posted November 03, 2021 07:57 PM            

Can you share your experience?

posted November 04, 2021 07:01 PM            

I think my ex-husband is a karmic soulmate as well. And I don't remember being too attracted to him physically, but drawn to him maybe.

posted November 04, 2021 09:45 PM            

Since I've had soooo few relationships, I kind of think they were all soulmatey to some extend.

(PLEASE DON'T QUOTE)

No1 (romantic but no sex; life-changing encounter, one of most important persons in my life, in contact for over a decade):
- instant (not necessarily romantic or erotic but just huge instant significance; and he said it was instant for him too)

No2 (romantic but no sex; I was oscillating between tenderness and repulsion towards him; he was quite obsessed; no more in contact):
- instant; actually it was strongest on our first encounter before my repulsion kicked in

No3 (my first guy; no more in contact):
- instant

No4 (never a relationship; I think shared past lives together; no more in contact):
- not on first encounter but around fourth maybe

posted November 04, 2021 09:59 PM            

in tropical, Draco, Draco to tropical

synastry, composite and composite to synastry.

posted November 05, 2021 04:23 PM            

The synastry is weak, but we do have DW Pluto Sun (opposition and square... which means his Pluto is on my Sun/Moon mp) and his Eros conjunct my Sun. His Juno trine my Venus, my Juno square his Moon. My Jupiter on his NN.

We don't have any Mars Venus or other attraction factors, but the attraction is there. It's most likely the Pluto. I feel he is a soul family member for sure.

posted November 06, 2021 08:50 PM            

During introduction, one of the first things my partner said, was mentioning her boyfriend. While there might have been a twinge of initial attraction, in my mind, that meant she was off limits and that I should not think of her in that way. Plus, I was in a phase of consciously regenerating co-dependency issues (Libra Moon conjunct ruler of my Sun, Mercury, and co-ruler of my Venus and Desc, Venus in 7th, Pisces SN in 7th, etc) and I was deliberately trying to stay away from romance, relationships, etc (had been for a year or so). More so, was trying to stay away from the feeling of a need to be in a relationship with someone.

Her sister was cute, didn't have a boyfriend, and so I was more flirty flirty with her. I ended up giving her a long massage, which apparently made my partner jealous (they already had a weird, karmic based rivalry).

Anyways, things got confusing when my partner aggressively went after me. Turned out, her relationship was on the rocks and they were separated. We ended up making out. She gave me her number, but I didn't call her (I don't know if it was that time, or another time a bit later, but apparently she had a picture of me that she was throwing darts at...). It was literally the first time that I was ok with just casual and not trying to get into a relationship.

There was attraction, but it was not overwhelming.

2nd time we met (another camping trip), her sister didn't come, and things got a little more intense physical and emotional wise. Very weirdly, after talking for a little while at night in the tent, I started to uncontrollably vibrate/shiver, and for awhile. I haven't experienced anything like it before or since.

But it was during our second meetup that I realized that we had a very deep and powerful spiritual connection, and I knew who she was to me and I to her in another life sense and spiritually. Interestingly, not long before meeting her, I was having some repeating dreams of seeing a full Moon, and one of the meanings of the symbolism I looked up, was about romance and a female partner.

There was one person that I was more instantly and powerfully attracted to, but I think that was because it was fairly recent, a couple years ago, and I was far more intune, balanced, aware, and mature than when I met my partner (I was only 21 then). Also, it may have been a case of two direct, literal reincarnated partners. My partner is not one of her Expanded self's directly reincarnated Soul selves. This is her first direct physical human life. She has parts of her from that Egyptian life I was directly incarnated in and knew two of her Expanded self's other selves (one my daughter, and one my co-worker and holistic companion, both whom I loved very much, though in different ways). But she did not directly live those lives--those memories/energetics went in to make up her Soul, along with others from other lives from other Souls part of her Expanded self, before she incarnated in this life.

