posted November 04, 2020 03:15 PM            

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Originally posted by todd:
Hi
Its yard to get a warm feeling off this chart.
The Saturn/Uranus conjunction on the ascendant is very trying unstable.
The moon is square to Orcus which is emotionally closed and the.midpoint is to nessus which makes the emotional isolation darker.
The mars/Venus midpoint is conjunct to.mercury so there is a element of attraction and openness,but even then Pluto is conjunct to mars.
He is too set in his ways and not really into changing anything.
I cant really see this going anywhere except a sexual hookup with all the Pluto/mars energy

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posted November 05, 2020 08:34 PM            

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Originally posted by Saggy7:
Hi todd! Also, we both have Mars conjunction Pluto natally, so I would think that helps

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posted November 07, 2020 12:40 PM            

That is some good news then.

I don't know if you noticed we have quite a few Juno contacts also..Juno conjunct ASC, Saturn, Uranus, Neptune and sextile Moon

posted November 12, 2020 01:46 PM            

So I checked our your composite and synastry. I' m gonna be honest with you as far as what I think about the composite and synastry. One thing that I like about the composite is that your seventh ruler the moon in scorpio is in tenth house sextule the chart ruler of the comp which is saturn/ASC plus 3rd ruler Neptune/Juno. I always like to see the rulers of both the DESC and ASC in nice aspect to one another and there in pleasant houses the 1st and 10th.

I like sextiles a lot but I personally prefer to see the Moon of a Composite hard aspecting another personal planet such as the Sun, Mercury, Venus or Mars because it really gives more of an essence to the Moon between the couple. Nonetheless the sextile from the moon to the chart ruler is nice.

Another thing that I like is that Venus is in Capricorn in the 1st trine Jupiter R in taurus in the 5th. This is great because there is sensuality and romantic affections are present in this connection. Also eros/psych is also conjunct the ascendant which also shows there is an attraction present between you both but its a little hiden cause its placement in the 12th house.

Some things I dont like about the composite is Uranus and Saturn on the Ascendant. However, it is not harshly aspecting other planets WHICH IS GOOD! but on the asencant...i dont know about that, saggy. I wish it could be in the 11th or even in the 9th maybe or 6th but on the ASC?? i dont know...

Also I' m not a big fan of the Sun and Mercury in the 12th house. I' m just gonna say it right off the bat because I've had a similar composite before that had sun and mercury in the 12th and boy it sucks! reason is because the guy I was dealing with did not want a commitment and was seeing other people and so was I as well. So it felt hard to get a commitment with him plus the hidden affairs. I've seen other couples to with this placement and it also didnt turn out well. But one way how this could play out is that the male in the relationship could have some 12th house issues that could range from insecurity, jail time, addiction, etc. the 12th house does play a theme in your relationship and I would get more info on the 12th house in sag to get an idea of how this could play out with your guy.

Mars/Pluto not such a bad placement imo but there could be violence if one of you has anger problems. If this relatinship is healthy then this placement would suggest a strong interest in the occult between the two of you, and strong sexual attraction/bond that has to delve in a lot of kink. Mars/pluto in the elventh can mean that the two of you like to do a lot of activities that are scorpio based activities.

Final thing that I noticed to is that the North node is not strongly aspected. I love to see the North node on an angle or conjunct/square the vertex or on a significant planet.

I havent even checked midpoints yet in this composite and man my reading would go on forever. I'll come back later to this. Give me your thoughts in the meantime, saggy!

posted November 16, 2020 04:03 AM            

First of all, thank you so much for taking the time to look at the charts and give a detailed feedback!

Ok, I'll just jump right to the "negative" aspects...Saturn/Uranus conjunct Ascendant.. im not an expert but would this mean that Saturn/Asc can make it difficult to get things off the ground and/or restrictive rs.. and Uranus/Asc maybe lack of commitment, too much freedom needed and such?

Then you mention the 12th house..yup I had Composite Moon in 12th with someone and also Mars with someone else...it really affected both rs and it didn't work out...I don't know him well enough still to know of any possible addictions or a "dark" past lol..so I'll have to wait that one out..

I know what you mean! I actually always had Vertex on DC and strong NN aspects with all of my ex's..so this is a first..

I can say that so far he is being way more expressive than I am...flirty, sometimes even a bit pushy..and I am just not there yet with him..and also there are things he doesn't know about me yet (as I'm sure me about him) so I wonder if that's already the "12th house" placement taking effect..
Because in the past I would share these things pretty early on and with him I just don't feel like sharing yet..probably because I don't feel a strong/intense connection and pull like I did with others in the past..but there is possibly the potential to grow..

posted November 18, 2020 11:47 AM            

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Originally posted by Saggy7:
Hi angel!

