posted March 25, 2019 06:57 PM            

So I played around with your new TOB.
Since we know moon has to be in your 7th, this gives us a timeframe between 19 degrees Scorpio and up anything before that puts moon back in your 8th.

posted March 27, 2019 09:19 AM            

Here’s the synastry with my Ex (I’m inside, he’s outside; his tob is accurate)

Here the synastry with my daughter; her tob is accurate)

My speaking style is probably more Aquarian than Capricornian. BUT as a child I was very shy and didn’t talk much. In school, teachers always complimented me on getting to the point quickly. So if I said something at all, it did have meaning.
It’s just in recent years, that I’m starting to babble away..
I’m also very anal when it comes to grammar! (At least in my native language) I literally feel cheated, when I buy a book and stumble upon sth that’s misspelled! Then I think.. you’re an author, you’ve had an editor, probably several (!) what’s wrong with you??.. 🙈
I proof-read even text messages! It’s also a slight turn-off when I communicate with someone, who’s constantly making typos.

Jupiter in 3rd or 4th house.. could go either way. My home is quite spacious, but I also love traveling by car. Actually going on short trips is part of my profession. I go on ‘business trips’ quite often. I also have to communicate a lot during work.

Uranus in 2nd house makes more sense to me! My relationship to money.. the way I spend and earn it.. is quite erratic. I’m not good at saving. Money means freedom to me, to be spontaneous and have a comfortable lifestyle. It’s definitely always nice to have, other than that, I don’t put much value to it. I’m also self-employed, living from one project to the next. Sometimes working on multiple projects at the same time. I earn my money through technology and the entertainment business. I’m also financially reliant on my parents! They’re the legal owners of my apartment and my car. (It’s a tax issue.) They also supported me a lot financially, during college and when I started working. Now again, since I’ve had my baby and not working much at the moment.

Sun in 4th house makes more sense. I’m an only child. I love spending time at my home. When i’m not working, home is my refuge. It’s my favorite place. I’d rather invite people over than go out.

Pluto in 12th House makes more sense than in 11th.
No one really knows how much of a recluse I actually am. There’s a side to me, most people don’t know about. I need time alone to load my batteries, but too much time alone is also my downfall. I tend to depression. Mental health sometimes becomes an issue.

I can definitely identify with Moon in 7th house and what you’ve written about it. I also can relate to Venus in 5th house (up to a point). But that’s about it, really. Everything else fits more to my old TOB, if I’m honest.
So maybe there’s some other explanation for me attracting or feeling attracted to Cancer placements. My POF is in Cancer.. I also have Ceres conj my NN by 0 degree.. I don’t know if that’s significant..

posted March 28, 2019 07:29 AM            

But the main point that brought me back to my old TOB is the synastry to my Ex! Having the IC on his NN is a very strong pull, and a strong pull was needed to ever make me want to mate with this man!! Look at our synastry.. it doesn’t have much going on, that would explain that otherwise. And I don’t believe that having IC in the same sign as his NN would have that energy.
We always talk about tight degrees in Astrology.. how important that would be.. especially when it comes to the Nodes.

Also both my parents have their Moon in Gemini as well. We have a very intense but complicated relationship.. quite compulsive.. I also depend on their money once in a while.. Having their Moon in my 8th house makes much more sense! Though I‘m an adult with my own life and my own responsibilities.. though I am successful.. it‘s still not a relationship of equals! They still treat me like a little girl, especially my father, and I hate that. Being in the position of again relying on their finances is dreadful to me, right now. But I can’t do anything about it at the moment.