Posts: 69
From: zagreb
Registered: Mar 2020

posted June 03, 2021 12:12 AM            

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In my natal chart i have placements that points out that im attracted to men of different nationality/race from my state, which is really true. Some personal planets in 9th house or in Saggi so majority of my relationships were with foriengers.

this may be 2 weird question:
1: But does it mean men from my own nationality will be less attracted to me because of that?

and 2: If I have a thing for foreingers shown by natal aspects does it mean that some foreingers will be attracted to me as well,or they also need to have similar natal placement? Or is about synastry?

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From: Asia
Registered: Nov 2018

posted June 03, 2021 03:34 AM            

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Need to differentiate who you attract and who you eventually end up with. My natal also shows an inclination towards a foreign spouse although I don't have a preference either way. I've dated both locals and foreigners over the years and now I'm dating a foreigner.

So your qn: "does it mean men from my own nationality will be less attracted to me because of that?"
-- No, you can still have local people attracted to you, but will you eventually end up with them is another qn.

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does it mean that some foreingers will be attracted to me as well,or they also need to have similar natal placement? Or is about synastry?

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It doesn't mean every foreigner that crosses your path will fall in love with you. It also depends if you fit their partnership profile, and the term "foreigner" can also mean someone of a different ethnicity/religion... simply someone whose background is very different from yours.

Also I believe their natal should also show an inclination to foreign partners or finding love in foreign lands. My bf has Venus in 9H and in Vedic Venus rules his DSC so it's written in his natal as well that he will find love in faraway places.

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From: Tucson
Registered: Feb 2015

posted June 03, 2021 09:04 AM            

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My 7th House is Aquarius ruled by Uranus on 11th cusp. My Aries Sun is in 9th House sextile Uranus. I journeyed abroad looking for a mate, found her and got engaged. Returned to US, filed fiance visa--but her family blocked her emigration. Later I travelled to another country, found a mate and married her. Secured a spousal visa, returned to US before her. She flew to another region, abandoned our marriage. I never saw her again.

The pattern seems to be that if I want a mate to last, I must remain in her foreign country.

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From: California
Registered: Sep 2017

posted June 04, 2021 02:49 AM            

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Im not sure if that it would work that way. I also have a preference for guys out of my race. Im just not really attracted to my own ethnicity. I dont think I have anything in my chart that suggests it, maybe moon conjunct jupiter?

But I live in the US which is a melting pot. I notice I have often attracted guys who are white LOL I have dark hair and olive skin. Maybe they want something different. But Im not really interested in white guys, but Ive also attracted guys my own ethnicity too so there really is no real pattern.

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Registered: May 2020

posted June 04, 2021 12:49 PM            

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The Plunge / by Ezra Pound

I would bathe myself in strangeness:
These comforts heaped upon me, smother me!
I burn, I scald so for the new,
New friends, new faces,
Places!
Oh to be out of this,
This that is all I wanted
—save the new.

And you,
Love, you the much, the more desired!
Do I not loathe all walls, streets, stones,
All mire, mist, all fog,
All ways of traffic?
You, I wold have flow over me like water,
Oh, but far out of this!
Grass, and low fields, and hills,
And sun,
Oh, sun enough!
Out, and alone, among some
Alien people!

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