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Adriana
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posted May 13, 2021 05:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Adriana     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I’m curious if there is something in the natal chart of potential partner you don’t like seeing or even avoid? And why?

I think I feel uncomfortable with being too close with someone whose Sun conjuncts my south node. This is early Cap, so it could be that people with this placement make me feel held back. Maybe there is some comfort at first.

Too much Uranus emphasis would make them incompatible to me.

Also Ive know two guys really closely whose Mars is in the middle of Aquarius. It opposes my Moon and although I do like them as people at first, actually it’s a lot of attraction on a mental level, it ended with misunderstandings where they thought I showed interest in them while I was just being myself. The Moon can’t help itself and is just instinctive! Also both ended up being too insensitive

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posted May 13, 2021 08:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for vansio     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted May 13, 2021 05:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StoneMoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't necessarily avoid signs, but I look for certain ones. I have a lot of Pluto/8th house/Lilith so I know I need a partner who can handle and match that intensity. Air signs work the least well for me, so I typically know that an Air heavy chart is a no go. That said, one of my kids is Air heavy. We have a good friendship but I couldn't rely on this type of chart synastry for a partner relationship.

I look for Scorpio and Pluto specifically. I am specifically wary of Libra and Aquarius, but only because of how they hit my chart. And again, this is only for romantic relationships.

When it comes to friends, anything goes!

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posted May 22, 2021 01:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted June 11, 2021 07:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ESSSSSC     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have very little relationship experience (both self and observer), but what I can say is

- Pluto squares of any personal planets is very very likely to denote abuse at some point.

- High involvement of Neptune should be avoided (high chance of either _feeling_ 'cheated' or being the cheater).

- Moon-12: Moon in others 12th. *Horrible* feelings by Moon of not being [emotionally] seen(recognition of course but beyond that valued, appreciated) or heard('they just don't get it').

--- Warning: I've seen Ketu-2 a ton, and this has always denoted a softening of boundaries of finances of the House person - I mean like the Ketu person feels completely free and comfortable, thinks nothing of it/that it is not wrong, to 'take, take, take' of the House person's material resources. This is fine in marriage but for every other kind of relationship, be aware.

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