When two Souls have directly shared a previous life and then both directly and literally reincarnate together, it can be VERY intense. (Especially if they also share a twin soul connection).

posted November 09, 2021 12:50 AM            

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Originally posted by Eternal Energy:
Hey lovely CardinalT-Square! What more is there that you want to know??? [b]We know and that is enough! Right???[/B]

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posted November 12, 2021 04:24 AM            

I really enjoyed reading your experiences.

posted November 16, 2021 03:55 AM            

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Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosionV2:
That's awesome Stonemoon. I have a future daughter coming, who is likely directly my mom coming back. I really look forward to it.

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Are you having a baby??? That is really fantastic news sweetie! Congratulations! Ahhh, I'm so happy for you two!

posted November 16, 2021 05:31 AM            

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Originally posted by StoneMoon:
Non romantic- my second daughter. (Though I consider both my daughters to be soulmates!)

Second kid, I knew immediately when I was pregnant. I knew she was a girl, and the connection was intense through the pregnancy. When she was born, I was the only one who could put her down for sleep. Everyone else could get her to sleep, but never to her room. Throughout her childhood she had an intense bond with me, never wanted to leave my side. As a teen, she is incredible. She and I have a beautiful relationship, and she still invites me into her life. I love both my girls, but the connection with this one is intense, deep, and knowing.

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Can I ask how you prevent yourself from doting on one daughter more than the other?

posted November 16, 2021 12:45 PM            

(by M. Delowar)

"In watching literally hundreds of relationships unfold, I believe that I can answer that question with relative accuracy. I understand what early feelings and behaviors most often predict when a new relationship will transform into long-lasting, true love. Of course, feelings of love can be more urgent in youth, and people tend to be warier as life progresses, but new couples are new couples at every stage of life. No matter when or how they meet, some people do experience clearly magical connections very early on in a relationship that predict long-term commitment and devotion.

I’ve asked my long-lasting true-love couples what they remember when they met the person who became their long-lasting love. I believe that those early experiences are often the litmus test of whether a relationship has the potential to develop into true love. I’ve had the opportunity to observe new couples who definitely have had those experiences and many are still deeply in love after spending years together. They all shared similar experiences very early in their relationship that helped them know that they’d found their soul mates.

1. Surprise

As people navigate their way through dating experiences, they are likely to have pre-set expectations of the early moments. Though most hope that each new relationship might be “the one,” they internally don’t expect that to happen. As a result, they develop patterns of interaction that have worked relatively well in the past and approach each new relationship ready to re-enact them.

When a relationship has the potential for long-term devotion, my couples tell me that they felt that their early connection didn’t follow the usual pattern. Each responded differently than they expected and in ways that were immediately intriguing. They had a sense of surprise that felt off-kilter in a special kind of way. Things weren’t going in a predictable and comfortable direction, but the new path felt different in a positive way.

“I saw her walk in the door and she looked interesting, but that had happened to me many times before and I didn’t trust my first responses to any new person anymore. I decided to get closer anyway, just to make the evening worthwhile. At first, she didn’t seem interested, but I persisted because something felt different in an odd sort of way. We started talking and, within a short time, this weird feeling started to come over me, like I was kind of out-of-body. I couldn’t quite put my finger on it, because it was nothing I’d felt before. I kept wondering what this girl was doing that was making me feel different. It’s hard to put it into words, even after all this time, but I can tell you, I wasn’t the same. I couldn’t have told you that night, but, in looking back, I was already in love.”

2. Intrigue

Everyone starts a new relationship with some kind of physical attraction. That’s natural. But intrigue is different. There’s a unique kind of interest in the way that potential partner moves, or the sound of his or her voice. People tell me that they just wanted the other person to keep talking, connecting, and staying like they couldn’t get enough of the experience and didn’t know why. They felt their interest and desire to connect growing from the moment they started connecting.

“I saw him first from the back. He was listening intently to another girl but not like someone who was just looking for sex. More like genuinely interested in who she was. His stance was, I don’t know, just kind. I loved the tilt of his head so I moved a little closer, hoping to get a better feel for what I was experiencing. When I could see and hear him better, something inside of me started to purr. Maybe someone else wouldn’t feel that way, but I just knew that I had to know who was inside that person.