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Topic: Astrology of a Stalker
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virgoscorpio
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posted September 13, 2020 08:36 PM
  
Hi everyone, I have had a long term stalker who I originally met on a dating site. He used to be very aggressive and would regularly try to contact me even after I blocked his number (he would just get a new google voice number). He has slowed down a lot, but still 10(!) years later occasionally tries to contact me. It still creeps me out but what helps me feel safer is the fact that I live multiple states away now and have changed my name due to getting married. Anyway I thought it might be interesting to post the charts so maybe it would be helpful for others out there - plus I'm just curious what people saw since I'm still learning. What stood out to me were some squares in synastry such as mars square pluto. Online dating has some weirdos so please everyone be safe! Please note that I don't know his TOB. I am blue. Composite: https://imgur.com/5O83qGY Synastry: https://imgur.com/kGBU5ZT His natal: https://imgur.com/3ZYiyyu IP: Logged |
Saggy7
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posted September 14, 2020 04:34 AM
Hi virgoscorpio!
Is he maybe a Virgo? Lol.. there's a guy I met who also years later will randomly contact me, I usually don't like ignoring people, but I realized I have to ignore him. Luckily we also don't live close and have no mutual friends or anything like that.
Google voice numbers, omg, that's pretty extreme!I thought it was funny that your nickname is virgoscorpio, this guy I mentioned is a Virgo and I have a lot of Scorpio in my chart Moon/Mars/ASC/Pluto lol. I'll take a look at the charts shortly, even though I won't be of much or any help really since I am a rookie  but I'm interested in what the experienced ones have to say! Edit: I wish i could see the tables with aspects, I only see the charts  IP: Logged |
vansio
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posted September 14, 2020 05:18 AM
fascinating! thanks for sharing turn your links into [url ] ... [/url ], removing the S in http. Imgur doesn’t offer imgcode through mobile, clicking will open our app IP: Logged |
Stoika7
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From: Rome, Italy
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posted September 14, 2020 05:20 AM
Hi virgoscorpio, this is interesting, thank you.I think that the image for composite is actually his natal and the image for his natal is Composite instead, cause in synastry he's the Taurus Sun, right? Composite Saturn/Pluto square to Sun/Mercury and the ASC/DSC axis is a potentially toxic controlling trait with a strong stubborn pattern. Then, Jupiter quincunx to Mars is an aspect of selfishness and Chiron in Gemini square Venus opposite Uranus might suggest an abusive communication and that the relationship is lacking basic elements of love/affection. South Node is conjunct Neptune so in this picture I think it looks hopeless and the two people are destined to never meet or to part ways.
Transiting Saturn is square to Comp. Saturn/Pluto, and transiting nodes are going through the neptune/south node conjunction, even if he might try to contact you again in a close future, this seems to be definitely going to end soon. In synastry, Mars square Pluto along with Moon square Pluto are obsessive aspects, but especially your Chiron is square to his Saturn which is square to his Neptune... his natal Neptune/Saturn square is a strong frustrating aspect which gives him a deep lack of self worth and self damaging trait, your Chiron triggers this aspect of his which is likely his most painful wound, along an ambitious and aggressive personality, so he's likely unable to accept your rejection cause he's unable to deal with humiliation of being unable to get what he wants (Jupiter/Mars square Sun/Mercury). His Chiron is square to his Moon/Jupiter midpoint, this could suggest he has a deep emotional wound and fear of not being loved.
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virgoscorpio
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posted September 14, 2020 05:43 AM
Thanks everyone! I can’t sleep cuz I suspect now that he is hacked my email which is super creepy and if true it means that he knows my name change and current address....super creepy!Anyway stoika I would be thrilled if he never contacts me again after this cuz he might really be a psycho. I’ll try to change the chart later. He is the taurus. IP: Logged |
Saggy7
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posted September 14, 2020 06:14 AM
Good luck virgoscorpio and thank you for sharing your story with us, those situations are never easy. Im glad Stoika had some positive findings and I hope you can live free from it moving forward IP: Logged |
virgoscorpio
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posted September 14, 2020 08:08 AM
Thanks saggy7Here are the updated links: His natal: imgur.com/5O83qGY Synastry: imgur.com/kGBU5ZT Composite: imgur.com/3ZYiyyu IP: Logged |
Stoika7
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From: Rome, Italy
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posted September 14, 2020 10:48 AM
virgoscorpio, he has Uranus square North Node and Jupiter square Mercury so it's possible that he has higher computer skills, but he mainly looks a very impulsive/compulsive person who acts and speaks quickly under impulse without thinking, he can be arrogant and verbally aggressive and have anger control issues, but his Pluto doesnt look too bad aspected unless he has a negative nessus placement, I mean that if he's physically far away he doesnt look so dangerous to me... did he contact you also by email? I assume if he knew your email address he would try to contact you in there before hacking your email... IP: Logged |
virgoscorpio
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posted September 14, 2020 11:06 AM
Thanks stoika. The reason why I think he hacked my email is because he referenced something in his email to me that he would only have known if he had access to my personal emails that I received from other people.I’m guessing he’s not really malicious because he has never physically stalked me as far as I’m aware, but he does really creep me out. IP: Logged |
Stoika7
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posted September 14, 2020 12:16 PM
Of course I understand your fear! I just suggest to not get obsessed as far as he's not a real danger, since you have those hard pluto aspects in synastry, you might get obsessed about his stalking as much as he's obsessed in contacting you... I am obviously aware of how a stalker can be creepy, just dont let that negative pluto energy from him rule your mind (this is also possible with comp. Saturn/Pluto square Mercury). IP: Logged |
virgoscorpio
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posted September 14, 2020 12:32 PM
Ok thanks stoika! It’s helpful to know this.IP: Logged |
Librapurr
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posted September 14, 2020 12:34 PM
Somebody with some similar, but different placements/ aspects. Especially, Sun/Mercury, but easy Uranus, Jupiter with 12th. She stalks people online, but it’s harmless. I would say creepy hobby. But she contacts people for some different reasons... She believes she can find out everything about everybody, and it might be the truth.
