posted March 02, 2019 09:18 PM            

As I began to type, it sounded more and more petty because I am being petty but Im also a human being and I can't help my intense emotions, I wish I could. So I'll just keep the stupid situation to myself because I am being stupid.

I thought I had grew out of this whole 'jealousy' thing ( I prefer to say insecurity or trust issues ) but it's reared it's ugly head and I am biting my tongue from lashing out because I feel insecure. I thought I had evolved, matured and grew out of this but something has sparked me and I'd like some astrological answers if anyone could shed light. I know there is Venus Square Mars but it feels like potent deep jealousy, I didn't think Venus Square Mars would be like that? It seems like a Mars Square Pluto If I had to desribe It!

posted March 02, 2019 10:27 PM            

Is this a relationship, a friendship, a family dynamic?

posted March 02, 2019 11:44 PM            

Breath, relax, no amount
of worry or jealousy shall
Do any good, whatever shall
happen, shall..
If anything, all that negative
Thought energy is feeding what
you are thinking...

Big Hug of Love

posted March 03, 2019 12:00 AM            

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Originally posted by ballerina:
Sweetheart

Breath, relax, no amount
of worry or jealousy shall
Do any good, whatever shall
happen, shall..
If anything, all that negative
Thought energy is feeding what
you are thinking...

Big Hug of Love

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posted March 03, 2019 12:09 AM            

Love and Understanding

Sweet Dreams
Ggod Night/\Morning

Smile for mileS

posted March 03, 2019 10:43 AM            

Taking a stab in the dark but are you the Gemini Sun, Virgo Moon?

I would assume that this would be the more jealous partner (aka you) because of the Venus/Mars/Chiron/South Node in Cancer + Jupiter in Leo falling into the Scorpio's 12th/11th house. My thought was that the Cancer stellium feels insecure with their planets bordering in their partners 12th house because maybe they feel they don't truly understand their partner, maybe they're being kept in the dark surrounding a number of things and are just left to guess, plus Cancer is inherently security-centered and the 12th house is an ambiguous place to be.

Or YOU could be the Scorpio and maybe your partners Cancer's planets in your 12th make you feel like you hardly know them, that they're always elusive to you, you're never really sure where they stand in your life... if you are the Scorpio you also have Saturn conj your DSC (inherent need for transparency/security/stability)

See how important it is to clarify the charts?

I'm just gonna assume you're the double water person (Scorpio Sun/Cancer Moon) as jealousy is usually inherent in these signs when loyalty seems murky to them. Plus you have Pluto conj Mars so you would be attracted to a powerful type of man that others can't help but admire - this is usually a consequence of that (other girls being drawn to him)

I think his planets in your 12th house is always going to give you an itchy feeling as Pisces in your chart has stern Saturn sitting tough in your 7th house, so you're not necessarily comfortable with that fluid and mysterious energy, you need something way more solid (like Capricorn, this is emphasized by Saturn conj DSC, your big stellium in the 4th - though I can see why his Cancer placemenets also attract you as they're trine your Scorpio stellium in the house of Cancer)

In my opinion.. this is good synastry and you likely have nothing to be worried about, but yes some things do ping your insecurity radar.

posted March 04, 2019 09:14 PM            

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Originally posted by ballerina:
Sweetheart

Breath, relax, no amount
of worry or jealousy shall
Do any good, whatever shall
happen, shall..
If anything, all that negative
Thought energy is feeding what
you are thinking...

Big Hug of Love

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posted March 04, 2019 09:45 PM            

Also, i am sensing great
hostility from you, why?

posted March 04, 2019 10:22 PM            

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Originally posted by ballerina:
I said, that i had that..
could you show me where,
Please?

Also, i am sensing great
hostility from you, why?

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It was this thread.

posted March 04, 2019 10:34 PM            

Walking with God...

posted March 04, 2019 10:34 PM            

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Originally posted by ballerina:
I still don't see what
you are saying!?
That link says nothing
of what you said!?

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The title of the thread was: Mercury in Harmonious Aspect to Venus

And your response was:
Most often, if i say a negative
thing, i say CANCEL right after,
then
Poof, it's gone!

I guess you don't have the aspect, but rather something you do in general?

posted March 04, 2019 10:38 PM            

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Originally posted by ballerina:
That's funny, i don't even
know if i have that aspect!?
I haven't looked at my chart
In 10 years...
Don't need it...

Walking with God...

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posted March 04, 2019 10:50 PM            

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Originally posted by ballerina:
I really don't remember my
chart!? and am told i don't
need to...
Do you want to help me with
it? Maybe i should look at
it again!?

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True, it's not something one needs to do. It's more out of interest you know.

But sure I'll help you if you wanna check it... Go to https://www.astro.com/index.htm and click on 'Horoscopes' and then scroll down to 'Natal Chart, Ascendant'. You'll be able to add a person from there. Input your details and click 'Continue'.

posted March 04, 2019 11:02 PM            

5-5-1966
6:25 pm
Sherbrooke, Canada
Quebec

I know my sun is taurus
Ascending is Libra
Moon in scorpio
I think i have mars and mercury
In Taurus, saturn in Pisces...
and not sure of the rest...

posted March 04, 2019 11:42 PM            

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Originally posted by ballerina:
God says...
He/\she are measuring
you from thumb to little
Finger...

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posted March 04, 2019 11:48 PM            

Anyway they stopped at
the middle finger...

Rofl

posted March 04, 2019 11:49 PM            

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Originally posted by ballerina:
Isa....

Anyway they stopped at
the middle finger...

Rofl

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