posted May 06, 2019 03:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
I've not experienced a complete opposite to what the Composite shows but it happened that I didn't feel certain aspects/not full manifestations.

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posted May 07, 2019 01:13 PM            

The composites has always manifested as shown. If I couldn't fully relate at first, it usually was because I wasn't fully seeing the dynamic in the real life for what it is.
For example I have some dysfunctional patterns in charts with my parents and sibling. In the past I did not see the manifestation of some aspects but then I began to see as I gained clarity about dysfunctional patterns I inherited.
What happened is that I grew up familiar to such patterns so couldn't see them for ehat they are. Like abuse victims not seeing abuse for what it is. As we break free from the pattern we see it clearly.

posted May 07, 2019 01:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
Can you elaborate? Like the aspects you haven't felt...

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posted May 14, 2019 01:58 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
E.g. our Mars in 11H. I read various interpretations about it but still can't relate. Also our Mars square Saturn... they say it cools off the sexual aspect but it's been a year and we still find each other sexually attractive (in fact, I have this aspect with my ex as well and sex was never out of the pic throughout our entire r/s).

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posted May 15, 2019 07:55 AM            

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Originally posted by Bismarck2:
Post the composite. Btw, no mention of sex: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CScCc3pWxoI

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posted May 15, 2019 08:03 AM            

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Originally posted by athenegoddess:
For example if Sun is square Pluto it means he will be jealous and unhappy. If the Moon makes positive aspects it means the woman is happy.

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posted May 15, 2019 03:20 PM            

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Originally posted by athenegoddess:
The way you read a composite chart is to first look at the Sun and Moon. If they are compatible you know the couple likes each other. After this you look at what the Sun is doing and the aspects it makes. This shows how the man acts in the relationship. For example if Sun is square Pluto it means he will be jealous and unhappy. If the Moon makes positive aspects it means the woman is happy.

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This is such a simplistic yet fussy way of looking at it though, I think.

In all the charts I've seen, it's RARE to see a Sun that isn't aspected in some meaningful way. Usually because Mercury and Venus never travel too far from the Sun, and that's why some people complain that the coveted "love stellium" (either by conjunction or opposition) isn't all that rare or special and isn't usually an indicator of general compatibility or happiness because it's fairly common. So does that mean the man is always more satisfied in the relationship?

The Moon on the other hand is FAR more delicate, because it "moves" so dang much and it is actually NOT that common for it to make many positive aspects. It's actually far more special in my mind when you're lucky enough for it to actually be well-integrated into a composite!

posted May 17, 2019 06:58 AM            

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Originally posted by margym0o:
This is such a simplistic yet fussy way of looking at it though, I think.

In all the charts I've seen, it's RARE to see a Sun that isn't aspected in some meaningful way. Usually because Mercury and Venus never travel too far from the Sun, and that's why some people complain that the coveted "love stellium" (either by conjunction or opposition) isn't all that rare or special and isn't usually an indicator of general compatibility or happiness because it's fairly common. So does that mean the man is always more satisfied in the relationship?

The Moon on the other hand is FAR more delicate, because it "moves" so dang much and it is actually NOT that common for it to make many positive aspects. It's actually far more special in my mind when you're lucky enough for it to actually be well-integrated into a composite!

So...I understand the whole yin/yang Sun/Moon theory and it makes sense, but I'm just not sure it's that simple.

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Which is something I've been thinking about too... the whole Sun/Moon theory. Then again, I also often see Mars/Saturn being interpreted as the male. Then which planets represent the female?