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Topic: Trying to read my composite and synastry charts with my new gf - advice and help?
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Travelman
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posted February 10, 2021 09:56 AM
  
My (attempted) analysis below the charts.   There are for sure things I like in the composite like the sun in the 4th house
and Venus conjunct mars. Plus we have a venus, mercury and mars Aqua stellium which is opposite a leo sun. The sun trine saturn as well. I wonder how Pluto in the 7th will play out and Saturn and Uranus in 8th should be interesting to say the least.
For the synastry, tons of NNode connections between my NN and her sun, moon, rising, and Saturn.
My gf's NNode trine my Chiron and sextile my Uranus. exact conjunct between my vertex and her Uranus. My gfs vesta conjunct my moon and venus, both exact
My vesta trine her moon, sun, and Saturn and sextile her rising
I like things like my gf's sun and Mercury in my 4th house and my sun, mercury, and venus in my gfs 5th house.
Things that leave me more unsure are:
We have each others Jupiters in each other's 6th house
My Uranus in my gf's 5th house
my gf's Uranus in my 12th house THINGS WE WILL HAVE TO OVERCOME:
Jupiter square venus
venus square mars
moon square Saturn
Her Nnode squares my sun
Saturn conjunct rising But IMO our moon square moon is not such a big deal due to other positive aspects in the composite and synastry and I also think rising opposite rising is not too much to worry about unless I am missing something. What else can I look at? IP: Logged |
Stoika7
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posted February 10, 2021 04:17 PM
Hi Travelman, I'm looking at the Composite.
The nodes square to Neptune can give uncertainties for the future, but also empower a soulmate connecion given by the Juno/Jupiter midpoint square to Vertex, so I think there are chances you will get married or will be together on a long term basis.
Chiron is square to the Moon/Jupiter midpoint and opposite to Uranus/Saturn, since Chiron is in the 2nd house, and Jupiter is quincunx to Pluto, there may be some issues at financial level or involving career plans which may arise disagreements between you two.
Other than that, I think there's an overall harmony and strong bond between you two.If I can ask, how does the Satun-Moon square Moon in synastry play out for you guys? IP: Logged |
Graham
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posted February 11, 2021 01:58 AM
In the inner chart of the synastry ... what is that person's 6th-12th axis issue (involving Jupiter) that is adversely affecting the 1st-7th houses?And what do you think might be the effect on that of the aspects made to the inner chart's Jupiter by the outer chart person? IP: Logged |
Travelman
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posted February 11, 2021 02:05 AM
Maybe I posted these too early as we are about to reach six months. We spend a lot of time together, she has kind of already moved in, but not fully. What I mean is, she has spent 3 different times living at my place on three different occasions: 7, 8 and 10 days, all three times were in a row, at my flat but than she will go home with her parents for a day or two. We spend every weekend together and have already been on a trip together. I have never had a relationship with basically no issues, in a way, so easy. We just get each other, read the mind of each other, sometimes multiple times per day, even if we are apart (like sending the same text at the same time). So it is hard to see any issues that might come from Saturn square moon or anything related to Jupiter. We don't feel the restrictions that Saturn can bring. Not saying they won't come out later, but we have seen no evidence yet. I have never been in a relationship that was just...so naturally seamless and drama free. We get along so well. It is, dear I say....easy, but at the same time, super adventurous, fun, spontaneous, lots of laughs, but we also can talk about the serious stuff. Hard to explain, but in the end we've spent a lot of time together. IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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posted February 11, 2021 11:29 AM
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Originally posted by Travelman:
I also think rising opposite rising is not too much to worry about unless I am missing something.
ASC opposite ASC (which means ASC conjunct DSC) is a very good aspect. Read this: https://advanced-astrology.com/ascendant-conjunct-descendant-synastry/ . Angles conjunction are all positive. IP: Logged |
Travelman
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posted February 11, 2021 04:15 PM
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
ASC opposite ASC (which means ASC conjunct DSC) is a very good aspect. Read this: https://advanced-astrology.com/ascendant-conjunct-descendant-synastry/ . Angles conjunction are all positive.
Thank you. I tend to overlook the DSC, including the aspect you mention. But it does ring true when I read this particular description. My DSC also makes a connection with her moon and Saturn and sun.
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Hikaru29
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posted February 12, 2021 12:23 AM
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Originally posted by Travelman:
Thank you. I tend to overlook the DSC, including the aspect you mention. But it does ring true when I read this particular description. My DSC also makes a connection with her moon and Saturn and sun.
