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Topic: One sided intimacy issues
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SadalSuud211 Knowflake Posts: 60 From: Melbourne, Florida, USA Registered: May 2018
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posted July 03, 2019 04:20 PM
I've been seeing this guy for 1.5 years and this is basically the situation; he will be affectionate with me and has absolutely no problem kissing, touching, everything else with me, but only as long as he's the one who initiates it. It seems that whenever I make a move to be intimate he gets very uncomfortable. For instance, he kisses me ALL the time, but about 80% of the time I lean in to kiss him he will turn his head away and force me to kiss his cheek instead lol I mean I just dont get it! If anybody can offer their opinion on this, it'd be greatly appreciated!!Synastry - http://imgur.com/GQLGRlA Composite - http://imgur.com/29aRn0U IP: Logged |
SecretGeek Knowflake Posts: 1382 From: Dallas Registered: Nov 2013
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posted July 03, 2019 07:45 PM
It seems like your Jupiter on your Psyche are affecting his Sun through his Psyche by way of his Dejanira.In other words, your very powerful Psyche is affecting his less powerful Psyche. It could be indirectly transferring energy through Psyches. IP: Logged |
LunaIscariot Knowflake Posts: 3316 From: Registered: Aug 2014
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posted July 03, 2019 08:51 PM
Can you repost the charts using Placidus house system and Astro.com without the Decans? It’s convoluted and makes the charts you posted hard to read and you won’t get as many responses because of that I also noticed you have his tob as noon... I doubt he’s born exactly at noon so is this just an estimate? Can’t give an accurate synastry or composite analysis without the proper time since overlays and house rulers etc. are extremely important in synastry
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SadalSuud211 Knowflake Posts: 60 From: Melbourne, Florida, USA Registered: May 2018
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posted July 04, 2019 02:49 AM
quote: Originally posted by LunaIscariot: Can you repost the charts using Placidus house system and Astro.com without the Decans? It’s convoluted and makes the charts you posted hard to read and you won’t get as many responses because of that I also noticed you have his tob as noon... I doubt he’s born exactly at noon so is this just an estimate? Can’t give an accurate synastry or composite analysis without the proper time since overlays and house rulers etc. are extremely important in synastry
Erm well I am using placidus house system so not quite sure how I could improve that.. But you are correct about tob being off only because he told me he thinks he was born between 12pm-1pm but hes not exactly sure which.. Maybe I should have used 12:30 instead??
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SadalSuud211 Knowflake Posts: 60 From: Melbourne, Florida, USA Registered: May 2018
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posted July 04, 2019 02:58 AM
quote: Originally posted by SecretGeek: It seems like your Jupiter on your Psyche are affecting his Sun through his Psyche by way of his Dejanira.In other words, your very powerful Psyche is affecting his less powerful Psyche. It could be indirectly transferring energy through Psyches.
So with jupiter.. Would that make him feel like Im being too over the top with my affections and that makes him uncomfortable?? Which would be weird because in fact I feel like I dont get to express myself enough romantically.. But then if I think about the story of psyche+eros and how she was so beautiful the greeks treated her as a statue/idol to be gazed at.. Could that mean he wants me to treat him as psyche and just gaze upon him?? Lol im so confused sorry.. IP: Logged |