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posted March 06, 2019 06:29 PM            

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With this overlay it's all about money I don't like this in synastry at all. I have this with someone and they just think that I am their bank account and I mean literally. And when something goes wrong with them financially they blame me if I don't help them. I am even in debit because of this person.

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posted March 06, 2019 07:43 PM            

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I haven't experienced it personally but my friend does as the 2nd H with almost anyone she is with.
She is lucky in that she gets expensive presents and stuff like that but she doesn't ask for it.

Are you the 2nd H or the planet?
Do you have hard Neptune aspects in synastry with him? I feel that the personal planet makes the 2nd H feel secure but I don't think it should be as negative for the personal planet?

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Registered: Aug 2017

posted March 07, 2019 04:04 AM            

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I've had a few; my Gemini Moon usually falls into a Taurus rising's 2nd house, and all the ones I've known have had an urge to 'spoil' or spend on me, even to the extent that it makes me uncomfortable. It's almost like my emotions are my currency and they end up 'paying' me back with buying me things (or TRYING to, at least- actually usually it's food I accept most often ahaha).

When someone falls into my 2nd house I want to spoil them and take care of them how 'I' feel is extravagant. Whatever the value system is for the 2nd house, usually it ends up being a 'let me do this for you' rather than an 8th house 'lets share this'. In that sense it can vibe the whole Taurus-type 'My Way Or The Highway' if left unchecked.

Healthy is nice, though!

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