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posted November 25, 2020 06:43 AM            

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posted November 25, 2020 01:47 PM            

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Originally posted by Saggy7:
Bumping this for you, softissues! Hopefully todd, Stoika7 or one of the other experts here can chime in on your situation

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posted November 25, 2020 02:05 PM            

So looking at this composite, I can see why you're so attached to this person and I see a mutuality between you both.

First off, the Sun is conjunct the Moon in the composite. So there is a very restorative completion to your union. The female and male energies are perfectly meshed between you. It feels as if they are the missing puzzle piece in your life. This is made all the more spiritual/otherworldly because it's occuring in Pisces.

Currently, transiting Neptune is conjunct the composite Moon, so it genuinely feels as if this person was sent from God and is your soulmate. The magic/synchronicity present right now cannot be denied and the union probably feels so much greater than both of you, like you're both puppets to fate.

Transit Neptune is also trine the composite North Node (loosely) and loosely conjunct the Sun, so you were destined to meet this person and vice versa.

So, there are also negative aspects to this composite which might outweigh the good possibly.

Chiron is square to the Sun/Moon conjunction, so this interpersonal relationship was meant to hurt/teach you a valuable lesson to both of you. Chiron is sort of like putting leeches on a wound. It helps in some senses. Can often be detrimental. It can often leave you with a sense of bewilderment, and that sometimes good things can arise from a lot of pain after putting the psychological work in to heal from the incident.

Pluto is square the composite Moon, so, as you said earlier, there is an all consuming, obsessive quality to this relationship that might tear both of you apart in the end.

Venus is square to Saturn, to the expression of love between you guys cannot be fully explored, there is an unconscious hesitation and an iciness in spite of the adoration/infatuation between you both.

Venus is conjunct to Uranus, so this was essentially destined to be a relationship akin to a comet - it strikes out and burns brilliantly, and then fades out a second later. Very blink-and-you-miss-it energy (which is exemplified by the fact you guys were only officially together for 2 weeks)

Transit Pluto/Jupiter/Saturn are currently conjunct your ASC right now which could be a factor leading to the trauma/stress you both experienced together?

Also Saturn will be conjunct Mars the majority of 2021 which I don't see as a binding transit but rather one in which you guys continue to break apart...

Looking at this composite, I feel the energy of young love that is not meant to stand the test of time but rather to teach you both valuable lessons you carry for the rest of your lives.

posted November 25, 2020 03:13 PM            

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Originally posted by athenaia:
Hi there!

So looking at this composite, I can see why you're so attached to this person and I see a mutuality between you both.

First off, the Sun is conjunct the Moon in the composite. So there is a very restorative completion to your union. The female and male energies are perfectly meshed between you. It feels as if they are the missing puzzle piece in your life. This is made all the more spiritual/otherworldly because it's occuring in Pisces.

Currently, transiting Neptune is conjunct the composite Moon, so it genuinely feels as if this person was sent from God and is your soulmate. The magic/synchronicity present right now cannot be denied and the union probably feels so much greater than both of you, like you're both puppets to fate.

Transit Neptune is also trine the composite North Node (loosely) and loosely conjunct the Sun, so you were destined to meet this person and vice versa.

So, there are also negative aspects to this composite which might outweigh the good possibly.

Chiron is square to the Sun/Moon conjunction, so this interpersonal relationship was meant to hurt/teach you a valuable lesson to both of you. Chiron is sort of like putting leeches on a wound. It helps in some senses. Can often be detrimental. It can often leave you with a sense of bewilderment, and that sometimes good things can arise from a lot of pain after putting the psychological work in to heal from the incident.

Pluto is square the composite Moon, so, as you said earlier, there is an all consuming, obsessive quality to this relationship that might tear both of you apart in the end.

Venus is square to Saturn, to the expression of love between you guys cannot be fully explored, there is an unconscious hesitation and an iciness in spite of the adoration/infatuation between you both.

Venus is conjunct to Uranus, so this was essentially destined to be a relationship akin to a comet - it strikes out and burns brilliantly, and then fades out a second later. Very blink-and-you-miss-it energy (which is exemplified by the fact you guys were only officially together for 2 weeks)

Transit Pluto/Jupiter/Saturn are currently conjunct your ASC right now which could be a factor leading to the trauma/stress you both experienced together?

Also Saturn will be conjunct Mars the majority of 2021 which I don't see as a binding transit but rather one in which you guys continue to break apart...

Looking at this composite, I feel the energy of young love that is not meant to stand the test of time but rather to teach you both valuable lessons you carry for the rest of your lives.

Also, Mars conjunct Neptune in the composite could point to the fact that he's a compulsive liar (you said lying was a prominent theme in your relationship), or that he may not be as invested in the relationship as you

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Hi, thank you for your response! A lot of these have actually manifested. And it's crazy how many similar aspects the sun and moon have in common.

The Saturn comment makes so much sense because I found out he's leaving the country soon, most likely for a very long time. The transiting Neptune comment as well is so interesting. So much Neptune and Piscean energy here that it's unbelievable.