It’s like her google works differently. When I couldn’t find anything, I asked her. And she found some private information. It wasn’t hacking, just some Mars Jupiter with 12th house and Mercury magic.
Sometimes internet knows more about you than you think.Anyway, I didn’t know contacting people randomly in many years is stalking. Some people just have different perception of acceptable and creepy.
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Stoika7
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posted September 14, 2020 01:00 PM
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Originally posted by Librapurr:
Anyway, I didn’t know contacting people randomly in many years is stalking. Some people just have different perception of acceptable and creepy.
I agree, it depends on "how" they act when they contact you though :-D I have one weird guy too who harasses me on facebook since years... he seems to spend all his time in watching all my moves and posts and to know everything about me, he's always commenting like a troll, he has become friends to all my friends and family members, lol... at the beginning I was very annoyed and lot of my fb friends were asking me to block him... but then I have found out he has some harsh health issues since he was born like epilessy and likely some form of down syndrome and figured out he's likely just a very lonely person, so I didnt have the heart to block him... he gets really wild and annoying sometimes, but since I tried to not pay too much attention to him, he lately seemed to have calmed down, lol But I agree that sometimes it could be a thin boundary between a dangerous stalker and someone who is just "obsessively" and hopelessly in love/infatuated.......?
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virgoscorpio
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posted September 14, 2020 01:01 PM
I guess what’s creepy to me is the lengths he has taken t stalk me in the past. He still persists even though I cut all contact years ago.He used to continue calling and messaging me and when I blocked his number he would get a new number through google voice and continue contacting me. I finally had to completely change my number. I guess he must still have my email though so I will have to change that. I just don’t understand the persistence when I’ve made it really clear I want no contact. IP: Logged |
Stoika7
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From: Rome, Italy
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posted September 14, 2020 01:06 PM
@virgoscorpioyeah, when you have such a persistence forcing you to change all your habits, phone numbers etc, I think you can call him a stalker! He might not be physically dangerous but it's still an abuse to your freedom, privacy, peace of mind !!! IP: Logged |
Librapurr
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posted September 14, 2020 03:13 PM
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Originally posted by Stoika7:
I agree, it depends on "how" they act when they contact you though :-DI have one weird guy too who harasses me on facebook since years... he seems to spend all his time in watching all my moves and posts and to know everything about me, he's always commenting like a troll, he has become friends to all my friends and family members, lol... at the beginning I was very annoyed and lot of my fb friends were asking me to block him... but then I have found out he has some harsh health issues since he was born like epilessy and likely some form of down syndrome and figured out he's likely just a very lonely person, so I didnt have the heart to block him... he gets really wild and annoying sometimes, but since I tried to not pay too much attention to him, he lately seemed to have calmed down, lol But I agree that sometimes it could be a thin boundary between a dangerous stalker and someone who is just "obsessively" and hopelessly in love/infatuated.......?
It’s nice of you. I feel sorry for these people, but befriending family and friends would make me concern about privacy (Scorpio stellium). I guess as long as there’s no information spreading it could be ok. I don’t mind some obsession, in moderation. That girl (mentioned above) tried to contact people I know who didn’t know her. It seems like she couldn’t understand why if we know each other it doesn’t mean she could contact people I know. And she does similar things often. It’s getting creepy, but she just doesn’t understand (maybe, much Neptune and Pluto also in her)
I don’t care much if you bother me, but when the other people are getting involved... It’s drawing the line. @virgoscorpio this’s more creepy area. I guess for me messaging and calling are different levels. Phone is more private than online messaging. Edit . Maybe, Power of Mars Jupiter with unstoppability of Aries (1st house) is combing with 12th lack of boundaries in these 2 situations. IP: Logged |
Stoika7
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posted September 14, 2020 04:32 PM
@Librapurr same with me!! This guy I was talking about I also tried so many times to talk and explain that if its with me I can choose whether to accept him or not, but that he didnt have to harass all my friends, sisters... but he didnt understand why, lol... but then I understood that trying to even explain him these things was making it worse, he acted like a child needing attention and as soon as I started to ignore him, he slowed down a lot... but I think he's not a real nasty stalker, just someone with issues and loneliness...You're right about the Aries/Mars/1st house aspect, and this guy harassing virgoscorpio has Mars conjunct ASC/Jupiter 12th square Sun/Mercury, quite restless... once I read that a stalker can usually have strong Mars/first house placement or involved with 12th house! IP: Logged |
virgoscorpio
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posted September 14, 2020 05:53 PM
This is all very interesting. I don’t know his birth time so the asc/12th house may not apply, but the mars square does.IP: Logged |
Librapurr
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posted September 14, 2020 11:00 PM
@Stoika7 mental health problems could be excuse, but still frustrating. IP: Logged |
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