posted September 24, 2020 10:51 PM            

I drew up a composite for you and your brother.
There is a moon conjunct to Jupiter and this trine to a syellium of sun/mercury/Venus/Saturn/Venus
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This shows a sponateous affection and devotion for each other.it has very favorable from facial aspects so you might help each others respective professions or even join up,as mars is square to Jupiter show great industry.
There are some problematic issues.mercury is square to Pluto so it may be difficult to open up to each other.nessus is square to Jupiter and opposed to mars,so the might have been abusive conditions in childhood that be a source of the distances.
Uranus is opposed to Chiron and square to Orcus,which again give a possibility of unconscious isolation.this could relate to negative childhood condition,so becareful not to push as arguments could arise.

Venus/mercury/Saturn are conjunct the south node,so there should be a instant comraderie,as you emotions and minds will be linked...likely telepathic communication .
Saturn with the node can bring resentment so even if there is a instant connection action felt do not presume of instant intimacy.I mean,even with a instant connection still let the signs affection emerged slowly.

posted September 26, 2020 03:44 AM            

I don’t know the story as to why my mother chose to leave him with her ex husband. I do recall, I think, that he was abusive towards her but I can remember this incorrectly.

posted September 26, 2020 11:13 AM            

I would say... he sounds to be wishing to contact her, so maybe you could just help him, be a "medium" for them, and then just let them free of what to do with it.

In my family I had a similar experience with some cousins born from same father, my uncle, but different mother... they never met until they were 50 and 65 years old, and the 65 years old was the one who never met his dad, my uncle, cause his mother had holden everything back from him, and he didnt even know to have a sister (the 50 years old)... she finally found him through facebook last year... their parents had already all passed away, and my cousin was so scared to contact this unknown brother... but then it turned out they met and "recognized" their bond instantly and became very close in short time and now they are very close, sharing all their family stories and happy to spend a lot of time together :-)

posted September 26, 2020 12:40 PM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
I can post other charts if needed!

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I'd like to check your Composite with him, even though I trust 100% what Todd said.
It would be insteresting to explore he and your mother's charts (synastry and composite), if you like.

posted September 26, 2020 12:57 PM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
An update: can you guys see in my brother’s chart anything about trauma?? He is apparently bipolar and has struggled quite a bit with feeling lost! He was diagnosed 2018 at the age of 47. He said that when he got the answer from his doctor, many pieces in the puzzle fell into place for him. He has been deeply sad as to why our mother left him and his father never had answers.

I can post other charts if needed!

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His Aries Moon/Chiron in 5th house to me clearly points to an emotional wound from childhood affecting his identity (Aries), his Gemini Sun in 8th house square to Pluto looks like throwing a strong subconscious shadow on his inner sense of "Self". which he seems to identify more with his Scorpio ASC (his Sun and ASC at late 6 degree), and his Saturn opposite Neptune in first house suggests a self-worth issue affecting his relationships (Saturn in 7th house) in a way that he feels not worth to be loved. His Mars conjunct North Node in Aquarius 3rd house (Gemini) seems to look for his true identity and to set his Gemini Sun free (North Node/Mars trine to Sun/Mercury), which he might achieve through his best mercurian intellectual skills.

posted September 26, 2020 02:51 PM            

Composite mother and brother

Composite brother and I

synastry mother and I

posted September 26, 2020 04:57 PM            

In Composite, Chiron/Moon midpoint in 4th house square to Neptune clearly shows an abandonment/detachment issue... also Saturn is in Cancer/10th house, so this shows that a family/nurturing environment was missing... also, the Sun/Moon midpoint is square Uranus, which looks like an abrupt separation/detachment from the "roots" of their mother/son connection, cause the midpoint falls in the 2nd house... South Node is in 12th house and conjunct Sun, another aspect of separation deeply affecting the child at his identity level (Sun) and in his social relationships (Sun in 11th house), and giving a deeply unsolved trait to the relationship (South Node 12th house)...
Venus and North Node in sixth house/Pisces suggest that a re-connection is not impossible, the sixth house takes time and effort to work things out and the Venus/North Node midpoint square to the Mars/Jupiter midpoint in 3rd house, so I think that a re-connection can happen slowly and with a careful communication cause self-defence attitudes and emotions are obviously there, especially from your mother's side cause of the Neptune square Moon/Chiron midpoint which might also suggest deep guilty feelings and the resurfacing of her deepest past wounds... But Saturn trine to Venus and Mars seems willing to support such reconnection, and North Node in Pisces is all about compassion and healing...

In synastry, her Venus in 5th house is right square to his Chiron/Moon in 5th house with her Neptune opposition and square to Uranus, so again it seems that the wound of abandonment and separation is visible... she has south node conjunct neptune in 3rd house, so she's likely prone to repress and let go old memories and past wounds, but this leaves a sense of nonfulfillment to her... his South Node is conjunct to her Pluto in her 12th house, again a strong karmic placement showing that a lot of unconscious dynamics of his childhood (South Node in Leo) could be hidden/repressed/forgotten... her Pluto is opposite to his Mars and square to her Moon in 4th house, so I think this shows that the detachment was deeply painful for her... but it also suggests that a strong emotional conflict is there... his Jupiter/Neptune is conjunct her Sun/Mercury and opposite Saturn, so even though she might feel the "blame" from his Saturn, i.e. he might trigger her deepest self-worth issues, the Jupiter/Saturn opposition suggest that a positive balance between past and present/future can be worked out... moreover, her North Node is conjunct his Moon, so this looks like a good omen for me, for a possible future reconnection...

posted September 27, 2020 02:57 PM            

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Originally posted by todd:
I think the elephant in the refrigerator is his fathers composite.
Additionally a,tricomposite of your brother and his parents should be considered.
Also I assume you are female?
todd

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posted October 10, 2020 12:55 PM            

There was sexual abuse (not by family member) when he was very young, among many other disturbed things.
Apparently, our mother suffered Postnatal Psychosis so they took him away and his father had 100% custody. His entire story is quite sad (and it makes my own pale) but it also feels good knowing our mother didn't give up on him, intentionally!