posted May 28, 2019 09:09 PM            

You ”fighting” all the time, I would say is whats called bantering. Its often a sign of attraction but I suspect you already knew that conciously or uncounciosly.

Too bad for him that he could not get over his infatuation and made things worse for himself, but what did he expect if he stayed close to you after you said no.

Sorry if I sound negative, I just feel so bad reading about thise type of situations, unless it was haressing involved of course. And when you write ”lol” when telling the background story can maybe be interpreted as you not taking him seriously but I take it you are just confused about his confession and that you have to process it all

So what are you going to do? Do you wanna be close to someone who has thise feelings for you? Do you really wanna have him as a friend? I hope you guys can find a good solution for both!

Composite venus-sun indicates warmth and affectionate feelings. Helps with becoming friends, feeling relaxed with each other etc. That Uranus Mars square, tensions, attraction (in this case one sided?) but it can usually indicate a sudden breakup. I suspect he wont be able to withstand this and maybe he will ”suddenly” stop all together, maybe it indicates moving away physically from each other, like a break up etc

Composite neptune to the sun and mars, deception. In this case maybe him lying or decieving himself that you will be together some day if only he works for it..

Pluto-moon even if its a trine can be harsh. Him being all ”secretive” and with moon in cancer, being indirect and hoping the other one will catch on etc.

posted May 28, 2019 09:28 PM            

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Originally posted by Melinn:
I really feel for him. Also one other example of how hard it can be to mix males and females in school and workplaces. I just don’t get this type of situations; Someone confesses his/her feelings direcly or indirectly, the other one says no thank you. And then believes what? That the person who opened up etc will just forget all his/her feelings when the reciever said no? For some maybe it works that way, for many it does not work that way. It seems like one of the most classic cases. You said no and he thought if he just became your friend and and was close enough to you, you would eventually maybe come around or get feelings etc. Something both males and females do of course.

You ”fighting” all the time, I would say is whats called bantering. Its often a sign of attraction but I suspect you already knew that conciously or uncounciosly.

Too bad for him that he could not get over his infatuation and made things worse for himself, but what did he expect if he stayed close to you after you said no.

Sorry if I sound negative, I just feel so bad reading about thise type of situations, unless it was haressing involved of course. And when you write ”lol” when telling the background story can maybe be interpreted as you not taking him seriously but I take it you are just confused about his confession and that you have to process it all

So what are you going to do? Do you wanna be close to someone who has thise feelings for you? Do you really wanna have him as a friend? I hope you guys can find a good solution for both!

Composite venus-sun indicates warmth and affectionate feelings. Helps with becoming friends, feeling relaxed with each other etc. That Uranus Mars square, tensions, attraction (in this case one sided?) but it can usually indicate a sudden breakup. I suspect he wont be able to withstand this and maybe he will ”suddenly” stop all together, maybe it indicates moving away physically from each other, like a break up etc

Composite neptune to the sun and mars, deception. In this case maybe him lying or decieving himself that you will be together some day if only he works for it..

Pluto-moon even if its a trine can be harsh. Him being all ”secretive” and with moon in cancer, being indirect and hoping the other one will catch on etc.

Hope better readers will chime in!

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Oh dear, you made it sound as if I was a bad person haha! Well first of all, there's nothing wrong about mixing males and females at work, just because there's a chance one of them ends up liking the other, doesn't mean they need to be separated. I don't see any corelation in this.. Also me saying lol is just a way of how I usually talk.. I say it when I'm confused or when I lack words. It's not to make a joke out of it nor him. I even say it when I'm talking about myself.

And I don't understand how I should blame myself for turning him down. I don't get it? I rather be honest about it, than force myself to be in a relationship just for the sake of the other person not having to "forget all his feelings when the reciever says no". I honestly did not see myself with him in a romantic rs by the time he asked me, because I felt like we're not compatible on an emotional level, I also barely knew him.

He casually dated many women after I turned him down, it's not like I ruined his life. But now that he started slowly getting back to acting weird around me, I just wanted to see what other readers think about it. Astrologically speaking.

I posted these charts to get thoughts on the dynamic of our "relationship" and see it from different perspectives. I really didn't post it with the intention to make fun of him or anything. It wouldn't make sense..

posted May 29, 2019 07:34 AM            

Ok so the picture is more clear now. He did date others after you said no. Then one would relax and believe the other one has moved on of course. Anyways I'm not blaming anyone in any way, sorry if it was read that way. It just makes me sad reading about complicated relationships like this...

I just believe that, if someone opens up to you and you don't feel the same, the worse thing is to stay put. The best thing is to create distance, even if the other person acts like he/she is ok.