posted April 20, 2019 01:51 PM            

This is the problem I have with prominent Scorpio people, I feel I don't have the stamina to keep up/love them long term.

posted April 20, 2019 04:31 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I have this with someone it's the square and I'm Saturn.

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posted April 24, 2019 11:08 AM            

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Originally posted by MMarie:
How do you feel being the Saturn in a square ChildofVenus? I have the square with someone being the Venus.

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ofOPmMnQjH4

posted April 24, 2019 09:01 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by MMarie:
[b] How do you feel being the Saturn in a square ChildofVenus? I have the square with someone being the Venus.

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But we both have Venus/Saturn in our chart. I have Venus square Saturn and they have Venus sextile Saturn. In composite we have Venus square Jupiter I think that helps.[/B][/QUOTE]

posted April 25, 2019 09:34 PM            

Venus is wise

posted April 26, 2019 08:10 AM            

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The only way I couldīve kept him was following his path of living together.

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So Saturn wanted a commitment? Venus wasn't ready?

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No better way to destroy us than that

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I always thought a relationship was Venus' ultimate goal. No?

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but he was totally completely blind for that cause all he strived for was the love and acceptance of his parents.

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So the relationship was only to please his parents?

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Venus is wise

My V Conj his S.

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posted April 26, 2019 01:19 PM            

I wasn't ready by a long shot. As if he skipped so many steps, it felt so unnaturally forced...

**I always thought a relationship was Venus' ultimate goal. No?**

Not if Venus doubts the love. If I wouldn't be dancing to his tune it would be over. So it wasn't about ME but all about him, his dreams and accordingly getting his parents' acceptance.

**So the relationship was only to please his parents?**

The way in which it was directed, yes. His mom was a bloody tyrant and his entire goal was to get rid of the black sheep family label. And that meant, showing her he was able to have a steady, grounded relationship (like his brother cause he deserved all her acceptance).

When we broke up he said "I so so so so hoped you would get along with my mom". This means that in fact he already crossed a limit cause me and her weren't on good terms (she didn't accept any of his gf's ever). He might have seen living together as the last viable option for us. So that he could prove her.... and in a way force her to accept and not reject me.

His Jupiter square his Saturn (and so square my Venus).

posted April 27, 2019 06:43 AM            

What people don't know is that the "serious" tone affects the Saturn person too. As much as being a responsible parent affects the child's impression of you(some chidlren may feel "unloved" or "oppressed" by you), it also affects how you aasa parent view life. And become more conservative in your outlook etc.

I have Saturn/Sun double whammy with someone.And we just can't seem to "connect" at all. We frustrate each other a lot. But we feel "bound" to each other at the same time.

Another one I was with had Saturn(me) on his Mars (them) and he felt I was "hard" on him. Critiquing the way he responds to things.

I didn't quite understand this until I had someone with Saturn on my Mars. He irritated me to no end. I found him "oppressive".

It is the Venus person who must adjust to Saturn.And in being forebearing and loving, they can inspire Saturn's more romantic side.And this takes time.

Venus is a sucker for sensuality and reciprocity. So Saturn also needs to make an effort to do their part to atleast hold their hand, kiss them or respond affectionately when needed.

All this is not "unfamiliar" to Saturn. But like a person who has a license and hasn't driven in a long time, its rusty. Very rusty. But they are committed when inlove because they treasure love and know how rare a good match is for them.

The "heaviness" you spoke of could be lessened if you two set goals for your relationship and have something to work towards achieving whilst together.

Much of their focus will focus on that goal as Saturn functions better whenwith Venus if they love(Venus) with purpose(Saturn). It motivates them to better themselves for you.

If there is no goal.You become their "project" and this is an unconscious thing they do. They tend to "parent" everyone and since you make contact with them on the love level(Saturn),they may feel "cold", "unattractive" and "unapproachable" etc.