First of all, thank you so much for taking the time to look at the charts and give a detailed feedback!

Ok, I'll just jump right to the "negative" aspects...Saturn/Uranus conjunct Ascendant.. im not an expert but would this mean that Saturn/Asc can make it difficult to get things off the ground and/or restrictive rs.. and Uranus/Asc maybe lack of commitment, too much freedom needed and such?

Then you mention the 12th house..yup I had Composite Moon in 12th with someone and also Mars with someone else...it really affected both rs and it didn't work out...I don't know him well enough still to know of any possible addictions or a "dark" past lol..so I'll have to wait that one out..

I know what you mean! I actually always had Vertex on DC and strong NN aspects with all of my ex's..so this is a first..

I can say that so far he is being way more expressive than I am...flirty, sometimes even a bit pushy..and I am just not there yet with him..and also there are things he doesn't know about me yet (as I'm sure me about him) so I wonder if that's already the "12th house" placement taking effect..
Because in the past I would share these things pretty early on and with him I just don't feel like sharing yet..probably because I don't feel a strong/intense connection and pull like I did with others in the past..but there is possibly the potential to grow..

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Your welcome! I love reading charts! Yeah the negative aspects as far as Saturn and Uranus conjunct ASC is something I' m not a big fan of but at the same tiiiime there are no hard aspects to your composite ascendant which makes the aspct less difficult in my opinion.

Yes 12th house composite planets tend to suck to be honest and I rarely see long lasting couples that have 12th house planets unless both of them are in jail, or suffer from drug addiction, etc. It really all depends if there are harsh aspects to these negative placements and if there are receiving harsh aspects to the 12th house sun/mercury I would be concerned.

Yup! Vertex/North node aspects are amazing and I see that in synastry or in the composite they tend to really make two people feel they can be together. It just has this very deep fated and romantic vibe with one another.

I think that you not feeling the same way as he does is a 12th house effect indeed because usually when I was involved with people who I had a composite 12th house the level of commitment was not mutual. I have been there, I know exactly how it feels to not vibe entirely with the person. Usually if I don't feel attraction with the person on the first date or if I start to see some signs that turn me off, that's the end of it for me. There's not really any point in continuing the connection. I'll look more into your synastry.

posted November 18, 2020 12:10 PM            

So often do I see sag's date other sag's haha. but his orb is wide but still count it. He has sun conjunct mercury like you. You guys really get each other and i wouldn't be surprised if you both communicate a lot when you get together. communication is understood mutually and this bonds you.

posted November 18, 2020 01:32 PM            

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Originally posted by angel4845:
Your welcome! I love reading charts! Yeah the negative aspects as far as Saturn and Uranus conjunct ASC is something I' m not a big fan of but at the same tiiiime there are no hard aspects to your composite ascendant which makes the aspct less difficult in my opinion.

Yes 12th house composite planets tend to suck to be honest and I rarely see long lasting couples that have 12th house planets unless both of them are in jail, or suffer from drug addiction, etc. It really all depends if there are harsh aspects to these negative placements and if there are receiving harsh aspects to the 12th house sun/mercury I would be concerned.

Yup! Vertex/North node aspects are amazing and I see that in synastry or in the composite they tend to really make two people feel they can be together. It just has this very deep fated and romantic vibe with one another.

I think that you not feeling the same way as he does is a 12th house effect indeed because usually when I was involved with people who I had a composite 12th house the level of commitment was not mutual. I have been there, I know exactly how it feels to not vibe entirely with the person. Usually if I don't feel attraction with the person on the first date or if I start to see some signs that turn me off, that's the end of it for me. There's not really any point in continuing the connection. I'll look more into your synastry.

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Hey angel!

Do we have some of those harsh aspects to the 12th house Sun/Mercury here?

Also, he has natal Venus in his 12th and I have Pluto in mine..

They really are, but my last dating experience had all of that and more..and it completely failed and left me so hurt and confused..which is another reason why I am so cautious now even more than ever before (and I consider myself cautious with men in general) and I'm just taking my time to get to know this guy before jumping into anything..

