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MacKaylaLane
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posted December 04, 2020 11:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MacKaylaLane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's been almost a year since we met at his company. We are born on the same day and have such a great understanding of each other. I totally trust him. We never had the opportunity to Express our feelings to each other, i know he feels the same but we have some differences that are hard to ignore ( social status, nationality,...) Is there any hope for us?

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posted December 05, 2020 11:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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MacKaylaLane
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posted December 05, 2020 12:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MacKaylaLane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks Randall!

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Stoika7
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posted December 05, 2020 04:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stoika7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi MacKaylaLane

yes, this looks like a meeting in a work environment with Jupiter on DSC trine Mars, Pluto/Moon in the 6th house and North Node in 10th house sextile Saturn. The social class issue might be felt cause of Jupiter square Venus, this is also an aspect of "going overboard" and the Pluto/Moon conjunction square Juno can signal a very intense chemistry. Eros conjunct Juno/Mercury looks like their loving feelings are mutual and there's a great mental synergy between them, working together makes their love for each other grow. Mercury/Juno conjunct IC makes them feel like a perfect team, members of the same family, moreover the Eros/Psyche midpoint is conjunct IC, this is an aspect giving a very deep affection which is extremely romantic and emotional. The Juno/Jupiter midpoint is square to Neptune, this is very platonic, and the Pluto-Moon/Juno midpoint is opposite Lilith, and square to Saturn/Uranus, there is a strong craving and infatuation for each other but the square to Saturn/Uranus makes things very difficult as if there's a line that can't be crossed or the actual situation is difficult to establish a romantic relationship "socially acceptable" (as the two may perceive it this way), and if anything is going to happen between them might end up looking like an affair behind closed doors. Here Uranus could show that the sexual energy between them is very high but may be short lived...
There's also a karmic aspect cause South Node is conjunct Sun (and trine to Saturn/Neptune midpoint)... this gives an instant familiarity between the two as they have known each other since ever, there may be a soulmate vibe and a past life indication, but since it's south node it looks unsolved and an unattainable side may always be there, in addition the trine to Saturn/Neptune would suggest that taking off the ground romantically could be difficult, not impossible, but the two should be willing to face all sorts of challenges against their union. South Node here might deliver the feelings that they are "stuck" and there is little way out...
I think there are very nice aspects on the surface, but on deeper level the difficulties that you're concerned about are there...
Is there hope? Jupiter trine to North Node would say yes but it likely takes to be willing to overcome boundaries (north node in Pisces) letting go of fears (Lilith) and something else (reputation? personal ambitions? Venus in Leo square Jupiter) and the most logical reasons hindering your closeness (Sun/South Node in Virgo), likely linked to the work environment...

(Transiting Jupiter going towards Composite MC square to Pluto/Moon early next year, I think it will bring developments but it seems to involve your work environment and goals).

Hope this helps...

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MacKaylaLane
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posted December 06, 2020 04:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MacKaylaLane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you for your time. Everything you said rings true, at least for me... i don't know if it is seen in the chart but many co-workers tease me about us looking too close to each other and it is not a usual thing they have seen before happening before i started working there. He is also going out of his way to reach out to me despite our differences, seems like he doesn't care what people say. İ have tried to leave the company but he refused and said you have to stay... İ guess i am obsessed with him and doesn't leave my mind for one second.

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posted December 06, 2020 05:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stoika7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I guess Pluto(6th house)/Juno-Mercury midpoint square Saturn/Uranus in Capricorn might suggest there's an influence from the work environment, but Sun/Venus trine to Uranus could also suggest a possible "breaking of the rules" or an independent spirit against that judgement :-)

You're likley obsessed cause of the Moon/Pluto conjunction square to Juno/Mercury...

May I ask... is it so improper/damaging for you to establish an intimate relationship in your work environment? What would the consequence be for you? based on Venus and Moon aspects, it seems it would be more you than him to avoid romantic involvement.

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posted December 06, 2020 09:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MacKaylaLane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think getting involved in a relationship is more damaging to him than me...He is married with kids and 7 years older than me. He usually shouldn't interact with employees like me.. i should add that someone arranged the interview with him and he surprisingly said yes ( He rarely ever make interviews with candidates), the moment we met we felt as if we have known each other before, he even asked if I am seeing someone but at that time I assumed he just wanted to check if I am available to work long term at the company. I am also the only foreigner in the company and he made sure all necessary documents are prepared in order to start working. So yes, he is doing something that everyone is noticing...i think because of the sun/south node aspect this is past life connection and there is some kind of purpose to it, though i don't know what it is but I guess i have to wait and see...

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posted December 06, 2020 04:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stoika7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Now I see, it's much more complicated then and I understand your difficulties. The South Node/Sun can give such challenges, such as the man being already in another relationship.
Given the context, and since Uranus is conjunct Saturn and opposite Venus, it is possible that this is a temporary situation, and with Pluto square MC, it seems that the career matter could have priority before your relationship. So I would advice to be very careful and better understand his intentions before compromising and getting involved in something that might damage you, if it's not worth it. 💙

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posted December 07, 2020 04:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MacKaylaLane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you. It is strange how i came here temporarily and ended up being here mainly because of him. The day we met, Pluto/Saturn/Venus conjunction was conjunct his moon in Capricorn. Transit North node was conjunct my Juno/Mars and i had my lunar return at that time in my 6th house.

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posted June 03, 2021 11:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MacKaylaLane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
For learning purposes i am giving an update about the situation....I ended up being fired from his company on April without any reasonable reason let's say, i was shocked as he didn't make any moves and didn't ask even though I helped with a personal issue he had. I have never been so much hurt in my entire life and i feel this experience will make me someone new, i stayed in a foreign country as he promised he would keep me. A life lesson is learned i guess

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posted June 03, 2021 08:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stoika7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi MacKaylaLane, thank you for your update, I am really sorry :-( I hope you are moving on now... hugs

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posted June 12, 2021 10:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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