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Topic: The Gemini messaged me saying that he wants to see me
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ChildofVenus
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posted October 12, 2020 11:10 AM
  
The Gemini I made a thread about awhile ago. Messaged me out of the blue this morning. Saying that his girlfriend is leaving him in 6 months moving out of state and that he hopes that he can see me. I really can’t believe it this is after he said he thought it was best if we didn’t see each other anymore. When I told him my parents thought we should get together. I had still been trying to talk to him and he was just leaving me on read. Now all of a sudden he wants to see me? I’m sure it’s just because of the Mars in retrograde. I won’t lie I have always thought about him and wanted to see him again. But I think he just wants to see me because his girlfriend is leaving.This is our synastry
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teasel
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posted October 12, 2020 11:52 AM
I would listen to your instincts. I’m not sure why your parents would want you to get together with him. I can’t remember everything. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted October 12, 2020 01:10 PM
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Originally posted by teasel:
I would listen to your instincts. I’m not sure why your parents would want you to get together with him. I can’t remember everything.
They didn't say that they just said that they thought he was a nice guy. And when I told him that he said he thought we shouldn't see each other anymore. Now he's saying that he hopes he can see me. After his girlfriend moves away in six months. This is insane I don't get it. I had been trying to talk to him and he left me on read. Now he wants to see me? I guess this is typical Gemini behavior? Like why would he come back wanting to see me after all this time? IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted October 12, 2020 02:14 PM
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
They didn't say that they just said that they thought he was a nice guy. And when I told him that he said he thought we shouldn't see each other anymore. Now he's saying that he hopes he can see me. After his girlfriend moves away in six months. This is insane I don't get it. I had been trying to talk to him and he left me on read. Now he wants to see me? I guess this is typical Gemini behavior? Like why would he come back wanting to see me after all this time?
It isn't typical Gemini. I have the Moon and Venus, and I can be skittish, but I wouldn't expect someone to wait around for someone else to leave - that's really disrespectful. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted October 12, 2020 04:16 PM
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Originally posted by teasel:
It isn't typical Gemini. I have the Moon and Venus, and I can be skittish, but I wouldn't expect someone to wait around for someone else to leave - that's really disrespectful.
Maybe it's because my Moon is in his 8th house? IP: Logged |
MonteCristo
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posted October 15, 2020 11:16 AM
He’s got red flags written all over him! He’s basically reaching out to you while he’s still with his gf, but waiting until she leaves? Lol this guyyyyyy 😂IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted October 15, 2020 11:24 AM
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Originally posted by MonteCristo:
He’s got red flags written all over him! He’s basically reaching out to you while he’s still with his gf, but waiting until she leaves? Lol this guyyyyyy 😂
I don't think he really has a girlfriend I think he just used that. IP: Logged |
MonteCristo
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posted October 15, 2020 11:41 AM
Really?Well dare I say it... another red flag lol IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted October 15, 2020 02:19 PM
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Originally posted by MonteCristo:
Really?Well dare I say it... another red flag lol
I think it's because of the Mercury in Retrograde. All of a sudden he contacts me saying he wants to see me again. After he told me he didn't want to after we hooked up last year. I started talking to a Scorpio who I am supposed to meet up with in a couple of months. I really did like the Gemini we had so much fun together. But he said he didn't want to see me again because he thought I wanted more than friends with benefits. IP: Logged |
MonteCristo
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posted October 15, 2020 02:42 PM
Well, do you want more than friends with benefits?IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted October 15, 2020 05:35 PM
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Originally posted by MonteCristo:
Well, do you want more than friends with benefits?
I don't know why he even came back he hurt my feelings when he said he didn't want to see me again. Now he wants to see me I missed him but I don't want to get hurt again. IP: Logged |
MonteCristo
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posted October 15, 2020 05:57 PM
The fickle nature of an air sign, I suppose. I’m making a generalization, of course, but I do think Gemini men are prone to being major flirts, even just to see if they’ve still “got it”, or if their former flame would accept them back, whether they themselves want it (and are available) or not. Been there!I once met a Gemini who I was instantly drawn to. He was charming, hilarious, witty, and good looking. We talked all day everyday for two weeks, with him saying he was my “new boyfriend” and going above and beyond. We hadn’t even done anything physical yet, and one day, BAM, he disappears off the face of the earth... only to return again two weeks later as though nothing out of the ordinary had taken place. I reluctantly let him back into my life, and we dated blissfully for two months. Long story short—he was ENGAGED the entire time 😂. What a dummy. He actually even found me a YEAR later, found out which apartment I lived at from a mutual friend, and came knocking on my door. I was flabbergasted. He said he wanted to apologize and he never should’ve lied and treated me in that way. I looked him in the eyes, said “thank you!” and began to close the door amid his shocked protests. He sent me a message on Instagram the next day saying he only had respect and admiration for me, and regretted his actions. Mind you, he was already married at this point. I think some people just like to play games. Don’t let them make you their plaything! IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted October 15, 2020 09:41 PM
I told him I'm surprised that he wants to see me again after he said he didn't. Both of my parents are Gemini I would never date one. Like how does he know I'm not seeing anyone? It's annoying.IP: Logged |
MonteCristo
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posted October 15, 2020 10:24 PM
It IS annoying!! The audacity lol.IP: Logged |
maleja.rangel
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posted October 15, 2020 11:25 PM
I would take his intentions serious after retrograde Mercury. Not when Mercury is stationary and with so much going on in relationships and the stars. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted October 16, 2020 12:16 PM
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Originally posted by maleja.rangel:
I would take his intentions serious after retrograde Mercury. Not when Mercury is stationary and with so much going on in relationships and the stars.
