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Topic: I feel like I don't know how he really feels about me :(
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Lalafortunaea
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posted March 09, 2019 11:01 AM
  
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Lalafortunaea
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posted March 09, 2019 06:11 PM
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implosions
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posted March 09, 2019 08:32 PM
The Uranus squares/oppositions in this case might be making it hard to find solid ground between you (especially mentally, as Mercury is involved). Do you feel you can't trust, or just that there is an ambiguity? He does have Neptune conjunct Mercury (which is also RX) so that could also be the difficulty coming across clear to you.IP: Logged |
Selenite
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posted March 10, 2019 07:04 AM
That's funny, your sun is in his 12th. I had the same feelings early on in my relationship, and I could swear it was my Sun/Mercury in his 12th (conjunct Uranus Nonetheless)
It was like, we spent every moment together since we met, for 6 months straight, sex was great, honest commitment was there, and I was somehow still unsure of how he felt about me. Almost like he didn't 'see' me, or i was a figment of his imagination, or we were one entity in an inexplicable dream. (I still feel like he doesn't fully understand who I am and he often literally has no idea what I'm talking about or trying to say.) It turns out he's just really earthy and airy, kinda like your (boyfriend?). And I'm all fire w a scorp venus. But he's a cap and if theyre with you, it's because they want to be with you. Esp with his aqua moon. They don't want to waste time. Your Leo heart is so big you can probably express enough affection for the both of you, and u might have to if that's what you need. They don't mind it, those types just don't see a reason for diving deep into each other's souls. It's kinda lame, but obviously they have other amazing traits and you can teach them along the way, how amazing it is to let yourself fall in love. From your placements alone it looks like a 'love language' thing.
Your composite looks very harmonious and affectionate. I'm curious about your lilith synastry, mine is exactly on my bf's Sun and these feelings felt very Lilith in nature somehow. I guess I felt, rejected? When there was nothing but love there. IP: Logged |
Lalafortunaea
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posted March 10, 2019 07:15 AM
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Originally posted by implosions:
The Uranus squares/oppositions in this case might be making it hard to find solid ground between you (especially mentally, as Mercury is involved). Do you feel you can't trust, or just that there is an ambiguity? He does have Neptune conjunct Mercury (which is also RX) so that could also be the difficulty coming across clear to you.
Ambiguity, mainly, which causes a bit of distrust, I guess. I'm not quite sure what I/we should do for things to be clearer about his feelings, you know? I'm not sure... IP: Logged |
Lalafortunaea
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posted March 10, 2019 07:24 AM
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Hikaru29
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posted March 10, 2019 11:45 AM
The first thing I noticed is the Moon sign. It's most likely he's not speaking your love language. An Aqua Moon may not be able to meet your emotional depth but it doesn't mean he doesn't care. IP: Logged |
Lalafortunaea
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posted March 10, 2019 03:19 PM
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
The first thing I noticed is the Moon sign. It's most likely he's not speaking your love language. An Aqua Moon may not be able to meet your emotional depth but it doesn't mean he doesn't care.
Maybe, but, he's got lots of great aspects to his moon sign.
I've even been with an Aqua moon before and it wasn't like this. So, tis a lil mysterious, but could also be what others mentioned, perhaps. IP: Logged |
Melinn
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posted March 10, 2019 05:11 PM
I have this with my friend I have/had feelings for, his Sun and mercury in Leo in my 12th house. The dreamy or imaginary etc feeling we had in the beginning when we started to like each other and started to flirt. In our case, when it did not lead to anything we really struggled to find balance in the "real world" or being just friends etc. Many emotional up and downs and moodyness and weeks of him being just very off and weird. I don't thinks its just the 12th house synastry, but it may have played a role? I have not delved into that yet.
Does it give you guys a telepathy connection of a sort?
Maybe not on its own and sure there has to be neptune contacts and whatnot I reccon. We have neptune to sun-moon, mercury etc contacts too in natals and synastry IP: Logged |
Lalafortunaea
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posted March 11, 2019 10:21 AM
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Hikaru29
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posted March 11, 2019 12:34 PM
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Originally posted by Lalafortunaea:
Maybe, but, he's got lots of great aspects to his moon sign.
I've even been with an Aqua moon before and it wasn't like this. So, tis a lil mysterious, but could also be what others mentioned, perhaps.
I'm not saying Aqua moon is bad. It's just very different emotionally from a Pisces moon which is very sensitive. I'm a believer of compatible moon signs. I've a Sag moon and my brother has a Pisces moon. Whenever he tries to confide in me he gets frustrated. He thinks I don't understand him. Same thing happens when I try to confide in him. I get frustrated with his assuming how I feel. Oh, and he used to accuse me of being "emotionally nonchalant".
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Lalafortunaea
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posted March 11, 2019 04:37 PM
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