posted July 01, 2019 06:22 AM            

Because of this, you must understand your role in this. To ask if she will be a good and reliable friend *to you*, when age her by this much, is a warning sign to me that you may not be realistic about your fundamental differences.

In my opinion, as her friend, you’re already reading too much into this, and this is telling, that at least on your end, psychologically, a lot is already going on.

There is an interesting configuration of energy between the both of you that I doubt your impression will be only “platonic” for long. the amount of responsibility required to have a healthy reasonable “friendship” goes beyond the average when you put your question like this...

I have male friends who are also much older than me, some 25 to 50 years older — however they’re not posting our synastry online asking for advice...

My apologies, but based on these planets, you’re likely to be deceiving her, maybe unintentionally, but this is why being realistic about the reality of this interaction is crucial. Sure there is a chance at a good (spiritually inclined) friendship, but what do you think that is? You will have to begin asking yourself this. Go ahead and meet her, though be careful of fantasizing how you want things to be in any regard rather than just letting things be and simultaneously being responsible.