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Astrohippiegirl
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posted July 08, 2019 06:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astrohippiegirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
https://i.imgur.com/0NakVN1.jpg

I think this is the most intense thing I’ve felt, we haven’t met in person but it seems like it will never happen even though we keep trying to. He literally drives me crazy and my emotions are all over the place, I have never experienced anything like this.

If someone could let me know if there are any aspects or placements that stand out please tell it all LOL

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posted July 09, 2019 06:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted July 10, 2019 12:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astrohippiegirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted July 10, 2019 10:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astrohippiegirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted July 12, 2019 11:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stoika7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Astrohippiegirl,
Moon/Pluto conjunct Pluto trine Mars conjunct Sun and the Venus/Moon conjunction explain why you feel like that :-) it looks powerful. Moreover, you have a grand trine involving Venus trine Jupiter trine Saturn conjunct Uranus. This suggests an happy outgoing relationship with an uncoventional bond, maybe a long distance one but still with a sense of committment. The Saturn-Uranus conjunction is square to the red Jupiter, so the Jupiter person might be struggling a little... in fact, the same conjunction is opposite to the Sun/Chiron conjunction... so there is a feeling about something being unsolved here... not quite getting off the ground. Even so, the Jupiter/North Node conjunction with the blue NN conjunct MC looks like great expectation and possibilities... the red Sun conjunct blue Mars/Mercury suggests a good compatibility, not to mention the Moon conjunct Venus and Pluto conjunct Moon/Pluto... it looks like the great passion, big romance... hot! The Saturn/Uranus opposite Sun/Chiron is the big obstacle here... something is preventing something or someone has restrictions or is experiencing the relationship in a restrictive way... would you show the composite chart?

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posted July 18, 2019 03:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted July 21, 2019 02:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astrohippiegirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Stoika7:
Hi Astrohippiegirl,
Moon/Pluto conjunct Pluto trine Mars conjunct Sun and the Venus/Moon conjunction explain why you feel like that :-) it looks powerful. Moreover, you have a grand trine involving Venus trine Jupiter trine Saturn conjunct Uranus. This suggests an happy outgoing relationship with an uncoventional bond, maybe a long distance one but still with a sense of committment. The Saturn-Uranus conjunction is square to the red Jupiter, so the Jupiter person might be struggling a little... in fact, the same conjunction is opposite to the Sun/Chiron conjunction... so there is a feeling about something being unsolved here... not quite getting off the ground. Even so, the Jupiter/North Node conjunction with the blue NN conjunct MC looks like great expectation and possibilities... the red Sun conjunct blue Mars/Mercury suggests a good compatibility, not to mention the Moon conjunct Venus and Pluto conjunct Moon/Pluto... it looks like the great passion, big romance... hot! The Saturn/Uranus opposite Sun/Chiron is the big obstacle here... something is preventing something or someone has restrictions or is experiencing the relationship in a restrictive way... would you show the composite chart?

OMG!!! Yes yes and yes! There is great passion and sweetness and romance but for gods sake the push and pull I think not only is sun-Chiron but my Saturn opposes his Venus and that is what I think keeps the relationship from becoming a reality. It’s quite painful and I’m ready to give up altogether but I can’t help but be madly in love with him all the same...I don’t think I’ll ever stop and we have been on/off since about 2015

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posted July 21, 2019 03:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stoika7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Astrohippiegirl:
OMG!!! Yes yes and yes! There is great passion and sweetness and romance but for gods sake the push and pull I think not only is sun-Chiron but my Saturn opposes his Venus and that is what I think keeps the relationship from becoming a reality. It’s quite painful and I’m ready to give up altogether but I can’t help but be madly in love with him all the same...I don’t think I’ll ever stop and we have been on/off since about 2015

Your Saturn opposes his Venus widely, but his Saturn is also square to your Jupiter and this looks a little unlucky... and his Sun/Chiron opposite his Saturn gives him insecurity, especially cause his Moon/Pluto is opposed Jupiter, he might not like to take risks whether a situation is uncertain or unstable... if you pull a Composite chart maybe it would show where this all is going to....

