posted October 11, 2021 04:31 PM
This could turn bad. When you feel like that about someone, that you can't control your feelings, your thoughts, that's not ok.
He has Venus opposite Pluto and he will attract people that will be obsessive about him, he probably looks really attractive, but he uses his Venus qualities to keep a partner, which in the end probably feels hurt by his partners. Oppositions from Pluto to Moon and Venus are hard to handle for the native.
You have the Mars opposite Pluto, which is as difficult as a square, probably a bit easier, which also shows anger issues, but mostly coming from outside forces that trigger this part in you.
I think he has a t-square involving Venus/Pluto in opposition, both squaring his Saturn. And he is with his Saturn making a t-square to your opposition in your chart. This will be difficult, but also you will learn something from this as in seeing how you use your opposition in relationships.
I have a Moon opposite Pluto in natal chart and it happened to me twice to meet someone to make a t-square to this opposition with Saturn being in the 7th house. I learned a lot about this, but also it was so difficult. I wanted to express myself, but couldn't. Also made me realise of the problems I have with this opposition.
The attraction is probably very high, lustful, obsessive, dangerous.
You have to check in composite to see if there are other hard aspects from Pluto to personal planets to see if this could be ok in the end, but those are already too many hard aspects from Pluto to say that it's going to work out without pain or problems.