posted April 25, 2019 09:21 AM            

Our situation is kind of unique. He's five years older than me but he's befriended my parents (who accidentally met him separately from me) for about a year now.

I confess that I find his guy a quality marriage material man. He's good looking (though I don't find him attractive, at least not yet), hard working, family guy. He's also educated and financially well-off. He and my parents have no idea that I am in a relationship for about a year now. I have kept my current relationship secret from everyone (it's only pure physical love and I don't share emotional intimacy with my current boyfriend, due to fear of feeling stupid if I open up emotionally, and it's not an open relationship either, it's a complicated situation with strong pluto and uranus!)

Currently him and I are on friendly terms, although he shows interest for things to go forward and my parents have confirmed his behavior.

What do you all think about this synastry and composite? Does this look good?

Do you think the hard aspects here are too difficult to handle in the long run, or perhaps manageable when compared to both charts?

Overall, do you think I should give this guy a chance based on the charts?

Thank you all in advance.

Synastry (I'm on the outer circle)

Composite

* please do not quote my post

posted April 25, 2019 10:34 AM            

Moon-Moon it's very important imo..
Mercury-Mercury too.. plus not heavily afflicted Mokn or Mercury.
Here we have Moon inconjunct Moon
Uranus square Moon
Uranus conjunct Mars
Neptune opposite Venus

I don't see any Satyrn aspects or super positive ones other than the Sun conjunct Venus. (I nay have missed something).

However I can see why he is atttacted to you. Your planets fall in his relationship houses: 5th, 7th and 8th H.
Venus in 7th H is REALLY GOOD
the house person believes the Venus person is ideal partner plus he is very attracted to the Venus person.

He has his Saturn in your 5th H which is a joy/romance killer. I can't stand that placement, I don't blame you for not seeing him romantically, however I don't know if it will change with time because Saturn rules time but I haven't tried it myself. I couldn't stand that person.

posted April 25, 2019 10:06 PM            

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Originally posted by Plut0nian2:

He has his Saturn in your 5th H which is a joy/romance killer. I can't stand that placement, I don't blame you for not seeing him romantically, however I don't know if it will change with time because Saturn rules time but I haven't tried it myself. I couldn't stand that person.

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