I think he wants to hookup again. IP: Logged |
anska5
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posted October 16, 2020 01:06 PM
To me what seems much more relevant in explaining his fickleness than him being a gemini sun is him being a venus in gemini guy! I know several gemini sun men who have been happily monogameous and constant in their affection but they all had a venus in cancer. I've been burnt severely by a venus in gemini guy before and I could easily imagine that your guy wasn't thinking much of anything when contacting you again. Plus your guy has sun and venus in the 12th house, so even more fluidity. I can only agree with everyone here who's pointing out all the red flags and if you are not happy with something casual only, I would stay well clear of this guy. It's quite evident from your questions and comments that you still have feelings fro him and deep down somehow you hope him reemerging was triggered by some kind of realization on his part that he has true feelings for you. I completely understand, been there done that, but the whole scenario only points to fickleness, red flags and more hurt in store if you let him in again. IP: Logged |
maleja.rangel
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posted October 16, 2020 02:15 PM
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I think he wants to hookup again.
Well, it’s up to you and what you are really looking for in someone and in a relationship, when you have clear that, don’t take middle things and more airy situations like that. He can come back but is that what you really want? If is not, so let him know your toughts with determination. Don’t make mistakes twice unless you know and feel that he really change. You have free will and can take the right decisions. If you accept him again and hurt your feelings again, probably you haven’t learn your lesson about your value and what you want. ❤️ IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted October 16, 2020 02:28 PM
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Originally posted by anska5:
To me what seems much more relevant in explaining his fickleness than him being a gemini sun is him being a venus in gemini guy! I know several gemini sun men who have been happily monogameous and constant in their affection but they all had a venus in cancer. I've been burnt severely by a venus in gemini guy before and I could easily imagine that your guy wasn't thinking much of anything when contacting you again. Plus your guy has sun and venus in the 12th house, so even more fluidity. I can only agree with everyone here who's pointing out all the red flags and if you are not happy with something casual only, I would stay well clear of this guy. It's quite evident from your questions and comments that you still have feelings fro him and deep down somehow you hope him reemerging was triggered by some kind of realization on his part that he has true feelings for you. I completely understand, been there done that, but the whole scenario only points to fickleness, red flags and more hurt in store if you let him in again.
I don't believe he realized anything I know he's not relationship material. Which is why I initially asked him if he wanted to be friends with benefits. Because that's what I wanted from him. But now I am talking to a Scorpio guy I've mentioned him on here before. I like him more than I like the Gemini. With the Gemini, it's fun and exciting the sex with him wasn't that good. But I enjoyed his company. The reason why I was hurt was because he said he didn't want to hookup anymore because we both had fun together. I don't want a relationship with him. I just like hanging out with him I like his company. Being a Gemini Mars I can kind of relate to him. But yeah I know Venus in Gemini is fickled my dad is one. And my mom is a Venus Taurus but they both have Mercury in Gemini. Wouldn't his Venus in the 12th house made a difference though? IP: Logged |
Kekerina
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posted October 16, 2020 04:25 PM
I wanna say 2 things-How do you post the chart? ( im trying to post it too) - I have a gemini moon ex who wrote me a few days ago, and we havent spoke since 4 years ago. maybe its a astrology thing IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted October 16, 2020 04:34 PM
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Originally posted by Kekerina:
I wanna say 2 things-How do you post the chart? ( im trying to post it too) - I have a gemini moon ex who wrote me a few days ago, and we havent spoke since 4 years ago. maybe its a astrology thing
Yes, I think so too because another Gemini guy who I never even met in person. Messaged me on Facebook and I haven't even talked to him in 3 years. Upload the chart here https://imgbox.com/ and then copy the url. And then put [/IMG]link goes here[/IMG] But you have to remove the s in front of the http: in the link.
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Kekerina
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posted October 16, 2020 05:02 PM
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Yes, I think so too because another Gemini guy who I never even met in person. Messaged me on Facebook and I haven't even talked to him in 3 years. Upload the chart here https://imgbox.com/ and then copy the url. And then put [/IMG]link goes here[/IMG] But you have to remove the s in front of the http: in the link.
Still cant update a chart ): the image appears to be broken Am I doing wrong? https://imgbox.com/xww5iNsv here is te link
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ChildofVenus
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posted October 16, 2020 05:06 PM
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Originally posted by Kekerina:
Still cant update a chart ): the image appears to be broken i am doing wrong?https://imgbox.com/xww5iNsv here is te link
After you upload the image right link it and click open image in a new tab then you'll get the right link.
http://images2.imgbox.com/b5/c9/xww5iNsv_o.png Just copy the link above and put [IMG] in front of it and [/IMG] after it. IP: Logged |
Kekerina
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posted October 16, 2020 05:39 PM
let me try  IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted October 16, 2020 06:51 PM
You got it  IP: Logged |
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