posted May 01, 2019 02:53 AM            

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Originally posted by HieronymusTush:
I can confirm this. A few years ago I had a 3-year relationship with the love stellium in 8th house in the composite. I found it really difficult to let it go, I still have very fond feelings for the person but fully know that the relationship had reached its potential. I think it was the lack of nodal contacts what rendered it possible for us to part. It was incredibly healing, close and warm in nature but did not have that strange nodal magnet draw. Still had that 8th house depth though, and it left a huge positive mark with me. My Venus and Mercury are in Scorpio, somehow 8th house composite relationships just feel "enough" for me, rather than 7th house contacts.

To add to the original question, I also wonder if long term 8th house composite relationships are even commonly found in settled long relationships... I'd love to hear from long-term couples about how the 8th house transformation kept playing out throughout the years.

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posted May 01, 2019 02:55 AM            

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Originally posted by implosions:
Damn, seconding this. I've found it excruciatingly difficult to separate from someone with heavy 8th overlays-- but I'm also heavy 8th house to begin with, so I suspect it may just be my own self struggling lol.

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