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Topic: help me with this past relationship analysis
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siberian blue Newflake Posts: 17 From: italy Registered: May 2021
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posted May 25, 2021 04:57 AM
Hello! I was wondering if you guys could help me pointing out the dynamics between me and this other person. We've been together 4 years when we were younger and we've been on-off contacts for about 11 years now. She had a really tough time back in 2019 and i really felt bad for it. I couldn't be there for her as much as i wanted to. I don't feel romantically involved anymore (i spent 8 years after the split feeling really low and sad) but i'm curious. Can you see something worth knowing? http://ibb.co/YQ8ZYty
composite http://ibb.co/8bcMk2v progressed http://ibb.co/CszPkJQ
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Stoika7 Knowflake Posts: 2101 From: Rome, Italy Registered: Mar 2019
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posted May 25, 2021 04:39 PM
Hi again :-))Here in this Composite the detachment and separation is very clear. Saturn is quincunx Jupiter and the Saturn/Moon-Juno midpoint is opposite Jupiter, and the Moon-Juno/Jupiter midpoint is conjunct to South Node. With Moon conjunct Juno and quincunx to Pluto, the connection looks emotionally very intense, the Mars/Venus midpoint is conjunct to Jupiter and trine to North Node, so there was a strong sense of committment and potential long term expectations... with Jupiter/Mercury trine to North Node/Uranus, there was likely a psychic connection. But Chiron is opposite Saturn and square to Eros/Vertex, so here there was an unattainable situation and the Chiron/Saturn opposition suggests that likely one of the two wasn't ready for such a committment... with Vertex here the separation looks quite fated. This is a very karmic connection, Saturn in Aquarius may point to the fact that they both had to let go and learnt to gain self-reliance... The Moon-Juno/Jupiter midpoint conjunct South Node clearly shows that they had to part ways and let go, even though it likely took time and their bond may always be felt beyond time. This is also shown in the synastry with their Pluto/IC conjunct to your Sun and their Moon conjunct to your IC, they felt a strong family bond with you. But their Chiron on your Mars opposite Neptune may have hindered your life direction and may have given you a lot of uncertiainties, not helping your need to to build your self-confidence and self-reliance... this though may also show you may have had guilty feelings. In the Composite, in addition, Venus square Uranus shows that there was an abrupt detachment and that this was likely a temporary connection. IP: Logged |
siberian blue Newflake Posts: 17 From: italy Registered: May 2021
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posted May 26, 2021 02:07 PM
Thank you so much for giving me some insights. I really feel like I care for this person on much deeper level, like family, more than romantically anymore so it resonates. I think we missed our chance years and years ago and i'm fine with that. The past is in the past. You helped me see some dynamics that are now confirmation of what I already knew. It's crazy. Thank you again darling. (: IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 142915 From: Your Friendly Neighborhood Juris Doctorate. Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 07, 2021 11:21 AM
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