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Topic: Strong synastry chart but weak composite chart
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SoulOfABird
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From: California
Registered: Sep 2017
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posted September 15, 2019 04:35 PM
  
I was on another forum amd I had asked for some input on this synastry with the guy I like. The person ran a composite chart amd said that the composite chart was too weak, nothing really special. And they said a composite chart is the binding force of a relationship therefore more significant. But I don’t know why I thought synastry was more important. But our composite chart is pretty weak despite having what I thought was good synastry.
In synastry we have sun-moon conjunction, venus-mars conjunction, venus-jupiter conjunction, venus trine venus, venus trine pluto, lots of pluto and saturn aspects just to name a few. He also has planets in my 1st and 8th house.
If our synastry chart is this way, seeming binding why is our composite chart different? And is that a bad sign? Like we aren’t ever meant to be?
Just exactly how important is a composite chart? If a couple doesn’t have a good composite chart can they not sustain longevity?
What’s the difference between the two?
Sorry for all these questions Im just really wondering the difference.
I have had guys that I have both an amazing synastry and composite but for some reason Im not really attracted to them. But guys who I usually really like I habe good synastry but not so amazing conposite. I don’t know why.
Either way Im not exactly sure of his birthtime so I don’t know where the houses in the composite chart fall, but our composite is not really amazing. So what’s your guys opinion when you see a great seemingly passionate synastry chart but a kind of dead composite chart? ------------------
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Stoika7
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From: Rome, Italy
Registered: Mar 2019
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posted September 16, 2019 02:41 AM
Hi SoulOfABird! I have questions too, lol
What do you mean by "weak" Composite?
No saturn or Venus aspects?
I'd be curious to see :-)
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anska5
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posted September 16, 2019 07:44 AM
Why don't you post your synastry chart and composite chart? I'm also wondering what exactly you mean by 'weak'? Only very few aspects, only harsh aspects? Also, sometimes it's a very personal thing, what you need the relationship to be to be binding. My cousin has a seemingly 'terrible' composite chart (lots of harsh aspects) with her husband of nearly 20 years. And yes, they are the classic 'bickering' couple, but they seem to need that energy. Also, at the same time you can tell there is that sexual attraction (venus conjunct mars in synastry and 8th house composite venus) and lots of similar interests that is binding. I do find houses in composite important, so without knowing that, it's almost like the essence of relationship is not known. I just remember another couple who has been together for 15 years, married about 5 years ago. I've never seen so many aspects in synastry. Literally, every single planet is connected with the planet of the other chart. Lots and lots of harsh aspects, but the attraction between them is still almost palpable. In composite I don't know their houses, but there are so few aspects, I'm sure lots of people would consider it a weak composite. But the relationship is very strong. Equally, I knew a couple with a seemingly stunning composite chart. Very tight sun conjunct mercury, sun conjunct venus, sun conjunct mars, venus conjunct mercury, venus conjunct mars... but only one saturn aspect. Again unforuntately I dont know the houses these planet fell into. Although this was a great love for both with amazing sexual attraction,the relationship barely lasted a year. She broke up with him saying that he just couldnt love her the way she needed it (he was a big flirt which he never acted on, but she was quite insecure as a person and this just drove her nuts) So yes, I think calling something a weak composite is a matter of definition. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted September 22, 2019 06:10 PM
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SoulOfABird
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From: California
Registered: Sep 2017
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posted September 25, 2019 01:48 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Stoika7:
Hi SoulOfABird! I have questions too, lol
What do you mean by "weak" Composite?
No saturn or Venus aspects?
I'd be curious to see :-)
Ohh what I mean by weak composite is that there isn't anything strong. Not necessarily conflicting but not a lot going on. Like the person who looked at our composite chart said it was weak because there were no interaspects between our inner planets in the composite.
In synastry though we have a lot of them. Just not in the composite so she said she doesn't see the relationship going anywhere. ------------------
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SoulOfABird
Knowflake Posts: 815
From: California
Registered: Sep 2017
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posted September 25, 2019 01:54 AM
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Originally posted by anska5:
Why don't you post your synastry chart and composite chart? I'm also wondering what exactly you mean by 'weak'? Only very few aspects, only harsh aspects? Also, sometimes it's a very personal thing, what you need the relationship to be to be binding. My cousin has a seemingly 'terrible' composite chart (lots of harsh aspects) with her husband of nearly 20 years. And yes, they are the classic 'bickering' couple, but they seem to need that energy. Also, at the same time you can tell there is that sexual attraction (venus conjunct mars in synastry and 8th house composite venus) and lots of similar interests that is binding. I do find houses in composite important, so without knowing that, it's almost like the essence of relationship is not known. I just remember another couple who has been together for 15 years, married about 5 years ago. I've never seen so many aspects in synastry. Literally, every single planet is connected with the planet of the other chart. Lots and lots of harsh aspects, but the attraction between them is still almost palpable. In composite I don't know their houses, but there are so few aspects, I'm sure lots of people would consider it a weak composite. But the relationship is very strong. Equally, I knew a couple with a seemingly stunning composite chart. Very tight sun conjunct mercury, sun conjunct venus, sun conjunct mars, venus conjunct mercury, venus conjunct mars... but only one saturn aspect. Again unforuntately I dont know the houses these planet fell into. Although this was a great love for both with amazing sexual attraction,the relationship barely lasted a year. She broke up with him saying that he just couldnt love her the way she needed it (he was a big flirt which he never acted on, but she was quite insecure as a person and this just drove her nuts) So yes, I think calling something a weak composite is a matter of definition.
interesting! Yeah by weak composite I mean not many aspects. Like our composite chart doesn't have many interaspects to inner planets. & that's why the person who looked at our composite won't really take off.
I found his birthtime, and still not too many aspects .. the only one that stands out moon conjunct Jupiter. The Venus is in the 1st house and the moon in the 3rd house. Im not sure if they are any good indications. But yeah I think your answer really helped me cause I was wondering if relationships can be binding even if the composite has little aspects but good synastry. It's confusing because some say composite is more important some say synastry lol I guess like you said maybe it depends!IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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From: Asia
Registered: Nov 2018
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posted September 25, 2019 06:24 AM
How little is little? Actually you don't need A LOT of aspects to create a r/s. Moon-Jupiter is really nice. Actually at your stage you should study your synastry first. Do you know if he likes you back? Synastry and Composite are both important. One tells of how you feel and relate. Another tells of what you may experience as a couple. IP: Logged |
SoulOfABird
Knowflake Posts: 815
From: California
Registered: Sep 2017
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posted September 25, 2019 06:07 PM
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
How little is little? Actually you don't need A LOT of aspects to create a r/s. Moon-Jupiter is really nice. Actually at your stage you should study your synastry first. Do you know if he likes you back? Synastry and Composite are both important. One tells of how you feel and relate. Another tells of what you may experience as a couple.
I don't know how he feels about me yet  Im just a secret admirer lol
It's interesting though how a synastry can be intense yet composite can be bland I wonder what that means in most cases? You'd think they would kind of work hand in hand ------------------
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