinks you should do etc. He probably accuses you of being immature, dramatic or childish as well. Reprimands you a lot. He could also make you feel awkward or inhibited like you can’t be yourself. That Saturn of his is also opposite your mars... so it creates a t-square with your natal sun/moon and mars. That doesn’t feel good since Saturn isn’t a warm or pleasant planet lol. It’s cold, hard and critical.
That other t-square created with your sun/moon/mars with his sun is another tense and conflict ridden pattern. Irritable is what comes to mind. You get irritated by him and the way he expresses himself or his character. Could even be competitive towards each other. But definitely some tension and irritability towards each other. Like you rub him the wrong way with your mars square his sun.
His Pluto/Jupiter is also involved here! Yikes. Mars square Pluto is another tense aspect that can even show violence and abuse.
Mars square sun and mars square Pluto, you guys are going to have a hard time getting along lol. Power struggles and manipulation etc.
And lastly, that mercury square mars is showing a tendency to disagree or get into arguments as well.

The fact your sun and moon and his sun and moon are in opposite signs shows you two are VERY different people. Not much in common and not easy to understand where each other are coming from.

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Yes oddly I’ve never really looked into our synastry but with all the aspects you pointed out it’s terrible lol. And you are right about pretty much everything you said. No physical abuse but definintely some emotional/mental. I get anxiety before I have to see him.

Here is our composite -

posted February 17, 2019 11:13 PM            

Composite -