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Topic: Neptune in synastry
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I'm so cappy
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From: Death Star
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posted December 21, 2013 12:24 PM
  
From your experience - who does the idealizing?------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
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Knowflake Posts: 3101
From: The Moon
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posted December 21, 2013 12:34 PM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
From your experience - who does the idealizing?
I have this with my s.o. we have sun square neptune (I'm neptune) and mercury square neptune (he is neptune)
And neptune square sun, mercury and venus in composite!! I haven't really seen it yet…to me, he is absolutely wonderful like in a dream, so in that way I might put him on a pedestal a bit, I just think he is so nice and hot:P
But we also got sun square and trine saturn, so it's like I still know the true him, despite how confusing neptune can be  I'm a bit afraid though, because we haven't had any problems yet, that it will come someday and he will get really disappointed by me, because I'm the neptune and he is the sun… IP: Logged |
Rosalind
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posted December 21, 2013 12:49 PM
Best not to have Sun/Moon square Neptune either in synastry or composite. Leads always to deception and delusions.IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted December 21, 2013 12:59 PM
Venus/mars square neptune.
is like being high on love and desire.
Both ime. there should be mutual reception or there can be deception etc.
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LucieLemonade
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posted December 21, 2013 01:12 PM
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Originally posted by Rosalind:
Best not to have Sun/Moon square Neptune either in synastry or composite. Leads always to deception and delusions.
I'll add this to my list of "deal breaker" synastry with my new guy..... Something tells me this is not going to end well.
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tgem
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posted December 21, 2013 01:24 PM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Venus/mars square neptune.
is like being high on love and desire.
Both ime. there should be mutual reception or there can be deception etc.
All true... IP: Logged |
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Knowflake Posts: 3101
From: The Moon
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 21, 2013 01:47 PM
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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:
I'll add this to my list of "deal breaker" synastry with my new guy..... Something tells me this is not going to end well.
I don't think neptune is a deal breaker, think it's more harmless than pluto… anything is more harmless than pluto! IP: Logged |
Delilah423
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posted December 21, 2013 02:01 PM
What aspects are you talking about?
In my current relationship, we have:Sun/Neptune double whammy (his Neptune conjuncts my Sun widely at 6; my Neptune quincunx his Sun at 1) My Neptune opposes his Venus (0) His Neptune sextiles my ASC (2) I could go on to include some important "asteroids" as well. I think both of us are rather realistic about the other, at least so far. But we're both old as the hills and (hopefully) mature enough to handle the risk. I think making any aspect a "deal breaker" is silly. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
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From: Death Star
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posted December 21, 2013 02:05 PM
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I'm a bit afraid though, because we haven't had any problems yet, that it will come someday and he will get really disappointed by me, because I'm the neptune and he is the sun.
…As long as you are honest it should be ok. You can even remind him you're not perfect and make a list of your flaws, just in case  quote:
Both ime. there should be mutual reception or there can be deception etc.
Do you mean both people should be Neptune in the synastry? Like, A's Sun conjunct B's Neptune and A's Neptune conjunct B's Venus? quote:
I think making any aspect a "deal breaker" is silly.
Me too.------------------
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Kerosene
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posted December 21, 2013 02:12 PM
Yes.. which is not too much to ask for because neptune is an extremely slow moving so couple of years age difference will still have neptune around the same degree.Neptune, uranus, pluto always adds spice to a conjunction.
Say person A's venus conjuncts B's mars and both square each others neptune which around the same degree... .... Hmmmm I suppose the outer planets is why an age gap is always more challenging... :O! IP: Logged |
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Knowflake Posts: 3101
From: The Moon
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 21, 2013 02:15 PM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
As long as you are honest it should be ok. You can even remind him you're not perfect and make a list of your flaws, just in case
A good idea actually! I think it can be a bit easy for me sometimes to "play a role" where I try to be a bit different than I am, but we have gone through some real hard things (my brother just passed away) which only got our relationship more real... IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
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From: Death Star
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 21, 2013 02:20 PM
I'm sorry for your loss. If I were you I would limit this "role playing". The less you pretend, the less likely there will be any disappointment.So, what makes it easier to handle Neptune hard aspects? Synastry aspects with both people as Neptune or natal aspects? ------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
lisalisa
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posted December 21, 2013 02:43 PM
What aboutMoon opposite neptune?
Mars, sun, mercury, venus trine neptune? IP: Logged |
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Knowflake Posts: 3101
From: The Moon
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 21, 2013 03:10 PM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
I'm sorry for your loss. If I were you I would limit this "role playing". The less you pretend, the less likely there will be any disappointment.So, what makes it easier to handle Neptune hard aspects? Synastry aspects with both people as Neptune or natal aspects?
