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LibraGirl92
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posted February 25, 2021 02:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LibraGirl92     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hiya all I was wondering if I could get help with synastry and composite with a new interest I have been talking to. We hit it off right off the back and it shocked yet amazed how much we have so much in common. Literally, both said the words: Where have you been all my life? lol TOB's are correct I am on the inside he is on the outside with synastry. I have also included the synastry aspect table as well to help as well :-) Thank you in advanced <3

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Synastry:

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LunaIscariot
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posted February 25, 2021 05:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LunaIscariot     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know I’m not either of the people you directed this towards lol but girl I like this for you 😁.

The Synastry is solid in their of mutual attraction. Good 7th house activation for him, and good 5th/4th house for you and 7th too since Neptune is your 7th ruler and his Capricorn sun is hitting that plus the 8th house with his moon in there for you. PLUS your mars is being hit in a t-square. You’re gonna have the stronger feelings here, but I still see him being very attracted to you with your ASC ruler mercury in Scorpio conjunct his DSC.

That t-square I mentioned with your mars and his sun/moon is actually a part of a much bigger, more dynamic and intense powerful grand cross/square with your own natal t-square involving sun, moon, mars and his own natal t-square sun, moon, Saturn, Neptune. You’re both making each other’s natal t-squares into a closed pattern grand square. This is HUGE, mutual pattern completion like this tends to be so attractive and like you’ve found your missing piece, it’s such a dynamic energy and very exciting and gives tons of chemistry, especially with mars being involved, this is very intense. This is also why you both said “where have you been all my life”; you finished each other missing piece/sign for each other t-squares. Now together you’re stronger and more whole/cohesive and compete than apart (that grand cross energy when you’re together vs just t-squares when you’re apart). This connection can be very addictive and co-dependant because of this. But also remember it’s hard-aspects and some malefic challenging planets involved (mars/Saturn), Neptune too since it’s in hard aspect is gonna create boundary problems between you two and confusion or deception etc. Add the fact you have Pisces DSC and he has DSC in Scorpio with Pluto there... you both already innately have boundary/codependent issues and tendencies within your relationships.
Your mars being involved, square his sun AND moon, and you both being Aries moons lol you’re gonna argue and fight sometimes, this is a given. He will irritate and annoy you and get on your nerves more than the other way around (it’s YOUR mars). His Saturn and Neptune being involved, he’s gonna criticize you or try tell you what to do a lot, or make you feel insecure, and he COULD even gaslight you (Neptune) or create some confusion within your self making you doubt or second guess about yourself and who you are (sun/moon) or your actions/what you do (mars) etc. because of his disapproval and criticism at times (Saturn). If he does do this though it will be out of his own ego issues (sun involved in the pattern).
With Saturn involved too he could be a bit cold at times in regards to your feelings, he might get easily annoyed if you cry or get emotional, he’ll see it as irrational or immature etc. and he could make you feel like you can’t open up or be as vulnerable as you’d like or usually are (Saturn in your sun and moon) because of the way he responds when you do express yourself.
Also, his chiron is involved in all this grand cross action, so there could definitely be some pain and learning involved in this connection. Also his vertex being involved too, this is a very destined/fated KARMIC soulmate connection. Mainly for your healing, learning and growth, even if that involves a bit of pain to get your there in the end (chiron). This is a very important connection for you.
Your Saturn on his Venus is also gonna make him a bit more cold towards you, not as effusive or warm in his expression of affection towards you. So I do see some barriers to true intimacy and deep emotional connection between you two because of all this.
This is shown in the composite with the moon square Uranus too, the hot and cold feelings and emotional coolness/distance between you two. With moon in the 10th, you might mainly act emotional will each other in public or to make a point/impress other people kinda thing about the relationship, but it might be an illusion (square Neptune and Neptune on the DSC). This again might take awhile to all come to fruition, it’s just something I’m seeing as a possibility eventually.
You do have that Aries moon in common though which is going to give you some good common ground and understanding and will make living together easier. Although! I don’t recommend living together, because you have mutual mars conjunct IC lol! So you’re going to stimulate the most anger, annoyance, tension and arguments mainly in the domestic/home sphere and environment between you two. This theme is being repeated in the composite of course too.

The composite is kinda bad though not gonna lie. He’s not “the one” that’s forsure, like it’s not going to a long-term thing I highly doubt it; it’s too scattered , not enough conjunctions between the inner planets (or any conjunctions at all 🥴 or other strong aspects, fixed energy or Saturn to pull this through for the next 5 plus years, and the 6th house stuff is going to become a problem eventually as it always does. One of you eventually will be doing more and more invested in the relationship than the other, there’s an imbalance here. Sun in the 4th or 5th (depending house accurate TOB are to the minute which is never the case, what’s on our birth certificates is iffy unless an astrologer was in the room lol!) is good though. And looking at the Synastry it might be him who’s less invested and how that 6th house stuff plays out since you’re getting both 5th and 7th house but he’s only getting the 7th house in the Synastry. But it doesn’t look abusive or toxic so that’s major, and always a good thing and why I’m saying go for it. A bad long-term composite only matters if you plan on having a long-term connection or marriage etc. since it takes awhile for the composite to manifest and come into play anyways.
Just take it slow and try not to have too high of expectations (I know you got that Pisces DSC and it’s hard to be objective and not get swept up in the feelings and romance of it all lol❤️ but since I don’t see this being a good marriage or forever type thing, try to not get TOO invested or your heart broke if this doesn’t work out forever. Definitely watch his actions and make sure you know where he’s at and his true intentions with you (like I said that imbalance shown with the 6th house energy in the composite and lack of 5th house/strong Venus in the Synastry compared to you is worrying and something to be aware of).
Keep it lighthearted and have fun 😘😘😘

