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Topic: Whats this thing of loving someone so much is hurts..
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TaurusVenusGirl
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posted February 28, 2019 11:44 PM
  
What would you expect to see in Synastry or Composite to feel this way? Whats your experience?IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted March 01, 2019 10:01 AM
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ana_bee
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posted March 01, 2019 12:43 PM
Chiron comes to mind.
But I’ve made the experience that it’s mostly hard aspects to Neptune and I can tell you why:
With a composite aspect of Moon or Venus opposite Neptune, your feeling nature is heightened to the max. Great expectations, the feeling you’ve met your soul mate.. To open up that way, makes one extremely vulnerable for dissapointment. You get the feeling you’ve made a soul connection to someone, but it’s actually an illusion. Hard Neptune aspects bring out a victim/savior behavior. You start to give and give but it’s like a bottomless pit and never truly gets reciprocated in an appropriate way. The relationship that hurt me the most had these aspects. Other than that, the whole chart looked fine.
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implosions
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posted March 01, 2019 04:53 PM
Chiron, Neptune, Pluto and Ceres have been the ones that trigger the most feelings, IMO.A strongly placed Moon connection can too, as it can be emotionally fulfilling, very much so for people who may not have their needs met otherwise (yet). IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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posted March 02, 2019 04:18 AM
You should look at your synastry as it shows how you feel towards each other. To be able to feel hurt, you must first be deeply touched by this person. Plenty of aspects to your Moon/Venus and angles.So the hurt can come in the forms of: 1) Your Moon/Venus receive a lot of nice aspects while his Moon/Venus are hardly touched. You feel hurt because you feel a lot more than him. 2) His Neptune squares several of your personal planets. You will start of with a lot of idealism in this r/s...he seems perfect to you in every way... but over time, the veil will come off piece by piece and you realised he is far from perfect. You feel disappointed and hurt as you may feel that you have been "cheated". 3) Pluto squares... his manipulative ways hurt you. 4) Saturn squares... his criticism hurt you. 5) Chiron IP: Logged |
Lalafortunaea
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posted March 02, 2019 06:50 AM
Moon + chiron aspects.With that, if there's Jupiter aspecting Chiron, or aspecting the moon (one or both), pain and love together will "blow up and multiply" Add Venus to the mix and you've got the perfect love-pain cocktail. IP: Logged |
mirage29
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posted March 02, 2019 11:37 AM
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SunAscendant
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posted March 02, 2019 04:53 PM
Chiron because it's the wounded healer and Pluto for obsession . Chiron-Pluto synastry contacts, also nodal contacts with chiron and/or pluto might show this as well.IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted March 06, 2019 02:21 PM
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TaurusVenusGirl
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posted March 07, 2019 05:16 PM
Thanks for your replies everyone. IP: Logged |
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