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Koho
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posted September 03, 2021 09:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Koho     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi all, haven’t posted in quite some time. I hope all the people I’ve interacted with have been doing well. I could use some help with this one.

Wrapped up in a heavy 8th and 12th house synastry. Some prominent 1st, 4th and 11th house placements. A lot of interesting aspects and Lilith placements.

My problem? I can’t think clearly about this one as I am the one with receiving in the 8th. I was hoping to get some clear head opinions on this one…

It feels like we’re both just magnetically drawn to each other. It wasn’t as obvious during the pandemic because of social distancing but now we’re interacting in person and it’s getting obvious. I feel like I’m in the calm before the storm.


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Randall
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posted September 04, 2021 11:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Koho
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posted September 05, 2021 01:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Koho     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks Randall.. appreciate the bump. Still hoping to get some opinions. I can’t be unbiased with the 8th house influence! It does help that it’s a long weekend and I’m not seeing the person.

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IV4Four
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posted September 08, 2021 08:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for IV4Four     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm not the best at synastry but, Looks like a really deep, with all those planets in the 8th and 12th house. The pluto opp asc is interesting to cause it is a very strong connection to each other. So you guys might feel very attached. The lack of clarity i feel is stemming from Neptune, Uranus, and Saturn all in the 8th-2nd house. It's like you want more but you both have to give it, but also why are you and what do you get from this? IDK in my opinion this could be a pretty interesting relationship. the chart is giving "in time and resources"

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Koho
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posted September 08, 2021 01:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Koho     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you! I really appreciate the read.

I didn’t think too much about the Pluto opp. Ascendant because it’s so generational with Pluto and I have it with many in my generation but you made me realize it’s more potent because of the 8th house activation.

I think you’re hitting the nail on the head here. There is a lack of clarity but intentional. The unspoken goal seems to be to function as friends because neither is available at the moment. We’ve basically limited our interaction to the same days we’re at school, and on those days we seek each other out like missiles as primary company. Neither one of us has made a move to hang out off campus individually or in a group setting. Not out of shyness but I think we’re both trying to maintain a strong boundary to the relationship.

I guess I’m worried we’re heading toward danger by trying to manage as friends and trying to maintain boundaries. Or if it’s all one sided and in my head.

Lol, this is my first time dealing with a heavy plutonic /8th relationship and it’s seriously just bad timing.

So we both seem to want more, can’t really give it right now. Then why are we interacting and what do we want from this. All good questions you raise and I appreciate that.

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posted September 09, 2021 08:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for IV4Four     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Koho:
Thank you! I really appreciate the read.

I didn’t think too much about the Pluto opp. Ascendant because it’s so generational with Pluto and I have it with many in my generation but you made me realize it’s more potent because of the 8th house activation.

I think you’re hitting the nail on the head here. There is a lack of clarity but intentional. The unspoken goal seems to be to function as friends because neither is available at the moment. We’ve basically limited our interaction to the same days we’re at school, and on those days we seek each other out like missiles as primary company. Neither one of us has made a move to hang out off campus individually or in a group setting. Not out of shyness but I think we’re both trying to maintain a strong boundary to the relationship.

I guess I’m worried we’re heading toward danger by trying to manage as friends and trying to maintain boundaries. Or if it’s all one sided and in my head.

Lol, this is my first time dealing with a heavy plutonic /8th relationship and it’s seriously just bad timing.

So we both seem to want more, can’t really give it right now. Then why are we interacting and what do we want from this. All good questions you raise and I appreciate that.


I glad that helped!

As you can see from my post I'm in a similar situation lol.

I also came across some information on my perfection year being ruled by the 8th house, I am realizing that I am also helping my partners move through their karma! it's very interesting.

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Koho
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posted September 10, 2021 10:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Koho     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ya, I think helping a partner get through stuff is what Sun in 8th or 12th is all about. I mentioned the Mercury in 8th in your thread. I think it’s playing a big role in both our cases. Without it, o think Sun in the 8th could be more uncomfortable because no discussion would be prominent, just illumination.

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posted September 23, 2021 05:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted September 23, 2021 05:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StoneMoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Do you think you could post the charts through www.astro.com? I would like to offer my thoughts but I am struggling to read this one.

What I do see is the chart rulers interacting, and the 7th house rulers interacting as well. You both activate each other's first houses, and Mars in the Taurus ASC first house is quite the physical attractor!

If you are able to post the charts differently I would love to help!

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posted October 02, 2021 07:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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