Thanks! Since he died I have not played anything, I have just been myself..
Maybe natal saturn aspects to personal planets that can keep the head cold?
The funny thing is that we both got our composite aspects in our natal…so I have mercury square neptune natal and he got the sun square neptune…and we both got pisces moon, so it's all really dreamy, but in a nice way IP: Logged |
DeathIsanIllusion
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posted December 21, 2013 03:11 PM
Both A and B have an unafflicted Neptune in their natals. In their composite, Neptune's only negative aspect is an opposition to Juno. Let's say B has Neptune on either the ASC or MC in the natal chart. A's natal Sun and Moon square B's Neptune. In this case A is not fooled at all by B's facade. A knows the real B hiding behind the angular Neptune. B's Neptunian tricks don't work with A.
A and B have mutual receptions between their Suns, Moons, and Neptunes either by sign or aspect; their Luminaries are either conjunct each other's angles, or they're simply somewhere inside each other's angles. Both persons have at least one axis (ASC-DSC or IC-MC) conjunct the other's or placed somewhere inside the other's houses corresponding to the axis or axes. I believe that maybe it's not necessary for the angular Neptune person to natally have this planet on an angle. Instead, their Neptune may as well aspect angular planet; also, maybe not so much mandatory angle activity... I know from others' experiences which I've read that deception can go sometimes either ways. It doesn't matter who's Neptune or the Planet. I personally don't like seeing Neptune afflictions in the composite, and I have observed in synastries that Neptune is the one who's mostly deceived by the Planet when afflicted, despite the fact Neptune is the one expected to act in a bad way. Minor negative aspects and contraparallels only represent characteristics and/or actions of a person that the other is absolutely & definitely not at all bothered by. These differences are those things in relationships no one perceives as deal breakers or part of the compulsory set of similarities obligatorily needed for a relationship to begin. IP: Logged |
starmoon
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posted December 21, 2013 03:57 PM
it depends what planet Neptune is aspecting, but in general, if it's conjunct to a planet or angle, especially ASC it's Neptune that is deceived/most affected IP: Logged |
LucieLemonade
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posted December 21, 2013 04:44 PM
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Originally posted by next to neptune:
I don't think neptune is a deal breaker, think it's more harmless than pluto… anything is more harmless than pluto!
Daring, I'm sorry for your lose. I do think Neptune can bring light dreamy qualities and shared creativity. But there is a risk of seeing only the good in a person. Of course, that's not necessarily bad. But I think it's like when a mother denies her child is criminal or can't see that the child did something bad. (Is that about right? I'm still learning). IP: Logged |
fireopal09
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From: George
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posted December 21, 2013 06:10 PM
Manfriend and I have a Venus/Neptune DW. My Venus conjuncts his Neptune and my Neptune sextiles his Venus. His Moon conjuncts my Neptune. There is definitely a sweetness and a mutual acceptance between us. We lose track of time when we are together. We were together 20 years ago & broke up. There was deception on both sides. We reconnected 4 years ago as I was going through my divorce. Yeah, I'm sure he was curious to see if he could get in my pants (I do have Mercury in Scorpio, people.). We are now both in our 40's and have weathered other broken relationships & marriages and have become more realistic and have gained wisdom. Neptune can be a beautiful, but it needs to be tempered with reality.------------------
Claire
"When going gets weird, the weird turn pro."
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fireopal09
Knowflake Posts: 760
From: George
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted December 21, 2013 06:23 PM
Next to Neptune, I am terribly sorry to hear of your brother's passing. I lost my 1st cousin who was like my Irish twin a few days after my birthday in October.It is hard as anything. Please don't hesistate to contact me if you need to talk. (((HUGS)))------------------
Claire
"When going gets weird, the weird turn pro."
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lisalisa
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posted December 21, 2013 09:50 PM
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Originally posted by lisalisa:
What aboutMoon opposite neptune?
Mars, sun, mercury, venus trine neptune?
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ash20
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posted December 21, 2013 11:55 PM
Has anyone experienced mars square neptune in synastry?IP: Logged |
bansheequeen
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posted December 22, 2013 10:29 AM
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Delilah423
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posted December 22, 2013 10:32 AM
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But also, I think we're both going farther with the drugs than we ever intended...His neptune is opposite my moon, conjunct my venus and neptune. OH and he is a pisces and my decendant is pisces. So. Any warnings for me? x.x[/B]
Yeah; just say no to the drugs. Or if you can't do that, consider treatment. Synastry may be the least of your concerns.
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bansheequeen
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posted December 22, 2013 10:58 AM
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Queen Salome
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posted December 22, 2013 01:15 PM
Love couple I know-her Venus conjunct his Neptune. She (Venus) is totally blinded. IP: Logged |
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