posted April 10, 2019 12:53 PM            

My natal:

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posted April 11, 2019 08:25 AM            

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Originally posted by SoulOfABird:
From the looks of it you guys are practically polar opposites. Not necessarily super different, you have a lot of fire, he has a lot of air, and these elements go together however there are a lot of hard aspects in your guy’s synastry chart. So there can be attraction because of the amount of hard aspects. You have a bunch of Leo , he has a bunch of Aquarius. Both of you are also very fixed. I think this relationship doesn’t look good from a romantic point of view. But of coarse any relationship can work regardless of synastry if both can handle the hardships and are willing to make compromises. Being that you both are very fixed, it might be a bit harder to come to compromises. So I think you guys need to be more aware and put a lot of effort into making the relationship work. Don’t be too stubborn like regular fix signs lol
Mars square mars also probably makes it difficult for you guys to cooperate with eachother. Maybe try not to be competitive with one another.

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Thank you soul of a bird for your input. Yes we have a lot of oppositions and squares which definitely caused attraction at first but not sure if this is good for the long term. Also, I know some opposite signs work better than others but not sure of the Aqua/Leo axis. I have my Desc and NN in Aqua but don’t think this is enough to relate, but probably attracted me at first. We have some earth in common which might help but you are right about the mars square mars (which makes a tsquare with my moon/sun). I think this might lead to conflict. His moon/Pluto/Saturn are all on my IC or close so there is also some comfort there. But his Saturn squares my Venus - he has natal Venus square Saturn so might be used to this energy. We also have DW Pluto sextile sun. I think overall a lot of good and bad, just wasn’t sure if the bad trumps the good.

posted April 12, 2019 12:22 AM            

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Originally posted by MMarie:
Thank you soul of a bird for your input. Yes we have a lot of oppositions and squares which definitely caused attraction at first but not sure if this is good for the long term. Also, I know some opposite signs work better than others but not sure of the Aqua/Leo axis. I have my Desc and NN in Aqua but don’t think this is enough to relate, but probably attracted me at first. We have some earth in common which might help but you are right about the mars square mars (which makes a tsquare with my moon/sun). I think this might lead to conflict. His moon/Pluto/Saturn are all on my IC or close so there is also some comfort there. But his Saturn squares my Venus - he has natal Venus square Saturn so might be used to this energy. We also have DW Pluto sextile sun. I think overall a lot of good and bad, just wasn’t sure if the bad trumps the good.

I also thought it was interesting we both have Ceres conjunct sun.

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posted April 12, 2019 12:46 AM            

You're likely drawn to his Aqua/Cap energy because of your Dsc... you like someone who's cool and unfettered yet serious. But you also seem to like some Martian energy... someone who's aggressive/confident/amorous perhaps(?). Do you sometimes find him too "cool"?

You have Mars square Sun/Moon, opposite Pluto. I think your Mars square Mars will make you blow (lol).

posted April 12, 2019 02:07 PM            

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Originally posted by SoulOfABird:
Ah yes I didn’t notice the NN conjunct his venus and Mercury. Ceres DW is really good👍🏼 Dont know how I missed that one. Also your Juno is almost on his moon and your mars conjuncts his Chiron. There are some things I probably missed because Im not very good at reading charts lol I just gave my thoughts from the overall outlook of the chart. Of course I also think your guys own aspects in your natal, like you mentioned, can affect how it plays out. I can see why you would have a liking towards him from the house overlays. Cause like you mentioned, the IC. Also you both have stelliums. Im sure this means something towards the relationship, maybe with patience you can help eachother grow since each of you have what the other lacks, because of the concentration of energies in both your charts in eachothers opposite signs.. oh also his Valentine conjuncts your mars which the asteroid a valentine conjunct the others personal planets is a really good aspect. Yeah but sorry if I miss something or if it isn’t accurate. Lol Im not as good as reading this as half the people here so take it with a grain of salt lol
My thoughts on this relationship are that it isn’t a super easy, black and white relationship. More complex but some people want that in a relationship. A challenge. So depending on you both, what you want from a relationship, these good and bad aspect can make it interesting and intense. Ultimately up to your relationship needs I think.
From the looks of it, his mars and venus leads me to believe he wants an unconventional relationship. And you probably like a relationship to be fun and light hearted.

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posted April 12, 2019 02:14 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
What's your interest level on this guy since you say you're only dating on/off? Are you perhaps having reservation that's why you're asking about compatibility?

You're likely drawn to his Aqua/Cap energy because of your Dsc... you like someone who's cool and unfettered yet serious. But you also seem to like some Martian energy... someone who's aggressive/confident/amorous perhaps(?). Do you sometimes find him too "cool"?

You have Mars square Sun/Moon, opposite Pluto. I think your Mars square Mars will make you blow (lol).

Also incompatible Moons is not ideal for an intimate, long-term r/s unless you have many nice aspects to balance it out... and even then, I'm not confident because it never worked for me even if they're in the same modality... and your Moons are both in fixed signs so I don't see you bending for each other.

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