posted July 13, 2019 10:30 AM            

This guy just keeps coming back into my life, and we seem to be repeating the same issues. We were talking for a few months and kissed once back in 2005. He has no issue telling me how he feels, but back then, he was in graduate school. His reason was he had alot of school work and didn't have time to hang out more.

I gave up on him and he kept messaging me here and there telling me he missed us talking etc, but i just didn't give a damn. we went our separate ways, but reconnected back in 2013.

Fast forward to this year, we started to casually talk again, and the connection is still there, and he was more expressive telling me he loves me, but again he doesn't do anything about it (hang out etc)

Then he lost his last job, and i got him a project 2 weeks ago, and he was appreciative, but then threw me under the bus. i told him i was really upset at him, he tried to say sorry at the spot, but i didn't want to talk to him, and told him i don't want to talk to him. he's left me alone, no text, no call, only likes on my FB posts.

the pattern i noticed is that he disappoints me, i pull away, then he becomes really sorry, and the more he says sorry, the more i get angrier. it was the same pattern with us in the beginning too.

my question is, there's obviously lessons here. can you help me through our synastry? what's happening here?

He's red, i am blue. Thank you