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posted July 27, 2019 06:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astrohippiegirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
http://i.imgur.com/rPMQfC8.png

This is our composite, there is a lot Saturn contacts but they are all trines which I think should be very supportive, other than that I’d love to hear what you think

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posted August 03, 2019 06:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted August 05, 2019 10:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stoika7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Astrohippiegirl:
http://i.imgur.com/rPMQfC8.png

This is our composite, there is a lot Saturn contacts but they are all trines which I think should be very supportive, other than that I’d love to hear what you think


Hi Astrohippiegirl, sorry for the delay, I had lost this thread somehow!
I've looked at the Composite and looked at the synastry again... He likely feels a special bond to you but he looks like an unconventional person who might fear committment. He's very insecure, I'd dare to say that he doesn't have a clear sense of his own Self/Identity and since his natal Sun conjunct Chiron is opposite to his Saturn/Uranus, he might escape reality into a sort of comfort zone... in fact, his natal mercury/mars is also opposite to his Neptune, and to your Neptune. You with your Sun opposite Neptune might also be attracted to platonic love... Still you have the Grand Trine in synastry that shows an immediate harmony. The problem I see is that he has not the gut to take responsabilities in this rs. He might just enjoy this as it is and leave it as it is... The Composite shows that something is unclear between you two. Your communication is not clear even though there is a sense of fate, but the Comp. Sun/Venus opposite Uranus/Neptune square to Jupiter/Mars shows the lack of will to commit. Since NN/Mars in Aries, 9th house, is trine to Moon/ASC and Saturn, a step ahead might be possible but it requires assertiveness and honesty from his part, otherwise this looks like going nowhere, cause Uranus opposite Sun/Chiron looks like things might not ever take off the ground in such context. Unfortunately, the Mars square to Venus and Neptune suggests things are not as they seem, so this is why I think honesty is required, with NN/Mars/Jupiter in Aries, 9th house.

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posted August 06, 2019 03:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astrohippiegirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Stoika7:
Hi Astrohippiegirl, sorry for the delay, I had lost this thread somehow!
I've looked at the Composite and looked at the synastry again... He likely feels a special bond to you but he looks like an unconventional person who might fear committment. He's very insecure, I'd dare to say that he doesn't have a clear sense of his own Self/Identity and since his natal Sun conjunct Chiron is opposite to his Saturn/Uranus, he might escape reality into a sort of comfort zone... in fact, his natal mercury/mars is also opposite to his Neptune, and to your Neptune. You with your Sun opposite Neptune might also be attracted to platonic love... Still you have the Grand Trine in synastry that shows an immediate harmony. The problem I see is that he has not the gut to take responsabilities in this rs. He might just enjoy this as it is and leave it as it is... The Composite shows that something is unclear between you two. Your communication is not clear even though there is a sense of fate, but the Comp. Sun/Venus opposite Uranus/Neptune square to Jupiter/Mars shows the lack of will to commit. Since NN/Mars in Aries, 9th house, is trine to Moon/ASC and Saturn, a step ahead might be possible but it requires assertiveness and honesty from his part, otherwise this looks like going nowhere, cause Uranus opposite Sun/Chiron looks like things might not ever take off the ground in such context. Unfortunately, the Mars square to Venus and Neptune suggests things are not as they seem, so this is why I think honesty is required, with NN/Mars/Jupiter in Aries, 9th house.


Thanks Stoika I appreciate your reading. I agree the relationship seems to never become real like he is weird about us meeting and talking on the phone so I don’t trust him, even ran a background check to see if he is married but still not sure. Even though my feelings for him are very real something has always seemed off and I guess I know why now.

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posted August 06, 2019 09:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stoika7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Astrohippiegirl:
Thanks Stoika I appreciate your reading. I agree the relationship seems to never become real like he is weird about us meeting and talking on the phone so I don’t trust him, even ran a background check to see if he is married but still not sure. Even though my feelings for him are very real something has always seemed off and I guess I know why now.

I believe your feelings are true. I don't mean he hasn't feelings, the problem is that in "virtual"/long distance rs the psychological implications are complex... one might fear disappointment, for instance, or to disappont the other and to not match the other's expectations... or he might fear to "ruin" a balance in such platonic rs if making it become real... or there might be other personal reasons. Or he just takes this as an "escape" from his daily reality and that's it. Just guessing. The fact is that if he doesn't show to be willing to meet you in real, he might have a sort of "escapism" issue, as his Mercury/Mars opposite Neptune shows.
From your natal chart, you are attracted by "other worldly", platonic and challenging situations. Even though, you are quite independent and dont seem someone who easily compromises. Maybe it's time to let him know?
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