posted July 05, 2019 09:43 AM            

Please join me in commiserating over encountering someone that just is not that into you. A moment of silence please as we bow our heads in hurt and anguish.

That person you encountered is your astrological "type" activating all of your relationship houses, placing their Moon on your South Node and Venus on your North Node (a deadly combination for me), activating your Sun/Moon midpoint with their Sun and Angle-to-Angle conjunctions. You have an unfathomable attraction to them, but you hardly activate any of their relationship houses.

They also like blondes and you have dark hair. Ugh

Why?! Why does this universe treat me so? My Venus/Uranus conjunction in Capricorn is never impressed or if only for a fleeting moment, so why is he driving me crazy?!

posted July 12, 2019 03:13 PM            

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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
Also, post these charts (synastry and composite) because I’m curious 😂.

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Here you go: https://imgur.com/a/Ljq3yKA

posted July 12, 2019 03:15 PM            

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Originally posted by WaterBearingMaiden:
Saturn in the 7th house and Venus square Neptune, Mars, and Uranus checking in

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posted July 16, 2019 07:25 AM            

You know that song ‘I would die my hair blonde for you’ ..some random thought I had..

But honestly.. i’m there with you. Find solace in the fact that with that much Node action you’ll have a few life times ahead of you, together. And next time you’ll be the one to call the shots. LoL

posted July 16, 2019 04:25 PM            

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Originally posted by Ashes2Phoenix:
Welcome Saturn in the 7th, from Venus in the 4th conjunct Saturn in the 5th.

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posted July 16, 2019 05:05 PM            

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Originally posted by Ashes2Phoenix:
Here you go: https://imgur.com/a/Ljq3yKA

How do you embed charts?

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posted July 16, 2019 10:00 PM            

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Originally posted by WaterBearingMaiden:
Ooof. How has that affected you? How does it come out in matters of fun and pleasure for hobbies and things like that?

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I actually have Venus in Capricorn in the 4th conjunct Uranus (4)/Saturn(5)/Neptune(5).

When I was younger, I used to have a hard time letting go and having fun. I was way too serious, I still have a naturally serious disposition, but I'm anything but serious. Must be all that Cap and my Virgo rising. I love having fun, I like being silly. I don't enjoy being around a lot of people, but I do enjoy small groups of people doing nature-related things or things others would find "abnormal" or "eccentric."

What about you?

posted July 17, 2019 03:25 PM            

I call that the limit of astrology.

I fell madly in love (or so I thought) in my early twenties with that bloke I thought was meant for me; if you want to look at it I'll get the synastry chart, I was barely aware of aspects back then and never really looked into our synastry (young!), I was obsessed with Pisces, he was one, he had a bunch of Taurus (rising and moon), I'm a Virgo...., and also had some fire, I'm a Leo rising... but mostly I felt it all, the attraction, the compatibility, if I had to guess I'd say we had the infamous venus-mars square or some dose of Pluto because the rooms literally heated up when we met and we could talk for HOURS, heated debate, passionate agreements, laughter, the whole enchilada. AND YET!!!!!!!

It lasted, platonically (he was avoiding, invoked university) for 3 and a half years, monthly 4hours phone calls, big drama, the person I am today is ashamed of most of it lol
Then we finally saw each other again, same electricity, same comfort, my, the comfort. And after 3 visits over 2 months, he literally jumped on me. He didn't perform, I froze, like badly! And he disappeared for 9 months ^^
After that we saw each other again, the comfort and electricity were oddly still there, he was, in typical male fashion annoyed as his 'weakness' and after confronting him (not easy confronting a Pisces, TRUST me, but I hung in there, I had earned that closure), the truth that came out; and while I did not trust him, I had gotten to know him enough to know this was true; I was not his type.
That ******* kept me wrapped around his finger for YEARS (ok, I was daft enough to let him) to finally pass because of things he knew about me within 30 seconds of meeting me.
He liked the way I think, express myself, I made him laughed, he fancied me... but he thought I didn't love money enough and didn't seek it enough in my professional life and also I wasn't white enough for his racist family and while he said he didn't bother him he said it would be an issue with his mother and.... is that woman a Cancer turned dark to have such a toxic hold on her son?

posted July 17, 2019 05:29 PM            

Buuut I think a scenario like this is where astrology is especially so rewarding I think. Can you imagine going at it again and again to be hitting the same 11th house stellium wall? It's such an excellent thing to be able to know that you will really not activate his relationship houses, that it's not you, and it's such an excellent gift to be able to walk away from a dynamic with these insights.

My first big relationship was somewhat unequal in this way, and I really was never ideal for this person and kept going at it for such a long time. Really wish I was familiar with astrology then.