P.S; didn’t I get an earth sign for you before about baby daddy? Go back and check lol pretty sure I got earth or fire sign and this guy is a Capricorn with Aries moon! but I was leaning more towards earth for the sun sign and sure enough this guy fits that bill

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posted February 25, 2021 09:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Graham     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
His natal Neptune is 84deg50mins from your natal Sun ... 10 arc minutes short of an exact 72nd Harmonic (85degrees00), which is the maximum allowable orb for this aspect. (So, the influence is weak and needs to be consciously developed).

This is an extremely positive aspect, enabling the two of you to "think as one" ... so, both know what the other is thinking - without either having to speak/express their thoughts orally.

There will be other aspects that cement your relationship, but this one immediately jumped-off the screen for me ... because it is a rare gift for two people to have, and has probably been acquired over many shared past lifetimes together.

"Fill yer boots" and "jump in at the deep end" with this relationship - as it almost certainly is a "match made in heaven" that was intended "to be enjoyed, here on Earth".

However ... it is not an indication of how long the relationship will last, or whether it will/will not bring difficulties and emotional pain. ... So, be sure to take note of what LunaIscariot has stated.

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LibraGirl92
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posted February 25, 2021 12:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LibraGirl92     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you both for the responses after posting I went to bed so late reply here <3 omg Luna so much info to take in Girl and you know what I remember you saying you felt strongly that my baby daddy's sun was strongly in Capricorn. I remember you saying 27 for the age but he is 31 and turns out has blue eyes and I remember you saying my baby would have blue eyes :-) We get along really well and I am planning this summer as once I am situated (job and all) to visit him in person or more so he wants it to be sooner.
He messaged me first! and after talking and finding out so much in common and get this shocker seriously....so we brought up about children and he told me he wants a girl and i told him about i said if i ever have a girl i am naming her Gracie Faye (I always loved the name Gracie and Faye is my middle name my grandmother who passed away in 2014 and my great-grandma (her mother) so it's like a family tradition and he was like Seriously Gracie? and I said yes I love that name which he replied that if he ever had a girl he wanted the name Grace (Gracie) Annabelle which was shocking that we both wanted the same name literally shocked me to my core.... seriously how rare is it for you to find someone who has so much in common with you we like for instance he is a catholic too didnt become until 12 and im a catholic who was baptised in 2019 27 and another kicker was that I have always wanted to learn italian and i did get the chance in NZ for awhile until we COVID and i had to give up because of how long it wasn't happening and i can't really follow along unless I am in the classroom. Well turns out he has Italian in him :-)
Its just shocking yet amazing about this connection with him.
There is no way I am letting this slip through my fingers.
I am planning this summer (as to get myself on the ground running with a job and saving) to fly out and meet him or as he wants sooner turns out he is his a big boss with the company he works (250k a year he makes) I feel a bit out of his league the man owns a BMW SUV and I told him I have always wanted that type of vehicle. Oh and one big important info: He has talked about me to his family and today I have told my family about him more so my mother :-)
But I will def be taking note of everything you have said Luna thank you so much, Girl :-) <3
Here we go Luna:
For you

1; I’m getting Capricorn sun sign strongly, could also be Taurus too but mainly Capricorn, I’m getting age 27 as well coming through. Brown hair, tan.
2: I think he will have a lot of hair when he’s born, he will be fiesty as well. Always thirsty/wanting to drink milk lol. A happy baby, but could have some troubles/complications when he’s first born. You might have a tough delivery, I’m hearing “tearing”, so be prepared for that. Overall everything will go smooth though, just a few hiccups. He’s going to have coloured eyes I think too, blue." http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/026288.html
from my Baby fever exchange thread <3 :-)

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LunaIscariot
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posted February 25, 2021 01:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LunaIscariot     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Super cool!
Yup I remember channeling all that for you, come thru spirit 🥰👍
Are you 27? That could be why I was getting that number lol or might still be significant for you so keep it in mind!
Keep us updated love

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LibraGirl92
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posted February 25, 2021 01:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LibraGirl92     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No I am 28 going on 29 this October :-) <3 27...hmm could be the day the child may be born possibly not sure but yesterday he asked him if I believe in first love at sight which I responded yes I truly do but def will keep you updated girl :-) <3 <3
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Super cool!
Yup I remember channeling all that for you, come thru spirit 🥰👍
Are you 27? That could be why I was getting that number lol or might still be significant for you so keep it in mind!
Keep us updated love

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posted March 04, 2021 08:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for todd     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi I am a bit surprised by the immediate connection.I have not really dissected the chart but there are a couple of aspects which surprise me.
Pluto square to Jupiter implies you are both in the same field of work or eduction. This isn't usually a aspect of aspects union because both people have singular ambition which take them in different direction.though as I noted it does give great intimacy if both have the same professions
Moon quintile to Saturn is also not noted for long term hook ups.often the partners tend to have individual l desires and ambitions.
Moon square to Uranus and Neptune is associated with immediate chemistry but not longevity.
When I have more time I will look at the responses and might learn something.

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