I noticed...and I’m sure you feel her Saturnine traits strongly(?) as her Cap Moon-Saturn conjunct your ASC. She will tend to share all her feelings to you both positive and negative. That’s how I am with my guy. My Moon/Neptune conjunct his ASC (we also have ASC-DSC conjunct) and I tend to tell him a lot of things..everything...whenever I feel happy/sad/angry. I’ve natal Moon/Neptune-Mars-Venus t-square so I’ve emotional ups/downs and I realised I dump that on him too 😛, not trying to bully him (maybe a little, haha) but I always feel that he’ll listen to me and comfort me. I read that in Moon-ASC the Moon person tends to overshare their emotions..it’s true for me. IP: Logged |
Travelman
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posted February 12, 2021 02:00 AM
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
I noticed...and I’m sure you feel her Saturnine traits strongly(?) as her Cap Moon-Saturn conjunct your ASC. She will tend to share all her feelings to you both positive and negative. That’s how I am with my guy. My Moon/Neptune conjunct his ASC (we also have ASC-DSC conjunct) and I tend to tell him a lot of things..everything...whenever I feel happy/sad/angry. I’ve natal Moon/Neptune-Mars-Venus t-square so I’ve emotional ups/downs and I realised I dump that on him too 😛, not trying to bully him (maybe a little, haha) but I always feel that he’ll listen to me and comfort me. I read that in Moon-ASC the Moon person tends to overshare their emotions..it’s true for me.
She does but in general, she is very easygoing. Her chart shows that for sure, very much a typical taurus in that sense. She is pretty steady. Actually because of her cap moon especially she actually seemed a little cold at first. The first time I told her that I really liked her she replied with something like "That's cool". I make fun of her now and she admits she did not know what to say and feels bad her response was so "meh" because she was feeling it too. But ya, now that she feels more comfortable it has been a floodgate so to speak, of sweet words. I think Saturn is her dominant planet. Me as well so I actually do get it and we both have fire venus so that helps in the end. She is not a negative person in the least and sometimes when I am a little pessimistic she says "Come on, be positive" but in a loving way. It sounds like you have a sweet relationship with your guy, or it sounds nice, real too. IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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posted February 12, 2021 12:54 PM
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Originally posted by Travelman:
She does but in general, she is very easygoing. Her chart shows that for sure, very much a typical taurus in that sense. She is pretty steady. Actually because of her cap moon especially she actually seemed a little cold at first. The first time I told her that I really liked her she replied with something like "That's cool". I make fun of her now and she admits she did not know what to say and feels bad her response was so "meh" because she was feeling it too. But ya, now that she feels more comfortable it has been a floodgate so to speak, of sweet words. I think Saturn is her dominant planet. Me as well so I actually do get it and we both have fire venus so that helps in the end. She is not a negative person in the least and sometimes when I am a little pessimistic she says "Come on, be positive" but in a loving way. It sounds like you have a sweet relationship with your guy, or it sounds nice, real too.
I’m a Taurus too 🙂 so I’m largely placid and with my Sag Moon I’m also mostly optimistic/happy though Moon-Mars makes me a bit moody at times (he has the same aspect in natal). I encourage him a lot too and am affectionate but we all have our good & bad days...no one gets sunshine all year round...so when my mood is down I realised that I don’t hide it from him either. That’s what I mean by “both positive and negative”. This wasn’t apparent in the beginning. It developed over time as we get more comfy with each other. You’re right we’re real with each other. Sweet as well (our Moons/Venuses/Neptunes are locked in a cradle on our ASC-DSC axis) but we keep it real. When we’re upset, we don’t hide it. Won’t deny that we can kick up a storm...then we’re back to being sweet again. Sounds like you and your gf are having a great relationship. Happy for ya. 🙂 IP: Logged |
Travelman
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posted February 19, 2021 05:56 AM
Thanks a lot, interested in any other viewpoints too!IP: Logged |
julyjuly
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posted February 20, 2021 04:41 AM
This relationship seems to have began when Pluto was transiting conjunct your ascendant and her Moon. Even that solely shows that this is a life-changing relationship. Her Pluto is conjunct your Sun and in the Composite chart Moon is trine Pluto in the 7th house. Is she jealous and/or obsessed with you? She has Pluto in Scorpio in her 5th house and you have Sun in Scorpio. IP: Logged |
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