Wouldn't the Jupiter and Saturn trine ascendant be a good thing?

posted November 25, 2020 03:15 PM            

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Originally posted by softissues:
Hi, thank you for your response! A lot of these have actually manifested. And it's crazy how many similar aspects the sun and moon have in common.

The Saturn comment makes so much sense because I found out he's leaving the country soon, most likely for a very long time. The transiting neptune comment as well is so interesting. So much Neptune and Piscean energy here that it's unbelievable.

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posted November 25, 2020 03:39 PM            

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Wouldn't the Jupiter and Saturn trine ascendant be a good thing?

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They are conjunct the composite ascendant! I think a trine would be a more gentle energy.

posted November 25, 2020 03:49 PM            

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Originally posted by athenaia:
Hi softissues, thank you for the feedback! Interesting that he will be moving away, that's a fascinating manifestation of t. Saturn conjunct c. Mars I didn't consider.

They are conjunct the composite ascendant! I think a trine would be a more gentle energy.

Jupiter is in its fall in Capricorn, and Pluto conjunct Saturn is traditionally seen as a malefic energy in astrology. This year's theme was the Jupiter/Pluto/Saturn conjunction in Capricorn which was largely negative in a lot of respects, you know? So this big, unyielding energy on the composite's Ascendant may not have had a stabilizing energy for you guys. Could have been a question of bad timing in that respect

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Wow the bad timing could be something. Do you think there is marriage potential? We have juno in the first conjunct moon, juno square pluto and chiron.

Sorry but I still see Jupiter and Saturn trine the ascendant. Could you check again lol.

I am really happy he's moving away because he'll be away for his solar return in 2021 and that has a 12th house stellium including sun and moon in there so at least then they're moved to the 10th house considering the chart done in terms of the reference place.

Also the lilith conjunct ascendant. How would that manifest because although we are quite opposites in terms of our background and lifestyle but we are similar in terms of understanding and vibing with one another. We both natally have this position but his lilith is in 12th while mine is in 1st, maybe that's why I noticed this energy more but I felt really powerful being with him. Like a stereotypical power couple.

posted November 25, 2020 04:09 PM            

I feel that Todd and Stoika are better experts to ask about marriage. I tend to see Venus in aspect to Uranus in composite as a kiss of death, and usually only thrives in relationships where there is already a very unconventional element (such as a massive age gap or something), but even then Venus/Uranus is very epmereal/temporary. In addition to the Venus/Saturn square, it is a bit difficult to see that this relationship has long term legs.

I can absolutely see that you guys will continue to have quite a pull over each other. I had Saturn conj IC in a composite with my most recent ex-boyfriend and we had known each other for 15 years, were in a relationship for 3 years. So that is a very binding aspect, along with NN conjunct DSC.

Hopefully Todd and Stoika can chime in though because they're both midpoint masters and are quite good at predicting future events

Liltih conjunct ASC could be that there was a strong carnal aspect to the relationship? Perhaps you both brought out something feral, primal in one another in which your rational thoughts took a backseat and something very sensual took its place instead? Or that there was a thrilling, forbidden element to the relationship you both relished in? This also falls in line with feeling empowered with him for sure, both of you being able to draw out the other's inner anima

posted November 25, 2020 04:21 PM            

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Originally posted by athenaia:
Oh lol we're misunderstanding each other a just little bit, *transit* Pluto, Saturn and Jupiter are conjunct the ascendant of the composite currently. So that could be where the intense energy is coming from at the moment. Transit Jupiter and Saturn will move into Aquarius by mid to late December 2020

I feel that Todd and Stoika are better experts to ask about marriage. I tend to see Venus in aspect to Uranus in composite as a kiss of death, and usually only thrives in relationships where there is already a very unconventional element (such as a massive age gap or something), but even then Venus/Uranus is very epmereal/temporary. In addition to the Venus/Saturn square, it is a bit difficult to see that this relationship has long term legs.

I can absolutely see that you guys will continue to have quite a pull over each other. I had Saturn conj IC in a composite with my most recent ex-boyfriend and we had known each other for 15 years, were in a relationship for 3 years. So that is a very binding aspect, along with NN conjunct DSC.

Hopefully Todd and Stoika can chime in though because they're both midpoint masters and are quite good at predicting future events

Liltih conjunct ASC could be that there was a strong carnal aspect to the relationship? Perhaps you both brought out something feral, primal in one another in which your rational thoughts took a backseat and something very sensual took its place instead? Or that there was a thrilling, forbidden element to the relationship you both relished in? This also falls in line with feeling empowered with him for sure, both of you being able to draw out the other's inner anima

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Ahhhhh I am so sorry, I was like "what is are they talking abouttttt"

Thank you for your advice and interpretation. Yeah that primal thing bloody hell paired with his mars in my first house in our synastry chart, it was intense, especially since it was my first time being in a relationship.

That makes me so sad to know will still be in contact especially at first glimpse. We've joked about being pen pals while he is away but idk if the mars-saturn conjunction is into play AGAINNNNN. Idk how I'll move on if he's still somehow in my life especially because I had to break it off. Not because I didn't love him but because of the trauma and the harm it could potentially do and had already done to me. His Lilith is in my 10th house and my mars, pluto and Chiron are natally all in there.