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bluestskies88
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posted May 04, 2019 11:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for bluestskies88     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
this is the synastry of a guy i was hooking up with a few years ago. we're still friends and there's still a very strong attraction there, and this feeling of unfinished business.

what do you guys see? i am blue , he's red

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posted May 04, 2019 01:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MMarie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi! Can you post the composite? Are birthtimes correct? I read somewhere that the feeling of unfinished business is due to composite south node in 12th house. Wondering if this is the case here.

Plus you have a wide moon/ Pluto conjunction. I think Pluto keeps people tied together for a while and it can make it hard to break ties.

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posted May 04, 2019 01:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MMarie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Looking at this now though I think composite south node would be in 7th house.

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posted May 04, 2019 06:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CardinalT-Square     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How does that Saturn/North Node conjunction play-out for you two?

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posted May 04, 2019 07:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bluestskies88     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by MMarie:
Hi! Can you post the composite? Are birthtimes correct? I read somewhere that the feeling of unfinished business is due to composite south node in 12th house. Wondering if this is the case here.

Plus you have a wide moon/ Pluto conjunction. I think Pluto keeps people tied together for a while and it can make it hard to break ties.


Here's the composite. Yes the data are right

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posted May 04, 2019 07:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bluestskies88     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by CardinalT-Square:
How does that Saturn/North Node conjunction play-out for you two?

we're still attached to each other, and there's still that unfinished business feeling about all this. our connection right now is just casual. we talk when we see each other, and the last few weeks we've been casually talking here and there. he's the one that stops the convo in the middle and doesn't reply and just disappears. i've been the one initiating

*shrugs


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posted May 04, 2019 07:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MMarie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You have north node in the 12th house composite....I wonder what that means. But Pluto opposite Sun could also be binding. Saturn in 12th house might cause the feeling of attachment and not knowing the reason why? That’s a guess.

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posted May 05, 2019 01:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The images are very big and hard to read but anyway... NN in 12H is a karmic placement... perhaps that's why you feel the "unfinished biz". Pluto opp Sun caught in a kite formation is binding and hard to let go and you have Saturn in 12H sextile Moon which is emotional bond but it could be a subtle feeling since it's coming from the 12H. Pluto is strongly placed in 1H and Sun is in romantic 7H with Venus. Very nice. If Sun/Venus were conjunct together with Mercury I'm sure you would have patched back by now.

Are your Pluto-Moon conjunct in synastry? Can't tell w/o the degrees.

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posted May 05, 2019 11:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for bluestskies88     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
The images are very big and hard to read but anyway... NN in 12H is a karmic placement... perhaps that's why you feel the "unfinished biz". Pluto opp Sun caught in a kite formation is binding and hard to let go and you have Saturn in 12H sextile Moon which is emotional bond but it could be a subtle feeling since it's coming from the 12H. Pluto is strongly placed in 1H and Sun is in romantic 7H with Venus. Very nice. If Sun/Venus were conjunct together with Mercury I'm sure you would have patched back by now.

Are your Pluto-Moon conjunct in synastry? Can't tell w/o the degrees.


Hi Hikaru

Here's the synastry http://i.gyazo.com/404765dce1caad4c89c29df6998e931f.png

Composite http://i.gyazo.com/5ab030db2411229d201be4df093516b2.jpg


i think you hit it in the nail. there is deff a bond/connection still. it's super obvious. he's still feeing self conscious when he speak with me, but probably not able to feel / process what he's feeling between us, this connection so he logically process it. who knows.... he's deff running away or just inching his way here and there.

Yes, we have a pluto/moon wide orb


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posted May 05, 2019 05:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bluestskies88     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by MMarie:
You have north node in the 12th house composite....I wonder what that means. But Pluto opposite Sun could also be binding. Saturn in 12th house might cause the feeling of attachment and not knowing the reason why? That’s a guess.

Thank you. i have to read about those aspects

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posted May 05, 2019 11:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by bluestskies88:
Hi Hikaru

Here's the synastry http://i.gyazo.com/404765dce1caad4c89c29df6998e931f.png

Composite http://i.gyazo.com/5ab030db2411229d201be4df093516b2.jpg


i think you hit it in the nail. there is deff a bond/connection still. it's super obvious. he's still feeing self conscious when he speak with me, but probably not able to feel / process what he's feeling between us, this connection so he logically process it. who knows.... he's deff running away or just inching his way here and there.

Yes, we have a pluto/moon wide orb


You've aspects that are pulling you back to each other. Pluto conjunct Moon is one that makes you obsessively think of each other. Do you feel so? Moon in 4H, Venus on 5th cusp are comfortable & romantic... Jupiter in 1H. How does his Uranus on your IC feel to you? Also, your NN conjunct his Saturn is a heavy bind although I think it won't show until you've been tog for some time. NN will feel pushed by Saturn to take on more responsibilities (whether it is Saturn's intention or not). But your Saturn on his Mars and square his Sun/Moon(?) may feel too restrictive to him.

I forgot to mention that you also have a YoD in Composite, which again is a binding pattern but I'm concerned with Moon in quincunx to Sun...shows 2 planets in a perpetual misunderstanding.

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posted May 06, 2019 08:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for bluestskies88     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
You've aspects that are pulling you back to each other. Pluto conjunct Moon is one that makes you obsessively think of each other. Do you feel so? Moon in 4H, Venus on 5th cusp are comfortable & romantic... Jupiter in 1H. How does his Uranus on your IC feel to you? Also, your NN conjunct his Saturn is a heavy bind although I think it won't show until you've been tog for some time. NN will feel pushed by Saturn to take on more responsibilities (whether it is Saturn's intention or not). But your Saturn on his Mars and square his Sun/Moon(?) may feel too restrictive to him.

I forgot to mention that you also have a YoD in Composite, which again is a binding pattern but I'm concerned with Moon in quincunx to Sun...shows 2 planets in a perpetual misunderstanding.


i deff feel the obsessive thoughts especially the day when i posted here lol. it's only when we consistently talk to each other. maybe that's why he's limiting our interaction like texting then disappearing and leaving me on 'read' text? lol

like i said, i immensely feel this warm, romantic energy and we do share alot of CARE for each other, this is obvious, but not sure if this care is more a friendship to him? i feel more romantic care on my side...

the Uranus/IC... Not sure. like i said, our interactions so far has been ON and OFF. it's like it's there, and poof it quickly disappears.

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posted May 06, 2019 09:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by bluestskies88:
i deff feel the obsessive thoughts especially the day when i posted here lol. it's only when we consistently talk to each other. maybe that's why he's limiting our interaction like texting then disappearing and leaving me on 'read' text? lol

So if you don't talk consistently, the obsessive thoughts go away? IME as Pluto I'll suddenly miss him like crazy... then the feeling subsides... and then I'll suddenly miss him like crazy again.

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posted May 06, 2019 01:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bluestskies88     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
So if you don't talk consistently, the obsessive thoughts go away? IME as Pluto I'll suddenly miss him like crazy... then the feeling subsides... and then I'll suddenly miss him like crazy again.

Yea, only when we talk. right now the obssesive feeling is gone lol

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