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Topic: 12th house synastry: you as the planet person do you find it overwhelming ?
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SleepyDiary
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Registered: Apr 2017
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posted March 23, 2019 10:05 AM
  
Have you as the planet person found it overwhelming to see and pick up so much from a person? Its like everything they do doesn't get by you and its overwhelming esp if the person has a lot of baggage and secrets. In both my experiences being the Venus in their 12th I have found it overwhelming to pick up and "see" the house person so easily. I already am a very sensitive person with my moon in a water sign along with a moon/neptune hard aspect so when one of my personal planets fall in another's water house esp 12th its too much psychic intuitive energy going on in my experience and I pick up on their emotions/moods faster than I get up from the couch even from afar. Its so overwhelming. IP: Logged |
implosions
Knowflake Posts: 279
From: canada
Registered: Aug 2017
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posted March 23, 2019 01:20 PM
I feel it both ways; either as the house person or the planet person. I find as the house person I tend to feel like I'm always trying to get a 'read' on them, and sometimes I feel I've got it, only for it to easily switch up again. I often feel quite exhausted mentally, quicker than I do with other placements. (In my case, heavy Pisces energy drains me out).As the planet person, I can sometimes feel a bit annoyed? But I'm usually left confused by it like I'm not sure if I'm picking it up from the other person or if I'm annoyed at how the other person is fuffing all over the place. If I'm the planet person it's often my Scorpio falling into the 12th, and with people who have Scorpio on the 12th, I find they are constantly trying to make light of any situation, even casually 'darker' topics, which to me is ... I guess a bit annoying because it's normal for me? Ahahah, but then they tend to prefer their Sag rising vibes (or Scorpio, depending on the degree). Perhaps it is whatever the house person has in sign is trying to be 'swept under' and not focused on, leaving the other person a little confused or reeling or constantly trying to figure out what's going on because said energy is constantly being 'hidden away' by the other. IP: Logged |
kirki
Knowflake Posts: 438
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Registered: Aug 2014
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posted March 23, 2019 03:09 PM
Very strangely,all my relationships had personal planets in my 12.These were all serious relationships and now im like a family with all of them,so i guess 12 house for me can create strong bonds,at least in my case since i have strong neptune.On the other hand these people had a reason to keep something secret which i felt but they didnt have the courage to tell me during the relationship.Though i feel blessed that i have these people in my life,i dont dont like that overlay,and ill try avoid in if possible.IP: Logged |
PiscesVenus
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Registered: Mar 2019
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posted March 23, 2019 03:29 PM
I can tell as house person. I've been in a relationship for 5 years. Even though I have been only in 2 relationships in my life, this one is not any similar to things I've ever felt before. We share same asc. Mine is early degree of Leo and his is in 2nd decan. His Cancer stellium (Sun,Mars, Mercury) falls into my 12th house, while they fall into his 11th house in his chart. I have a 6th house Neptune and 12th house Lilith in Cancer. His stellium conjuncts my Lilith, opposes my Neptune, squares my Aries stellium (Sun,NN, Jupiter). But also makes a grand trine with my Pluto and Venus. His SN also conjuncts my retro Saturn in 5th house. His chiron conjuncts my moon/mars. Long story short, I feel so naked in front of him. I feel he can see all my vulnerabilities and can profit from them, use them against me. He easily can work on my psychology the way he wants. Within 5 years we gradually started suspecting of each other, blaming and accusing each other of cheating,backstabbing etc.But I know I am right and he is lying. There is always the feeling of that he hides something from me. I feel soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo uncomfortable but I could never make a move to break up -until last night. It is definetely karmic, painful to the death relationship. I am dying and still can't give up on him. As this all happens on my 6th-12th axis, I feel psychologically drained and sick and then also these feelings are somatized. Maybe he just came into my life to bring my childhood thraumas to the surface. Because I couldn't handle the relationship anymore and started to see a therapist. Maybe his mission is to show me how I need to be independent and not so codependent in a narcissistic, abusive relationship. It makes me feel so sick, that I feel so bad and so sad in this relationship and still can't give up.IP: Logged |
Kannon McAfee
Moderator Posts: 3805
From: Portland, OR - USA
Registered: Oct 2011
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posted March 23, 2019 10:02 PM
This belongs in Interpersonal Astrology. Moving it there.------------------
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moongaze
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Registered: Sep 2016
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posted March 24, 2019 02:21 AM
I have Pisces intercepted in my 12th. More often than not, this is a sign I get along with really well. In fact, it's probably my favorite sign. I tend to feel really at home with Pisces, but my Moon is also located there too. Not sure about late Aquarius or early Aries, though. IP: Logged |
ScandinavianCrab
Knowflake Posts: 208
From: Scandinavia
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted March 24, 2019 07:10 AM
Yes i have this with an unfortunately very immature person.I have both Venus and Moon in her 12th house and i just cant stand her trying to play manipulative games over and over. I've recently met someone who has her moon in my 12th and that's kinda overwhelming for me, because at times it feels like she effortlessly know exactly how i feel. 12th house synastry is no joke, and i firmly believe that if you want to survive such a relationship being open and honest is a must. If i have a choice i rather not be around people with their sun in my 12th. I cant 'read' them at all and it kinda scares me. IP: Logged | |
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