posted September 28, 2021 06:40 AM            

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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
There’s no aspects to his ascendant? Nothing? I would count the trine, but if you could, I’d like to see the synastry as well.

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Lacey thanks for the response
Well I think it's inconjuct his ascendant
Because it's in libra 23 degree
And my venus is at 23 virgo

But Is a contraparallel from his pluto enough to say that he aspect my venus??

posted October 03, 2021 09:47 AM            

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Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosionV2:
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/011348.html

See my first reply.

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Galacticcore thanks for the response
I'm not sure I got how this works.

posted October 03, 2021 09:48 AM            

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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
Oh, 4 years is a long time? Does he seem to lack commitment? Could you post the composite/Davison?

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Hmmm. I won't say he lack commitment
But he seems he don't like to discuss the things when we have a problem between us.
He want to jump to another subject than talk about negative theme between us.

Davison Chart

Composite chart

posted October 03, 2021 09:49 AM            

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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
Oh, 4 years is a long time? Does he seem to lack commitment? Could you post the composite/Davison?

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Hmmm. I won't say he lack commitment
But he seems he don't like to discuss the things when we have a problem between us.
He want to jump to another subject than talk about negative theme between us.

Davison Chart

Composite chart

posted October 08, 2021 03:42 PM            

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Originally posted by mercurialaries:
Something interesting I noticed is that your boyfriend has venus, pluto, and uranus around that 23/24 degree mark. This makes a venus pluto sextile in his natal, and your 22 degree AC/DC axis is sitting in the middle of the sextile. Not exactly but pretty close! So, that axis forms a yod for his venus pluto sextile, and also sits on his venus-pluto midpoint. Would you say venus-pluto aspect themes are relevant in your relationship?

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mercuria hey..thanks for the response
well its the opposite
im the venus sextile pluto
and the libra asc its his.
well i might feel some plutonian energy
but we have heavy saturn as well
my saturn opposite his stelium in virgo
so im not sure if i feel the saturn or the pluto

in the very beggining he was totally behaving like pluto
he was jealous and obsessed but he got morecool when the relationship kept going

posted October 08, 2021 04:19 PM            

What I was saying before was that your natal venus pluto sextile aspects his descendant through inconjunction/quincux. The descendant, while it refers to other people, can also represent your shadow, so it's possible that you trigger this in him with your natal sextile. Also, your venus/pluto midpoint is activated by his AC/DC axis. This is an interpretation I found online for this midpoint being activated by the AC/DC:

Ascendant: To be a person who crave love, or who crave a lover with whom one can have power struggles. One emanates a compelling attractiveness. http://john-sandbach.blogspot.com/2010/11/planets-affecting-venuspluto-midpoint.html

posted October 12, 2021 12:58 PM            

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Originally posted by mercurialaries:
Got it! I misread the earlier post, but yeah the whole configuration still stands, just for the opposite people. I also see now that his pluto and Capricorn planets are sextile and make a yod with your ascendant and moon as the apex. This apex also goes into his 8th house, which is a plutonic/scorpionic house, so it makes sense that he acted that way towards you before (the way you emote and act activated his 8th house). Also, you probably feel both saturn and pluto, which are both planets with heavy energies.

What I was saying before was that your natal venus pluto sextile aspects his descendant through inconjunction/quincux. The descendant, while it refers to other people, can also represent your shadow, so it's possible that you trigger this in him with your natal sextile. Also, your venus/pluto midpoint is activated by his AC/DC axis. This is an interpretation I found online for this midpoint being activated by the AC/DC:

Ascendant: To be a person who crave love, or who crave a lover with whom one can have power struggles. One emanates a compelling attractiveness. http://john-sandbach.blogspot.com/2010/11/planets-affecting-venuspluto-midpoint.html

So, it is likely that this relationship brought this sort of energy out of you and your partner! Mind you, I think you are inherently more comfortable with pluto energy because you have it natally in harmonious aspect. So, this energy may have been more uncomfortable for him at the start (he does seem super plutonian/scorpionic, etc.).

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mercuria thanks again for your fast response
you mean that he is plutonic or that he isnt??
sorry im not sure if i got it right

so you say i should count that inconjuction to his ascedant as an aspect/z???

posted October 20, 2021 03:08 PM            

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Originally posted by AlmaRegulus:
Try Draco and asteroids

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Well his Draco pluto conjuct my Draco venus 4 orbs

His Draco neptune and uranus opposite my natal venus

posted October 25, 2021 04:52 PM            

Even if your Venus is not much aspected in the tropical (and maybe you are not much into the girly or very feminine roles in a relationship?), there is passion burning at a soul contract level.

Besides, a trine to North Node is also significant. And that yod with his Asc-Dsc axis is a very obsessive powerful thing.

So basically you have Pluto-Venus theme at several layers:
- tropical contraparallel
- Draco conjunction
- yod with your Pluto-Venus sextile and his Dsc

Read about yods in relationships, you will be surprised!

posted October 26, 2021 06:52 AM            

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Originally posted by AlmaRegulus:
So you see, it is not really unaspected. No wonder that you got together and still together for a while, which would hardly happen with unaspected Venus.

Even if your Venus is not much aspected in the tropical (and maybe you are not much into the girly or very feminine roles in a relationship?), there is passion burning at a soul contract level.

Besides, a trine to North Node is also significant. And that yod with his Asc-Dsc axis is a very obsessive powerful thing.

So basically you have Pluto-Venus theme at several layers:
- tropical contraparallel
- Draco conjunction
- yod with your Pluto-Venus sextile and his Dsc

Read about yods in relationships, you will be surprised!

Amor-Venus opposition matters too.

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Alma thanks a lot for your response.
Well you are right I'm not that girly feminine role in my relationship. There are times that I'm but not very often.

I don't have any idea what yods mean.
Ill make a search

Nmby the way the venus pluto conjuction is out of sign does it count too??