I definitely have a certain level of interest in him, I'm just in lack of better words "waiting for him to prove himself" to make me feel like I can trust him and let my guard down.. I am really willing to see if this has the potential to go somewhere..but same time I want to make sure that I am not heartbroken if it doesn't..and that I keep my independence during this whole process without getting lost in the other person and the rs itself which I tend to do when I care a lot. So this feels ok for a change.
To not feel consumed by the experience..

posted November 18, 2020 01:43 PM            

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Originally posted by angel4845:
He has Mars conjunct Pluto like you I can totally see why hes drawn to you because he sees his other half who shares a similar aspect to him plus its right on your ascendant. I see that your scorpio placements are square his north node/IC. I can see why he's drawn to you but I also feel there's something about your scorpio placements that will clash or teach him life lessons in connection with his IC/north node in Aquarius. I can also see he has Psyche square mars pluto natally I wanna say that there are some psychological issues or prominence to do with his psyche home life. Maybe money issues? feeling inadequate? Was abadoned or molested maybe? these are harsh interpretations i've come up with but it could be simple like maybe had an absent parent figure while growing up but Mars pluto people are pretty confident. So I would'nt be surprised if he learned to grow a thick coat. Your moon mars pluto ascendant triggers this.

So often do I see sag's date other sag's haha. but his orb is wide but still count it. He has sun conjunct mercury like you. You guys really get each other and i wouldn't be surprised if you both communicate a lot when you get together. communication is understood mutually and this bonds you.

Venus conjunct venus i like that plus I can also see his Moon in libra opposite your Jupiter. I think these are both nice aspects to see. I like that the angles are also almost conjunct which is also another plus. I' m just concerned that since you feel its one sided. Well let me know what you think about the synastry and how do you feel about your venus conjunct his?

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Yes! We both have Mars Pluto natally, so I think this helps with all the Mars Pluto aspects that we share.. there is a lot I have yet to learn about him and vice versa so everything you say is definitely possible.

Omg! I date other Sag like 99% of the time!!! I just click with them the most it seems like, it's really a pattern by now, it's crazy lol!

Yeah I like Sun-Mercury, I think I have strong Mercury in my chart and it is really important to me to have good conversations. Also I appreciate another Mercury in Sag because I'm all about honesty!

What do you think about his NN and Psyche conjunct my Asc in Synastry? (And my Psyche conj his Asc) or wait maybe Im seeing this wrong lol

I also think Venus conj Venus could be a good thing, I never had that before in a significant rs so it would be interesting to see how it plays out. But me being the one who prefers a man to take control of things when it comes to progressing to the next level, I appreciate his assertiveness..(we both also have Mars in Scorpio)

And unfortunately I don't have his TOB, didn't ask, if I ever do, will update the charts.

Thank you

posted November 18, 2020 05:02 PM            

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Originally posted by Saggy7:
Hey angel!

Do we have some of those harsh aspects to the 12th house Sun/Mercury here?

Also, he has natal Venus in his 12th and I have Pluto in mine..

They really are, but my last dating experience had all of that and more..and it completely failed and left me so hurt and confused..which is another reason why I am so cautious now even more than ever before (and I consider myself cautious with men in general) and I'm just taking my time to get to know this guy before jumping into anything..

I definitely have a certain level of interest in him, I'm just in lack of better words "waiting for him to prove himself" to make me feel like I can trust him and let my guard down.. I am really willing to see if this has the potential to go somewhere..but same time I want to make sure that I am not heartbroken if it doesn't..and that I keep my independence during this whole process without getting lost in the other person and the rs itself which I tend to do when I care a lot. So this feels ok for a change.
To not feel consumed by the experience..

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posted November 18, 2020 05:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Saggy7:
Yes! We both have Mars Pluto natally, so I think this helps with all the Mars Pluto aspects that we share.. there is a lot I have yet to learn about him and vice versa so everything you say is definitely possible.

Omg! I date other Sag like 99% of the time!!! I just click with them the most it seems like, it's really a pattern by now, it's crazy lol!

Yeah I like Sun-Mercury, I think I have strong Mercury in my chart and it is really important to me to have good conversations. Also I appreciate another Mercury in Sag because I'm all about honesty!

What do you think about his NN and Psyche conjunct my Asc in Synastry? (And my Psyche conj his Asc) or wait maybe Im seeing this wrong lol

I also think Venus conj Venus could be a good thing, I never had that before in a significant rs so it would be interesting to see how it plays out. But me being the one who prefers a man to take control of things when it comes to progressing to the next level, I appreciate his assertiveness..(we both also have Mars in Scorpio)

And unfortunately I don't have his TOB, didn't ask, if I ever do, will update the charts.

Thank you

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