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Topic: Signs and aspects - please explain
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ana_bee
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posted February 21, 2019 10:41 AM
  
So I was wondering about something lately..
Let’s take the Venus/Mars conjunction e.g in Synastry
Very hot aspect. Sexual compatibility. Passion etc.What if this conjunction happens between signs that are rather “underwhelming” in the sexual department.. like Virgo or Capricorn.. Will this connection still produce mind blowing sex??
Will these people suddenly ravish each other.. or will the sex still be rather stiff and more on the cool side, but these people will enjoy it anyway, because it suites them just right? Any experience? IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted February 22, 2019 11:46 AM
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margym0o
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posted February 22, 2019 01:37 PM
I don't think sex necessarily has to be wild, swinging off the chandeliers, ripping each other's clothes off etc. to be mutually satisfying.There are just as many people who enjoy tender passion (touching, rubbing, kissing and so on) without the theatrics. To me this would embody what the earth signs find satisfying. So in an earthy Venus/Mars conjunction, they enjoy the sensory albeit quieter pleasures of sex. IP: Logged |
kani
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posted February 23, 2019 03:05 AM
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Originally posted by margym0o:
I don't think sex necessarily has to be wild, swinging off the chandeliers, ripping each other's clothes off etc. to be mutually satisfying.
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Bismarck
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posted February 23, 2019 11:40 AM
quote:
Originally posted by ana_bee:
So I was wondering about something lately..
Let’s take the Venus/Mars conjunction e.g in Synastry
Very hot aspect. Sexual compatibility. Passion etc.What if this conjunction happens between signs that are rather “underwhelming” in the sexual department.. like Virgo or Capricorn.. Will this connection still produce mind blowing sex??
Will these people suddenly ravish each other.. or will the sex still be rather stiff and more on the cool side, but these people will enjoy it anyway, because it suites them just right? Any experience?
Something I've come to realize, especially as a man, is that there's no such thing as "mind-blowing sex." Someone is either attracted to you, or they're not. They're either willing to learn how to please you, or they're not. If you want good sex, then teach them. Ultimately, this question makes no sense to a man, because we would assume that if a woman wanted something to change sexually she'd speak up. When it comes to sex, men often times don't think in terms of "quality." They think in terms of "quantity" and "variety." IP: Logged |
ana_bee
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posted February 25, 2019 05:03 PM
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Originally posted by Bismarck:
Something I've come to realize, especially as a man, is that there's no such thing as "mind-blowing sex." Someone is either attracted to you, or they're not. They're either willing to learn how to please you, or they're not. If you want good sex, then teach them. Ultimately, this question makes no sense to a man, because we would assume that if a woman wanted something to change sexually she'd speak up. When it comes to sex, men often times don't think in terms of "quality." They think in terms of "quantity" and "variety."
Let me guess.. your Venus is either in Virgo or Capricorn? 
I don’t agree with you! Yes you can learn certain techniques, and by getting to know a person better, with time you figure out, what they’re into and what not.
BUT this is not what I understand under ‘mind-blowing-sex’!It does exist, because I’ve experienced it. To me it is about meeting a person and feeling an instant connection. You feel their sexual energy through something as simple as a handshake or a glance across the room. Physical attraction does matter to a certain degree, but it’s not as simple. It’s not just about finding someone hot or beautiful. There are plenty of attractive people you wouldn’t feel that kind of connection with. But when you have this instant spark, everything just falls into place. It doesn’t matter how versatile or experienced they are in bed.. it’s about the exchange of energy. You just want to be close to them. And every thing they do, just feels right anyway.
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Bismarck
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posted February 25, 2019 10:45 PM
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Originally posted by ana_bee:
Let me guess.. your Venus is either in Virgo or Capricorn?
I don’t agree with you! Yes you can learn certain techniques, and by getting to know a person better, with time you figure out, what they’re into and what not.
BUT this is not what I understand under ‘mind-blowing-sex’!It does exist, because I’ve experienced it. To me it is about meeting a person and feeling an instant connection. You feel their sexual energy through something as simple as a handshake or a glance across the room. Physical attraction does matter to a certain degree, but it’s not as simple. It’s not just about finding someone hot or beautiful. There are plenty of attractive people you wouldn’t feel that kind of connection with. But when you have this instant spark, everything just falls into place. It doesn’t matter how versatile or experienced they are in bed.. it’s about the exchange of energy. You just want to be close to them. And every thing they do, just feels right anyway.
Venus in Pisces, actually. I guess I just haven't experienced what you're describing. IP: Logged |
ana_bee
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posted February 26, 2019 03:55 AM
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Originally posted by Bismarck:
Venus in Pisces, actually. I guess I just haven't experienced what you're describing.
I hope you will some day!  Your Pisces Venus will appreciate that kind of .. yes almost soulful connection IP: Logged |
ScandinavianCrab
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From: Scandinavia
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posted February 26, 2019 04:02 AM
I dont think it would ever be underwhelming for the individuals involved. The only one who, imho, would feel underwhelmed would in that case be someone who has, for example, squaring traits(?)And from my experience mars opposite mars is far more hotter than mars/venus! IP: Logged |
StoneMoon
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posted February 26, 2019 07:37 PM
I’ve had the conjunction in Virgo. The attraction was through the roof. The sex was just meh. The best sex I’ve ever had was my venus trine his mars. Holy crap was that good. Even when it was bad it was amazing. I’ve never had sex like that since. IP: Logged |
Dumuzi
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posted February 26, 2019 07:41 PM
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Originally posted by Bismarck:
Something I've come to realize, especially as a man, is that there's no such thing as "mind-blowing sex." Someone is either attracted to you, or they're not. They're either willing to learn how to please you, or they're not. If you want good sex, then teach them. Ultimately, this question makes no sense to a man, because we would assume that if a woman wanted something to change sexually she'd speak up. When it comes to sex, men often times don't think in terms of "quality." They think in terms of "quantity" and "variety."
disagree, that can be true a lot of the time, but some people you just feel them past the skin and connect to them in a way that's different and deeper IP: Logged |
sassaqua
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posted February 26, 2019 09:08 PM
Off topic, but..How you doing these days ana_bee? I cannot find your other thread but if you want to update us it would be welcomed
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Hikaru29
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posted February 28, 2019 04:55 AM
I don't know... ever since I experienced a very underwhelming Venus trine Mars DW with an ex, I've been feeling disillusioned and doubtful about this connection. Rather, I've had very nice and intimate sex with Mars-Mars connection (opposite and trine), so that seems to work MUCH better for me. IP: Logged |
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