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Skye99
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posted June 24, 2019 11:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Skye99     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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Randall
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posted June 25, 2019 03:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Skye99
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posted June 25, 2019 09:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Skye99     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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athenegoddess
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posted June 26, 2019 07:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenegoddess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
He does like you because the Moon is in Aries so you arouse him but he feels like you should chase him.

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Skye99
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posted June 29, 2019 09:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Skye99     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by athenegoddess:
He does like you because the Moon is in Aries so you arouse him but he feels like you should chase him.

Hello!

Our composite moon is in aries.

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Hikaru29
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posted June 30, 2019 03:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Your Cancer nature makes you hard to let go, whereas he's more airy and logical than you.

On top of that, you have Pluto square/trine Moon and Pluto opposite/trine Sun. This may be the bind.

Is his Neptune opposing your Sun/Moon? Can't tell w/o degrees.

You have a composite love stellium in 8H + Chiron sextile Moon. This indicates a very close relationship but the 8H is famously deep yet hard to manage as it requires both parties to be full on (or not). Also, I always prefer Chiron in soft aspects as the hard aspects can be very healing or very painful depends on how the relationship plays out.

cVenus opposite Uranus/Saturn will cause romantic feelings to feel blocked and unstable at times.

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todd
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posted July 01, 2019 09:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for todd     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think you hook is that with the venus/mercury/sun stellium square the node there is a very fun loving and open interaction between you.
the hook is that the mars/ceres midpoint is conjunct the node which ,I think,means that you feel a deep devotion and you think you can bring him around to a committed relationship because of these feelings.
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Skye99
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posted July 02, 2019 11:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Skye99     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Your Cancer nature makes you hard to let go, whereas he's more airy and logical than you.

On top of that, you have Pluto square/trine Moon and Pluto opposite/trine Sun. This may be the bind.

Is his Neptune opposing your Sun/Moon? Can't tell w/o degrees.

You have a composite love stellium in 8H + Chiron sextile Moon. This indicates a very close relationship but the 8H is famously deep yet hard to manage as it requires both parties to be full on (or not). Also, I always prefer Chiron in soft aspects as the hard aspects can be very healing or very painful depends on how the relationship plays out.

cVenus opposite Uranus/Saturn will cause romantic feelings to feel blocked and unstable at times.


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posted July 02, 2019 11:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Skye99     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by todd:
I think you hook is that with the venus/mercury/sun stellium square the node there is a very fun loving and open interaction between you.
the hook is that the mars/ceres midpoint is conjunct the node which ,I think,means that you feel a deep devotion and you think you can bring him around to a committed relationship because of these feelings.
todd

He’s in a committed relationship and it leaves me feeling empty sometimes. I think that I don’t want to be with him so I don’t care, but if we have a good time together I start to question what the heck is going on.

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posted July 02, 2019 02:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Skye99:
When we are not together, we feel very separate. But when we are together it feels very intense.

My friend and her bf also has this aspect in Davison & Synastry and their feelings always blow hot/cold. It can be hard to manage.

Although I want to say that things can turn out unexpectedly but since he's already in a committed relationship, it's better that you step away least you end up getting hurt. If he truly wants you, he will make a choice.

Anyway just to be sarcastic, if he's really so committed to her, he wouldn't be with you.

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posted July 02, 2019 02:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Skye99
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posted July 02, 2019 09:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Skye99     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
My friend and her bf also has this aspect in Davison & Synastry and their feelings always blow hot/cold. It can be hard to manage.

Although I want to say that things can turn out unexpectedly but since he's already in a committed relationship, it's better that you step away least you end up getting hurt. If he truly wants you, he will make a choice.

Anyway just to be sarcastic, if he's really so committed to her, he wouldn't be with you.


Yeah he’s obviously not fully committed to her but I could see them marrying in the future. It’s frustrating to be a part of such a strange dynamic.

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posted July 03, 2019 04:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LunaIscariot     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Are you sure your tob is right?

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posted July 04, 2019 05:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for WaterBearingMaiden     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
He isn't lighting up your relationship houses in any particular way, so for you you probably have a feeling of "Eh. He's okay. I'm attracted to him but I wouldn't be distraught or anything if he disappeared tomorrow from my life."

However, you are placing a moon and sun into his 8th house. The 8th house is ruled by Scorpio and Pluto and represents It is considered the house of sex, taboos, of other people’s money, death and rebirth. Overlaying a planet into the 8th house feels a lot like a connection to Pluto would feel.

Pluto is about obsession, manipulation, endings, new beginnings, darkness, spiritual growth, transformation, etc.

With your moon here, you can have a love-hate relationship with him. You are compelled to dig deep into his psyche and learn more about what's below the surface. You feel a pull to him that you want to care for him and do what's right by him. He may even seem like someone you respect, but that comes with a darker side. This is an aspect that means that it can be especially destructive when it ends. There is a deep and intense emotional bond between you that can be volatile.

With sun here, you are fascinated by him but also unsettled. He may seem fascinating and mysterious, but also may have something deeply disturbing about him. You have a feeling of knowing you should leave but feeling unable to do so. The bond here is intense as well and he would probably put up a protest to let you go as well.

With these 8th house overlays even if you do part ways it would likely be a situation in which you never forget one another and may continue to reappear in each others' lives.

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Skye99
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posted July 06, 2019 01:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Skye99     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
Are you sure your tob is right?

I am 100% on my time of birth. Why?

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Skye99
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posted July 07, 2019 12:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Skye99     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by WaterBearingMaiden:
He isn't lighting up your relationship houses in any particular way, so for you you probably have a feeling of "Eh. He's okay. I'm attracted to him but I wouldn't be distraught or anything if he disappeared tomorrow from my life."

However, you are placing a moon and sun into his 8th house. The 8th house is ruled by Scorpio and Pluto and represents It is considered the house of sex, taboos, of other people’s money, death and rebirth. Overlaying a planet into the 8th house feels a lot like a connection to Pluto would feel.

Pluto is about obsession, manipulation, endings, new beginnings, darkness, spiritual growth, transformation, etc.

With your moon here, you can have a love-hate relationship with him. You are compelled to dig deep into his psyche and learn more about what's below the surface. You feel a pull to him that you want to care for him and do what's right by him. He may even seem like someone you respect, but that comes with a darker side. This is an aspect that means that it can be especially destructive when it ends. There is a deep and intense emotional bond between you that can be volatile.

With sun here, you are fascinated by him but also unsettled. He may seem fascinating and mysterious, but also may have something deeply disturbing about him. You have a feeling of knowing you should leave but feeling unable to do so. The bond here is intense as well and he would probably put up a protest to let you go as well.

With these 8th house overlays even if you do part ways it would likely be a situation in which you never forget one another and may continue to reappear in each others' lives.


I have a lot of deep feeling for him but it does not seem mutual.

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Astrohippiegirl
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posted July 07, 2019 09:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astrohippiegirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thats a crap ton of 8th house in Synastry and composite! No wonder you’re so drawn to him I’m surprised you guys aren’t beating each other’s doors down to make love LOL! I think you are also physically attracted to him as more than just a hook up, you probably like him as a person like he would make a good partner.

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Randall
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posted July 14, 2019 08:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted July 20, 2019 12:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Astrohippiegirl:
Thats a crap ton of 8th house in Synastry and composite! No wonder you’re so drawn to him I’m surprised you guys aren’t beating each other’s doors down to make love LOL! I think you are also physically attracted to him as more than just a hook up, you probably like him as a person like he would make a good partner.

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